花镇情感坦然接受分手的事实，挽回就已经成功了一半！

 wanliuzhong，huazhenqinggan，youneiyangyigequweidezhuangkuang：juedaduoshuxiangwanhuiqianrendenvshi，doumeifajienatichufenshoudekeguanshishi。

 shijishang，huanweisikaoyixiayixia，yequeshifeichangrongyilejie。juedaduoshunvshidoushihuifeichangjiandandejuede：zhenzhengdeaiqingliangrendeshi，yaoshizishenbujienatichufenshoudeshi，jiubingbushiqueshitichufenshou，neimejiuyoujihui。

 xiangwanhuiganqing，danyoubuqingchuyaojiujinggaizenmeban，yincibuyuanyijienatichufenshoudekeguanshishi，renweibawozhuleyigendaocao，keshishishangjinjinbuyuanyijieshouxianshibale。

 shijishang，henyoukenengzainizaigentoushuciyihou，yezaoyiguanniandao，ruguoniyuezulanta，yonggezhonggeyangyuanyinhuijuetadetichufenshouguiding，tayeyuepaichini。tadebumanqingxuyuegao，yuewufacongzheidangzhongzouchuqu，paichideshijianyuezhang，nixiamiandewanliuyegengjiajiannan。

shijishang，tichufenshoujinjinyishide，zheibingbuyiweizhetabuaini。

 genghekuang，zaidangnanshiduinimingquetichufenshoudeshihou，zongrantaxinliduiniquanshifouren，danzuoweimingquetichudeyifang，shiduoshaoquanshihanyouneijiuxinlizhuangtaide。jibiantichufenshouzheijianshiqingduinishiyizhongyanlidaji，danruozaizheishihoutanranjieshoutichufenshou，gengnengjitamentishengneijiuxinlizhuangtai，zheiyehuizaiyidingshuipingshang，jiniweilaidewanliujieshuixingzhou。

 shishishang，jienatichufenshoudekeguanshishi，jiuyiweizhezhenizaoyizhujianmaixiangwanliudeqiadanglumian;ruoyiweidehuijuetichufenshou，buduanzaizhaoyuanyinyongtuociwangtuxiyinta，bianshizaisaizhuzishenwanliudelu。

实际上，挽留这件事情，在早期最重要的便是心态调整。自然，如今对你而言，愿意提出分手就代表着舍弃一根稻草，事实上仅仅想得太偏执，想心态调整，变化心理状态，就需要先认清晰这好多个客观事实，迅速变化心理状态——

1.他明确提出提出分手，不意味着不爱你

 jinguancike，tagennimingquetichutichufenshou，erqiezairuguonibiaomingchuwanhuideshike，zhuyaobiaoxiandechuxianyichangdichu，danwojuedeyiweizhetajiuduiniyidianqinggandoumeile。

shishishang，taduinideganqinghuanshiyoude，zhibuguoshilinshibeifumianqingxusuoyougongzhan，yinci caihuizhuyaobiaoxianchubumanqingxu。

 ganqingburongyiyishunjianxiaotui，zongshibansuizheshijian，jianjiandijiangdi，zuihoujiangzhizuidixian，cihoutayazaixindi，zaiyebunengsuibianpengchu。

tahaiaini，huazhenqinggan，zhibuguoshirujinquanbeifumianqingxugongzhanle，gaiguoduinideganqing，caihuizhuyaobiaoxiandeneimadichu。

2.他明确提出提出分手，不意味着你满盘皆输

 tamingquetichutichufenshou，buyiweizhezaizheiliduanganqingzhong，nijiushigechetoucheweideshibaideren，gengbudaibiaozhenimanpanjieshu。

 queshi，zaitamingquetichutichufenshoudeshike，tashuodaolexuduozhonghua，gengjianglexuduojiniganjuehenxinhandehua，zheixiefourendeguanjianzi，luozainideerli，doushihuijinizaochengneiyangdeniantou：wozhenbuchenggongya。

 yagenmeiyoubixuneiyangxiang，jinguantamingquetichuletichufenshou，queshizaifourenniyudajiadeganqing，yequeshihenyoufanlebuzhengque，danyiqiedounenggougenggai，yiqieshierdouhaiyoujihui。

3.他明确提出提出分手，你是能够 挽留的

jinguantamingquetichuletichufenshou，naizhihaihenquelideduinishuo：womendoushibutaikenengdele。

 danshishishangtajinjinshuodehenhuabale，rujindeta，bayiqiexintaidoubiandale，fumianxinxichengxuliuchengchedicaokongzishen，zaocheng shierkanshangquhenjiduan。