教女性|婚后怎样用情商智商绑住男人的心

婚后怎么维持好家庭 ?对男人女人或许由于感情而融合，却大部分是以便心态而分离，心态才算是情场的主人公。以便真实掌握男人女人在情感中的不悔改，则务必从情商智商的视角来剖析，才可以拨云见日，寻找幸福快乐。

No.1 我真的很不错——能力被信赖

 shehuixuejiamenfajue，yinweishehuixingdeweihai，“nengli”yu“gongxian”shinanshipingpanzishenzuiguanjiandezhibiaozhi。yixienenglichusedenvxingchuziyuguanzhu，qidainengbangzhudelingyiban，youshihouyuezudaipao。hunhouzenmeweichihaojiating?lianaijiehunshiyihuishima?

 huanjuhuashuo，jiushishuoxiangganqudechenggongnanrenshenhoudenagequdechenggongnvxing。danshizuoqudechenggongnvxing，yaohenyoufangfa，buranbujinbukeyibianchenglaoxianshengqudechenggongdezhushou，fandaojianghuibianweicujinfuqiganqingpoliedeneiyizhi“heishou”。

 yincijiwoyigetiyi，zaitanchuyuanshouyiqian，shisansierhouxing，jiaruqueshishouyangnanren，hebuzhaoqqhaoyoututukushui：“worenweitayingdang……”neimebiaodayixiajiuhaola，qianwanbiezaitahaimeiyouquelidichuanchuxunqiubangzhuxinhaoyiqian，jiuxianchuxinjilvdixiashouxiangbang。

No.2 他哪点比我强——才华被赏析

 xuduorenwurenweinanshiwangwanghuichanshenghunhouchugui，genbenyuanyinzaoshoudisanzhebiaomiandexiyinzhu。shijishang，daliangdeanlixianshixinxi，“biaomiandeyouhuoli”jinjinyuanguzhiyi，xuduoneishihou，cujinnanshiliquhunyinshenghuodezhenshidongji，shitadenenglihuocaihuameiyoudedaolingyibandehaowuyiwen。

 congshehuixintaixuedeshijiaoeryan，tade“caihuabeihaowuyiwen”dexuqiuzaihunyinshenghuozhongshiqukaolv，yinertaduineifenqinggandezijintourujiuburongyineimawanquan。

 yiner，zhiyaoniyuanyiweichizhuhunyinshenghuo，kebukeyijinshirumamachangshuo，bawotadewei(huoshenzhishigengdiyidiandedifang)keyile，gengyingxiangfangfaxizhutade“xin”。

“心”要如何系呢?

 shuobaile，jiushishuoyaokaolvtadeganqingxuqiu。yi“caihuabeihaowuyiwen”cixiangganqingxuqiulaijiang，nvxingwubizaiyuyanshangchangchangjitamentingdadejili。

 ruguonidetazaigongzuofangmianzhuyaobiaoxianfeifan，biruweigukezuodejihuafanganhenqudechenggong，nihuozhihou，qingbuyaozaidashihuaxiao，fanguolai，zheishishidazuowenzhangde haoshi hou：“wa!zhangfu!ninhaolihai，niqueshifeichanghao!”

 bukoumendezanyang，zhuandaleniduitadenenglizhishangxiyuhaowuyiwenzhiyi。bingqietashigeyibeizidegongzuozhong，debingchizheshizhongruyiderechen，shilengshirekebuhao。zairichangshenghuozhongqingchangkuaichongfenfahuiwoshuobaile“tiaodoushu——kuazandezaoxingyishu”，jiarunenggesanchawudiduinideta duoduode kuazan，neimalijiumijiandeqingganjiuburongyizaishilixiangle。

No.3 丈夫，辛苦你了——勤奋有付出代价

 nishifouhaijidezaiganglianqingdeneishihou，nidetasuozuodesheshengwangsi、lingqiankunyeweizhidongrongdexingweima?birudabaoyuzhongzaidamenkoudengzhenihenjiu，zhiyibiansongniyishuhua，gaosudajiataxiangzheni;huozhemeiririyejianchengdizaojiewansong;jiqidangqiwenzhouleng，chengleyigezhongtouchelai，jinjinxiangsongtiaoweiborangni?

 zheizhongqiuaidexingwei，gangkaishishiyizhirangrenshouzuwucuo，gansibuji，danyiban haojingbuchang，dailianggerendeguanlianbianchenglaonianfuqi，nvxingyibuganjinanrendenuli，yizhiyuyixieqiaobuqitadeqingyishi，nanshimenjiuganjueshenghuodeyiyiquanshi。yincitiyini，ruoyuanyikaolvnideta“qinfenyaobeiganji”dexuqiu，yixiejudongshijueduizuigaiquzuode。

danglaoxianshenghuijialeshi，nihebuxuehuifangxiashoutoudeshi，zoudaomenkoushuoyiju：“huijiale?nixinku!

 jiaruganjueyixiaziyaolijidineiyangshuo，yixiejiannan，neimahaikeyi“jiezichuanqing”，genxiaohaizishuo：“babahuilaile，kuaiqubangfuqinnanvbao，wenfuqinxinbujianxin?”

 erzaitabangnidaolefeiqiwu、xilewanpanyihou，yeshibiewangjiyongganjideyuqishuo：“ganxieni!nizhenbanglewoyigedamang。”

 yongneimejiandandehualaibiaodanideganji，shijishangzaoyikaolvlenanrendexintaixuqiu，bawotadexinle。erxiayici，tajianghuigengyuanyijinipijingzhanji。lianaijiehunshiyihuishima?