youyigehuishuohuahuichanggenengjiaoliudexiaohai,shihenyouyisihenxingfudeshiqing。xiaoquliuwa,kanbiejiahaizinengshuohuidao,haoshengxianmu,youmuyou?weishajiuzijiadewabuyuanyikaikou?jintianzancongshizhanjiaodushuoshuoyuyanqimeng。haizizenyang nengshuohuidao ,zheijidiannizuodaolema?
zaiyangyuhaizideguochengzhong,bunengshuohuidaobuguanshidazhitiyundong、siweifazhan,yaoranghaiziyongshuohualaibiaodazijidesixiang,shouxianyaorangtamingbaihualideyisi。suoyi,jiazhangyaoxianqifatadelijienengli,yibangzhuhaizijianlilianghaodeyuyanjichu,ranhouzaigulitaduoshuohua。
一、孩子怎样能说会道之先学听,后学讲
genhaizishuohuashi,yaoxianqudehaizidezhuyi,keyijiaotademingzi,qingpaita,xianrangtawangzheni,ranhoucaigentashuohua;yuhaizishuohuashishengxianyaorouhe,yindiaoduojiayiyangduncuo(chuanshuozhongde“baobaoyin”a),rangtajuedeshuohuashijianqingsongyouqudeshi。
mamaduinvershuo:“zheishicao。”yuqipingjingerbudairenheganqingsecai;ruguomamadunxialaibingzhizhexiaocaoyong“mamaqiang”shuo:“baobei,zheishixiaocao,lvsedee,yanseduomeiya!”yidingbiqianzhegengnengyinqihaizidexingqu。
yinweiyouerdelijienengliyouxian,pingshikejiashangyixiechangyongdeshoushilaibangzhutamingbai,liru:wo——paipaiziji;hao——diandiantou。
二、孩子怎样能说会道之把握说话的机会,多谈眼前的事物
jiazhangshibaobaoshenbianzuiqinjinderen,weilerangbaobaoduotingduojiang,nibixuzhudongzhuazhujihuigenhaizishuohua。
duogenhaizitanyanqiandeshiwu,liru:genhaizixizaoshi,hetatanshentigebufen;daochaoshili,gaosuhaiziniyaomaidedongxi;waichuyouwanshi,gaosuhaiziyantusuojiandeshiwu。
yekeyihexiangguandedongzuolianzaiyiqi,lirumamaxiwanshishuo“mamizaixiwan”huobabasaodishishuo“babazaisaodi”。shuohuadezhangduanyaofuhehaizidelijienengli,yisiyeyaojiandanqingchu。
danghaizinengzhunquebiaodayijuwanzhengdejuzishi,biru“haoduogougoua”,womenjiukeyibangzhuhaizixuexixincihuihexingainian,shizhezhuanshuwei:“shia,yigongsanzhigougou,yizhibaisede,houmianliangzhishiheisede。”
三、孩子怎样能说会道之鼓励孩子自己说,并多向孩子发问
duojihaizibiaodazijidejihui,naixinlingtinghecaixiangtayaobiaodadeyisi,buyaodaitashuohuahuoshidangtashuodaoyibanshi,fumuqiangzhebahuashuowan。liru:haizixiangyaodongxishi,ranghaizixianshuochuyaoqiu,dangtaqueshiwufabiaodadeshihou,nikeyiwen:baobeishibushiyaozheigea?bingchenjijiaotashuochuwujiandemingcheng。
liyongbutongdewenju,tigaohaizizairichangdebiaodanengli。yikaishikeyiwenyixiefengbishiwenti:liruchidongxishiwenhaizi“haochima”、“nihaixiangyaoyigema”;suizhehaizilijienenglidejinzhan,nikezhujiancaiyongkaifangshidewenti,ru“xihuanmianbaohaishibinggan”deng,yindaohaizilaihuida。
四、孩子说话要及时回应和表扬
jinsansuidehaizishuohuakaishiduole,buhuibunengshuohuidaoleyexihuanwen“shishenme”,“weishenme”,biejuedetaoyan,zhuanzhudilingting,tingwantadewentiranhounaixinhuiyingta。
dangran,jishihaizinengbiaodazijideyisi,danjuzijiegoujiwenfaweibiwanzhengzhengque,yibanyeyaodaosisuihou,haizicainengzhangwodabufendefayin,suoyibuyaojiyuyaoqiuhaizizhunquewuwudishuohua,yebuyaomofanghaizidefayinlaiquxiaota,fouzetahuishiqushuohuadexinxinhexingqu。
五、提供其他启发性的学习或环境
1、社交活动
anpaiheshideshejiaohuodong,lirudaihaizidaoyoulechangwan,canjiaxiaopengyoudeshengrihuideng,rangtaduojiechuqitaxiaopengyou,bunengshuohuidaodehuaduoxuexishuohuaheyurengoutong。
2、绘本
ruguobunengshuohuidaodehaiziduihuibenhenganxingqu,fumumenkeyichangshimeitianchoushijiangenhaiziyiqikanshu,zheibudannengzengjinqinziganqing,duihaizideyuyan、xiangxianglihesikaonenglidefazhandoujiyoubangzhu。nihuijingqidefaxian,haizisuibushizi,quenengjingqueshuochushushangshiwudemingcheng,shenzhishuochuxiayiyedeneirong!
3、游戏
haizihenxihuanyibianwanyibianmiaoshuzijizaizuoshenme,banyanmougeshuxidejiaose,huoshibataxiangxiangzhongdeqingjingshuochulai。nikeyigenhaiziyibianwan,yibianduihua,yiyouqudefangshiqifatadeyuyan。liruhaiziaiwanjimu,bianliyongwanjimushigentashuohua:“baobaowanjimu,diedehaobange。zheishihongse,zheishilvse,neizheishishenmeya……”
4、音乐
genhaiziyiqitingchangergeyekeqifayuyan,yinweihaizidouhenyouyundonggan(yitingdaoyinlejiukaishiyaobaiyoumuyou),jiazhangkeyijihaizijieshuoergededagaiyisi,changdeshihoujiashangdongzuo,jiugengnengxiangshouqizhonglequ。
zuihouyaobuchongshuoyidian,goutongshishuangxianghudongde,dianshihuoluxiangdengdanxianggoutongbingbunengyouxiaobangzhubaobaodeyuyanfazhan,baobabaomamenbunengtoulan,haishiyaozijiduoduopeiban,duoduoduihua,rijiyueleideyuyanhongzha,cainenghuanlaihaizimouyirizaiyuyannenglishangdehoujibofa、tufeimengjin。
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