zonghuiyounvhainachudianhuajiusuku:huazhenqingganshizhengguidegongsima?weishaduitaneimehao,tahuanshilikaiwo?shijishangqingganzhongzuirangrenwufajienadezhuangkuangbianshitouruyueduoderenyuefeichangrongyibeishuai。
youyutouruxuduo,yinci suichuzaihu;youyutouruxuduo,yinci husiluanxiang;youyutouruxuduo,yinci bilingyifanggengzaihuzheiyiduanqinggan,yezuifeichangrongyizaiyiduanguanlianlichonghuaiyigeren,yinci gengfeichangrongyisangshi,danyegengfeichangrongyiyouyusangshiyuelaiyueshengsilijie。
jiaruniyaobianchengyigenanrendeyiduanguanlianlideweiyi,naizhilaidaobaitoudaolao,conghuidenvhaihuizhengqueyindaolingyifangzijintouru。
yifangdetaiguozijintouru,huidaozhiyiduanqinggandezijintouruyuhuodeshidiao,jinyouliangrendouhuizijintouru,qinggandetianpingchengcaihuijunheng,bicizaiganqingzhongdehuodeyutourucaihuipingheng,qinggancaihuizoudegengzhangqi。
neimazaiyiduanguanlianzhong,liuyishenmeguanjiandiancaihuirangqingganshenghuogengroumeini?
一、情感共鸣来源于沟通交流共鸣点
shenwucaifengyanshuangfei,xinyoulingxiyidiantong。tashigudairenzhendui2geshenaizhederengoutongjiaoliushinenggou zuodaodezhendidexushu,keshizaixianshishenghuozhong,liangrenbulunshizairichangrichangshenghuohuanshizaizhengzhizhizhong,buzuogoutongjiaoliuzongshijiazhongfenqihewuhui。
zaixuduodeshilizhong,henduorenzhenduichuxiandefenqibuzuoyiqiebiaoshuhejiejue,jinjinlengbaoli,zuizhongzaocheng shuangfangdoujuedeqingganyueshangyuezhang,pobudeyiyitichufenshoujieshu。
shijishang,richangrichangshenghuoduozuoyixieyouliyubicigoutongjiaoliudeshier,liruliangrengongxiangyizekaixindexiaoduanzi,tashikaixindexiaogoutongjiaoliu。
liruchengnuochuxiannantiyidingyaoyouyifangjiaoting,bingxunsugoutongjiaoliuxunzhaonantidegenyuan,tashijiejuekunnandegoutongjiaoliu。
zhenshihelidegoutongjiaoliu,bujinkeyituidongbicideqinggan,gengkeyixiezhudajiagengweishencengcidezhangwolingyifang,didagoutongjiaoliugongmingdian。
erdangliangrenzaochenggoutongjiaoliudegongmingdian,tashibiliuyubiaomiandeganqinggengweiduofangmiandegoutongjiaoliu,ergengyingfanbeiaixi。
二、以男生的视角想难题
zaowuzhuzaizaojiunvrenhenanrenshi,jiushezhichuwuluncongshentijiegoucengmianhuanshisiweimoshicengmian,tamenbianshichedibuyiyangderen。
zaichulirichangfenqishi,huanweisikaoyixiashijiejuekunnandebuerbaowu,erxuduoqingkuangxializainanshengdeshijiaodulisikao,ninengfajuerutongdakailexintiandidedamenkouyiyang,xuduobulijielingyifangdegerenxingweihefenqiyededaojiejue。
ruguonilejienvxingganxingsiweihenanshengchuangxinsiweinenglidechabieyihou,ninengfajuekanchuannanrenbingmeiyouneimanan,zhenduixuduonantihaikeyiduizhengzhiliao,qingganshenghuoyehuigengjinyibu。
bawozhubicidepaimian,zaibicidejiaowangzhongnidangranhuigengweixinxin,neiyangyegengyouyiyulaoguganqing。
三、相互之间信赖
xuduoqingganchunantidegenbenyuanyindouqujueyubuxinrenlingyifang,erzheizhongdianxingxingdezhuyaobiaoxianyouyou:changchangfanyuenanpengyoushoujishang,jinzhitayuyixingxiangchu,guidingtadaonaqudouxuyaodaizhuzishenzheixie。
jinguanshuowaibianshifanhuashijie,keshijinidizhiyouhuodegongzuonengli,lingyifangweichangmeiyou?bingqieniyanzhongde“yecao”,weicengbingbushitarenjiadejiahua。
xianghuzhijianxinlaishiqingganshenghuodeyagen,jiarunibuxinrenlingyifang,neimabujinhuitishengbicizhenduiganqingtourudechengbenfei,genghuirangzishenguoduyikaolingyifangershiquzishen。
zaiganqingzhong,shidudeduzhanyushidiaoweiliao,ranglingyifangganshoudaonishizaiyitade,ertaiguodeduzhanyuzehuichengduihuipiaolingyifangdeshenshangdefudan。
erjiaruniyidanchuxiantaiguoyikaolingyifangdezhuangkuang,jiuxuyaoxuehaojianshaoxuqiugan,jiangdizailingyifangdeshenshangdeganqingzijintouru,taiguodufangzongziji,zongshishinizaizheiyiduanqingganzhongshiyongjiazhiqueshao,meifazaochengyouhuoli。
wanhuiganqing,kaodecongbushizhaqulingyifangduinidejinshenghaogandu,zhishiyingzaoyigexindezishen,chuangjianerciyouhuoli,ranglingyifangzaicifajuenideliangdian。
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