花镇觉得没效果可以退款吗？如何辨别你是否陷入了爱河？

 jiaruninaizhibuqingchuzishenshibushichenjinzaiganqingzhong，neimahenkenengnishiyijingzhuiruqingwang。huazhenjuedemeixiaoguokeyituikuanma？jiarunixiangyaozhidaonishibushiqueshixiainageta，huoshinideqingganshibushizaoyifazhanqushibianchengganqing，neimabenwengengshinixuyaode。yaolejieshibushinishenxianlewenrouxiang，jiuyingdangxixinkaolvdaoniduirujinnirichangshenghuozuiyouqideneirendezhenzhengniantouhejuede。jiarunixiangyaozhidaozishenshibushiqueshizhuiruqingwang，hebuyueduwenzhangxialietixing。

方式1:留意你对将来的念头

1、jiarunizhuiruqingwang，neimaninengwufaxiangxiangjianglaimeiyouneiyiweideshouhou。

jiaruniwufaxiangxiangjianglaiyinian、2nianhuozhongshenyemeiyouneirengenniyibuyibuyiqizou，neimanizaoyimishangtale。

 •jiarunidianjizhejianglaideqingkuangxia，yizhixiang“dajia”erbushi“wo”，neimanishizaoyixiguanyouneiyiweichuxianzainideshengmingzhong。

 •jiaruniyunizuiaiderendounengzidetaolundajiayinianhuoyinianhoudefangan，bingqienihenyouxinxinneishihounideqingganrengrannongyu，neimahuoxunizaoyimishangtale。

•jiarunikeyixiangxiangwanhun、chanzihuoshizhongguoxianggangyiminshimeiyouzuiaiderenzainipangbian，neimahuoxunishiaishangle。

•jiaruniwufaxiangxiangzhihouderichangshenghuomeiyouneiyiweihaihuijixuhuanle，neimahuoxunishimishangtale。

 •jiaruxiangxiangjianglaigenneiyiweizaiyiqinengrangnifeichangdadehuanleheshufu，erbushijiaolvqingxujibuquedingxing，neimahuoxunishimishangtale。

2、留意给你多常想那个可爱的人。

 jilao，aihechimizhongjianshiyouchabiede。ruguonigangkaishiyiduanxindeqingganguanlian，ninengchangchangxiangzhenizuiaiderenshihendangrande，danyaojiandao，jiaruniaishangle，niyinggaikaolvdaodangdajiagengpingwenshi，jiniduojingchangquxiangzhenisuozuiaideren。

 •jiarunihezuiaiderenzaiyiqiliugeyuehuoshichaochuyinian，danniyiranmeishiduofenzhongjiuxiangta/tayici，neimanishimishangtale。

 •jiaruniyizhizaixiangneiyiweihuizenyangxiangzheniyijingzuodeshier——tashibushiduiniyouganjueyijingkandeyingpian，huoshitaxiangbuxianggennilaishiyixianiyudaonidenvxingdeneigefandian——neimahuoxunishimishangtale。

 •jiarunichajuezijiyizhizainayiweimeiyoushenpangshi，caicetayijingganshenme，bingqiechajuezijizaixiangxiangneiyiweizenyangduguozishendeyitian，neimanihenyoukenengaishangle。

 •huazhenjuedemeixiaoguokeyituikuanma？jiarunichajuezijizaishangke、kandianshijuhuoshiyupenyoujiaotanzhengzhongjianhunyou，youyunizaidianjizheyouqideneiyiwei，neimaniyexushiaishangtale。

3、看着你是不是在做决定的情况下充分考虑那一位。

 jiaruniqueshimishangtale，neimaninengxiayishibaneiyiweiyunidangzuoyigejingyingtuandui。mishangdeqingkuangxia，niyibushizishenyigeren，yinernidezhongtedajueceyizhihuichongfenkaolvta。

 •jiaruniqueshiaishangle，nikendingbuhuijijimangmangzuoyigezhongtedajuece，ermeiquzixuntadejianyi。zhongjiu，wulunzheiyijueceshigongzuoshangdegaibian，huanshijuecenishibushizhongfanxiaoyuan，doushihuiweihaidajia2ge。

•jiarunishizhongburongyitiaoxuanbandaoyigehuirangneiyiweibukaixindediqu，neimanishimishangtale。

 •jiaruniheneiyiweinenggouyiqigongzuozhong、yiqizuozhongtedajuece，keyibuzhengzhijiudachengyizhijianyi，neimanishimishangtale。

•jiarunishizhongburongyitiaoxuanzuorangneiyiweinanguohuoshixinhandeshier，neimanishimishangtale。

4、想一想你是怎样看待那一位的缺陷，假如你确实爱上了，那麼你一定有充足的時间去意识到TA并有缺憾。

 jiaruniyiranzai“tahenjizhi”dehuanjie，neimadajiadeqingganshijianhaibugouzhang，bunengrenqingmeiyigeren——jibian jiushiniyanlideiphone——doubingbushiqiaruqifende。aishangledaibiaozhejienalingyifangdequexian，erqiexiangyongzheizhongquexian。

 •jiaruniqueshiaishangle，neimaninengmingbaineiyiweiyeyixiequedian。niwubikeyirenketaburongyishizhongshizuihaoshideqingtingzhehuoshiyoufeichanghaodeyoumofengqu。meishier。

 •jiaruniqueshiaishangle，neimaninengxiezhuneiyiweijiejuetadequexian，dannimeiyingdangchangshiqugaibianta。jiaruniqueshiaishangle，neimaninengxiezhuneiyiweibianchenggengweichengdanzerenderen，dannimeiyingdangchangshirangtabianchengchedibuyiyangderen。