花镇靠谱吗？正确面对TA的犹豫，才是挽回中的关键因素

zaichulilingyifangchiyidenantiyiqian，huazhenkaopuma？dajiaxiantaolunyixiawanliuzhonglingyifangchiyideyouyinshisha。

shijishang，jianyieryan，yigerenzaochengdanxindexintai，buwaihuyouyu“xintaiweihai、qingjingweihai、gerenxingweiweihai”zhei3zhongzhuangkuang。

yinci ，zaiwanliuzhongyingduitadechiyishi，cong“xintaizhengqueyindao、qingjingzhengqueyindaohegerenxingweizhengqueyindao”zhei3gecengmianxiashou，jiunengjudashuipingderangshierwanglihaoxiaoxidefangweifazhanqushi。erxuduowanliuduicedezhiding，yeshiyijuzheisandayaosutuokuanchuqude。

duiyuzheizhong“chiyideren”eryan，tagenghenyoukenenghuibeishenpangderenhezishenyoufasuoweihai。

例如，下边这一实例：

ahebtichufenshouyouyigebanduoyuele，byouyumingxiandeyaoxiangwanliu，yincijiuzhaodaoyisideganqingjiaolianyuanqiuzhu。zaiwanliuquanguochengzhong，ajiuchuxianledanxinxubuxuyaofuhexingdezhuangkuang。zhihou，zaiganqingjiaolianyuandeshenrulejiexia，fajueyuanxiandangshiliangrentichufenshou，shiyouyuashenpangdehaoduogepenyouchangshuobbingbushinengzhangqizaiyiqideren，zuizhong2geyouxiurencaibugaoerbiede。errujin，awangwangchiyihedanxin，yeshiyouyushenpangpenyoushuo“jiranfenlejiumeibiyaozaiyiqile”，zaizaijiashangazishenyeyoudianweishouweijiaodehanyi，yinci caidaozhilerujinxianrujiangjudejushi。

zaizheigeshilizhong，abianshidianxingxingdebeipenyouheziworentongsuozhengqueyindaoderen。

jiarushuo，tashiyouyupenyoudeguandianweihai，erzhujianchiyixubuxuyaofuhexingde。neima，zaiwanliuduicedingzhideqingkuangxia，jiuxuyaoba“tapenyoudecanzhaojianyi”zuoweibixuyaosu，tianjiadaoshijicaozuozhizhonglai。

为什么呢?

youyujirantahuibeipenyouweihai，biaomingtashiyigemeiyoutaijiandingbuyixiangfaderen。jiranzheiyang，neima，shizhequweihaitadepenyou，rangtadepenyouduijinigaibian，cong“quanfen”bianwei“quanhe”，dangranduinishiyouyide。

jiarushuo，tashijishangshiyigeshifenhuibeiziworentongyoufaderen，youyinggaizenmebanni?

huazhenkaopuma？quanbuhuibeiziworentongyoufaderen，quanshigujixuduoqiemeiyoushiduoshaoguishuganderen。yinci ，zaiwanliudeshijicaozuozhong，jinkenengrangzishendegerenxingweifashenggaibian，weicilaizhengqueyindaotajiandaonidegenggai，bingzhujianchuangjianguishugan。

keshi，yaoxiangxiaochudiaoyigerenxingqingshangdegujiheguishugandequeshao，shiyijianshifenbuyideshier，yinci ，genggaibenshengerenxingweibingchangshiweihailingyifangdezheiyiquanguocheng，shishifenyouzhangde。

danzaizheileizhuangkuangxia，jiugengbixujianchibuxie，zhongjiu，niuquxintaiburongyizheimejiandan。

不必过多了解

yeyouyizhonghuiranglingyifangzaochengyinweizhuangkuangdeyaosu，shilaiyuanyunibenshende。

yiqianyouyici，woduimouyishoutuorendetiyishi：weichizaitayanqianchuxiandepinlv，bubirangtaduinidexintailengmochulai。

danshi，zheiyishoutuorenquebawomenjianyiguoduolejiele。

yinci，tazhujianbuduantishengzishenzailingyifangrichangshenghuochuxiandepinlv，wulunshipengyouquanhudonghuanshiweixinshangxianliao，naizhimeiridouguidingzhengduimianchuqupengmian。

zheileizhuangkuangbuduanleyizhouyihou，yuanbenzaoyiyouyidianxiangfuhexingderen，quezhujianchiyifuhexingshifouyigeqiadangdejuecele。

zheijiushiyouyuzishenguoduolejielaoshiheganqingjiaolianyuandetiyiyihou，erdaozhidenankanjushi。

wojuedebiaomingdeyidianshi：wojinguanchangshuoyaoquebaozishenzailingyifangyanqiandeyouyuegan，keshi，weichiyouyueganbingbuyiweizhejingchanglaofan。

jiarunidechuxianlvtaiguodujingchang，youqishizaiwanliuqianqihuoshilengjingqizhong，niyuexiangzhuyaobiaoxiandejijizhudong，lingyifangbianhuiyuedanxin、yuechiyi。

zheishiyouyulingyifangzishenjiubuquedingxingfuhexingshifouyigeqiadangdejuece，jiaruzheigeshihouniyizhixiangqiangzhiweihailingyifangdeluojisiweijigerenxingwei，neima，tazongshichuxianyizhongxinlizhuangtai：“jirannineimeqianghan，neimexinji，neiwobuxinjile，wonengjianjiandikaolvdao。”