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 yiduanqingganshenxianweijiyihou，dajiatongchanghuishenxianyizhongshengsilijiedetongchuzhong，huazhenqinggan，zhengtuonanao，bunengziba，meifajienatichufenshoudekeguanshishi，yemeifarenqingkeguanxingxiankuang。

 yixietongkushimeifafangzhide，wubichengdande，fenshouhoudequelingrentongchu，keshijiarushiyouyuchenjinyutongchuerbeiqishangxia，yongbuduiwanliufangshi ，jiangyuanbennenggou hehaoruchudeganqingduansong，wanquansangshishenaideren，neicaisuanshizuitongchude。

yinci xialiezheizhongwanliudebihui，ganwanshibukeyipengchude。

1、受害者心理

xuduoshenchuzaitichufenshoutongchuzhongdenvhaier，youdehenyoukenengwufashihuai：

 weihewohenainineimashen，huazhenqinggan，tahuanshipaoxialewo?taqueshiwukuiyuwoma?wolaitaganleneimeduo!tajingranpaoxialewo，tajianzhigeshishizaizaidehuaxinnan!

 xiangyixiang，qingganwanbihou，youjigerangzishenchenjinyudao“shouhaizhexinli”zhizhong，manhuaiyiqiedoushilingyifangdebuzhengquedeqingxu，manmandechedishiqulizhi。

 shouhairenjiaoda dechuangkoushijishangbingbushibeisunhai，zhishibuyuanxuehuifangxiashouhairenderenwujiaose，ningkexiangshouzhezaitongchuhezibeidexinlizhuangtaikesuxingzhong，beifumianxinxiguannianqintunlixinghexionghuai。

 danzheijinjinzishenyixiangqingyuandexiangxiangbale，tazaocheng lewuligandezaocheng，shizhishiyizhongtuixiezerendezhuyaobiaoxian，zuihoujiangzaocheng congcuobaimaixiangbuchenggong。

 yinci bulunshienaishi，huanshifenshouzhihou，douxuyaojingxingbubiyibuxiaoxinjindaozheileixintai，ruguonidaizhuzheileixiaoji、fumianxinxidexinlizhuangtaiquwanliudajiadeqinggan，zongshiranglingyifangganshoudaoyayigan，jiangtayuetuiyuezhang。

jilao：weichixinlizhuangtaileguan，fenfaxiangshang，keguandepouxifenshoudeyuanyin，zaidujinxingqiadangdexingdongcaisuanshizuizhongyaode。

2、盲目跟风归因于心理状态

 renxiayishidejiangzishendequdechenggongguigongyubenshen，buchenggongguigongyuwaibu;erjiangbierendequdechenggongguigongyuziranhuanjing，buchenggongguigongyuqibenshen。

 qingganzhizhongyeshizheiban，fenshouhou，lingyifangzuidichudebianshinijuedezishenmeiyoucuo，yizhijilingyifangbiaoshuzishenneiyangzuoshiyouyulingyifang。

danshiganqingzhongguishiliangrendeshi，huazhenqinggan，meiyourenheyifangnengzaitichufenshouzheileishierlichedimeiyouyiwu。

lingyifangwangwangyaogennitichufenshou，kendingshidajiaxianghudouchuxianlenanti。

jiarutazaoyiquelibiaoshuduinidebumanyi，niquejinjinyiweidibiaoshu，buduanzhuzhongzishenmeiyoucuo。

neimalingyifangneixinbianhuijuedenishigezhimibuhuideren，erqiegengweijiandingbuyimingquetichutichufenshoushiqiadangde。

gengbeijudeshidangtaxinlirangnidadaole“zhimibuhui”debiaoshishi，neimawanliubianhuiyuelaiyuegengweijianxinle。

 shijishangwanliubingbuxiangdabufenrenxiangxiangneibandekongbu，kongbudejiushinixinlizhuangtaishangpobujidaifeijinxinsiwanliu，xingdongshangquebuduandifancuowu。

yinci zaiwanliudequanguochengzhong，bubijizhequzuo，zuoyiqianqingyidingyaoduowenyixiaziji“weihe，gaizenmeban”。