qidaiyouyigebazijipengzaishouxindenanyou?jianxinbaifenzhijiushijiudianjiudenvrendoushihuishuoyes。puguanghuazhenqingganjigou,jinjinquanshijienaliyouneimehaodeshie,youmuyoufangfanenggouzuodaozheiyimudi?youde,jinriguicaiduinishuoqigexiaoqiaomen,nanrenjiangnipengzaishouxin。
liangrenzaiyiqi,laiyuanyubuyiyangdeziranhuanjing,youyuziranhuanjingchanshengdechabie,mocashijuticunyoude。daozhizheileimocadelaiyuanyu,budanshejidaoshenglixuezhufangmian,ruzhangxiang,shentisuzhi,jingshenshizhitexing,xingtexing,gecengmiantexing,gengshejidaoxinlizhuangtaizhufangmian,ruganqing,xingqing,siweimoshi,qichang,wenhuasuyang,zhishitixi,caikeyi,xingquaihao,xinnian,naizhihaihenduoshehuirenzhibiaozhun,ruyingxiangli,shehuifazhanlianluo,puguanghuazhenqingganjigou,diqutedian,zheixie。dabufenqingkuangxia,liangrenyushang,nengzouzaiyiqizaoyishiyuanfen。zairichangshenghuodequanguochengzhong,haibixuzhangqimoheqicaikeyixiguanxingxianghu。
youyunanhaihenvhaibenshenyeyoufazhanziranhuanjingdechabie,daduoshuhuozaochengyixieneiyangnazhongdemaodun,neizenyangcainengfangzhizheizhongmaodunni?
1.重视另一方的盆友
wuyileijurenyiqunfen,lingyifangdepenyoukendingshilingyifangrentongde,jiusuanshijiuroupengyouzaitaxinliyeshixingfude,zuoweinvyoudeniyinggaiquzhongshitamen,erbushidishitamen,jienatamensuihouhetamenrongdaoyiqiqu。hetadexiongdidahaolaguanlian,dengdaitamendexiongdichaozhenijiandaonidehaodeqingkuangxia,duidajiaduixingfukuaileqingganyongyou feichanghaodegongxiao。fanguolaijiarunibukeyigaibianxintaiqudishitamen,wanbushangyiqi,zaochengbierenbumanyiledaihuierxiangxijieshaogekeyiwandaoyiqidenvyoujiangnihuanle,jiubeitongyujuele,jiuroupengyouyoushihoujiuhenvrendehaoguimiyiyang,shouwozheshiquan。yinerneixinzairuhenanshou,ganwanbuyaoshuochuqu,zongzhinixuyaohenanpengyouzaiyiqi,yizhiyaoxuexipeixunhetamenjiaowang,xianzhuangzuoxiaitamenba,suihoumomodideyongniderichengbiaopaijidiaotayuxiongdihuanjudeshijian。
2.积极家务劳动
nanrendaduoshushilande,feichangshaoxiaiqujiawulaodong,cikenijiuxuyaorenkeqijiawuhuo,bazijidejiashulidehaohaodide,kantahairuhefangqini。
3.做一个好儿媳
yulaiyuduodepoxizhijianbuyoushan,cikedajiayingdangjiejinquanliqufangzhizheizhongnanti,zhongjiuniyebuyuanlingyibanjiazaiganqinghezhenqingzhongjianba。yiyangyigeyouxiaodaodenvrennengweizijidadajiafen。conghuidexifuerhuineiyangzuo:youhaokandaitadeqinren,shaopengmian,duosongliwu。duitashuoniaitadeqinren,yaojiejinquanlifangzhidajiayinqinrenfashengzhengzhi,bingbapengmianshijiansuozhuzaishengchenhuochuantongjieri。neiyangyekeyijinanxingqinrenchanshenghaoyinxiang。shuodaozheierguicaizaiduinishuoyigemimi:zailaogongyanqian“jubao”jiapodefangfa,yibanrenwokelaowene!
4.明白忍让
nidenanpengyoumingbaiduo,queyeyixiezhigaoqiyang,gennitangulunjinshizongyaofenchushengfu,zaidajieshanghurantigaoyinliang,weilegenghaodiyixiewuguanjinyaodenantizhengchaobingbucongming,conghuidenvrenhuijinanpengyouqingmian,hongta:“nishiduide,shuodemanyouxiedaolide”zheijinjinyishiderenrang,meibiyaohezishendelianrenyouyuyixieshierdaqilai,zheibuzhi。chaohuosheng,biaomingninanyoubuqizuoyong,nimuguangcha,chaoshudiao,zishenbuyukuai,hebini。
5.欲擒故纵
puguanghuazhenqingganjigou,dangzishendenanrendingzhubiedenvrenkanshi,nvpengyoushiduoshaohuiyixiebushiziweiba?cikeliangzhezhijianjiangneinvrentifeihuozhejiangnanpengyoudetouzhuanhuijiazaichoumayidunlingrenkanrenao,bibushangduitasahuang:“nishuangyannenggouluanpiao,keshinideguanhaozijiderenti。”jiarutahuanshibuzhihuigai,neimenihetazaiyiqishi,jiufukuadesuilukaiqiangsizhoudekunan,keshibiezaochengzhengzhi,kanyixiatashifouhuishoulianxing。
6.接纳自身的挑选
sheidouqidaizishendelingyibanshigejizhinanren,dandajiadoulejiezheileinanrenhennanzhao,meiyoushiquanshimeide,duoduoshaoshao,cunyouyixiequexian,liangzhezhijianguidingnanpengyougaibian,bibushangjienatadezhenzhengmian,duitashuoniaitadedadunan、aitadedahanshengduitashuonishangxitadeyiqie,jiangtadequexianshiweitadetedian,neiyanglianggerenyebujinjinjijiaoxianghushibushifuhejizhideguize,buyetingqingqingsongsongde?zailingyifangmianeryan,aiyigerenjiyaoaitadeshenshangchusedeyiqie,haiyaoaitadeshenshangdebuchusedediqu。
7.立即沟通交流
renshibixuzaixingqing、guannian、ganqinggecengmiankaizhangoutongjiaoliude。guanlianyuejinde,duizheileigoutongjiaoliudeguidingyueduo。yaoshimeiyouneileizaiqinggangegelingyudounenghuodeshencengcigoutongjiaoliudeganqing,bianhuijuedeguduhekumen。pingchangwangxiayademoca,jiarubukeyilijidechulidiao,houbianbaofaqilaihenyoukenenghuihuiledajiadebenlaigaiyouzhedexingfukuaile。
yiqietanlianaidejiqiaohedangxinjiquanshiweilegenghaodijiniyunidetanenggougenghaodigoutongjiaoliugoutongjiaoliu,jiazhongqinggan。zhenduigoutongdejiqiaozaiqingganzhongdeyingyong,bixujizhunibenlaidechuxin:rangliangrendouhuanle。jiarushebenzhumocaikeyihuode,neizheijiushinibuyongdefangfa。
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