花镇情感咨询给退款么？如果挽回时你还踩到这四个雷区

 xuduorendaoyikaishiwanliudeqingkuangxia，ganjueyaoshizishenkendixiatou，huazhenqingganzixunjituikuanme？yiqianqingganhenhaodeliangrenhaowuyiwenkeyifanhuidangshitianmeideqingkuangxia。

yinci ，tamenhenyoukenenghuiyiweidigensuizishendexintaizou。bazijishangxin，shebude，biequdefumianqingxuyigunaodidoudaojilingyifang，xiangyinerranglingyifanggaoqingchutichufenshouduizishendesunhaiyouduoda。

dandabufenhuodedejieguo，quanshilingyifangbinglengdehuiying。suihouniyejiuzhujiangaobudong，weihenageyuanlaiduinidagedapentidoujiaolvbuandelebudederenxianrujinhuineimelengdan。

youyunimeiyouyishidao，lingyifanglaidaotichufenshouzheiyibuyiqian，zaoyizanleyicicidexinhanhewukenaihe。zheizhongrangtashangxindeyishunjian，bushiniyijuzhiqianhuozhefuwuchengnuojiunengsuibianmochude。

shenzhiyou，haipaodaoqiannanyouyanqianxuxutaotao，baxianghujiandeguanliannongdegengjiang。zhidaoyishidaozishenbixuxunqiubangzhuqinggandaoshishi，lingyifangdabufenzaoyiduiniyanjuanwubi。

yiner，huazhenqingganzixunjituikuanme？wanliudenanduxishudangranhuibitarenda，wanliubixuxiaohaodeshijianyehuijiaoweizhang。

weilegenghaodibuxudajialaidaozheiyichengdu，jinriwoyehuizongyixiazaiwanliuquanguochengzhongdesigejinqu，jinkuaixiezhudajiafanglei。

1.语言暴力，斥责另一方

yibanzhuangkuangxia，rendaofancuowudeqingkuangxia，huibuyouzizhudiduobizishendeyiwu。danqingganshiliangrendeshier，wulundangshilianggerenzenmehuifenli，lianggerendeshenshangduoduoshaoshaodoushihuiyouyixienanticunyou。

genghekuang，rujinjiushiniyaoxiangwanliuzheiyiduanqinggan。jiaruniyaogenjuhuaqingzishendenanti，laichizelingyifangyunitichufenshoushiyigebuzhengquedehua，zongshirangtagengweibishini。

2.死皮赖脸，不断搔扰

youderenzaifuhexingdequanguochengzhong，zongxiaibuduanyongdianhuaduanxinsaoraolingyifang。renweineiyangzuo，jiunengrangqiannanyougaoqingchuzishenfuhexingdexinxin。

jiaruduanxiaoxidianhuashilingdehua，naizhihaihuijixudaoqiannanyoudejiazhonghuozheqiyeloudixiakaizhanfengkong。renweizishenyifuqingshendemoyangyidingkeyidadonglingyifang，quebuzhidaoneiyangzuozongshirangqiannanyouduinigengweidichu，batayuetuiyuezhang。

3.负面情绪爆满，自我否定

youderenzaitichufenshouzhihou，quanshenshangxiadouchongmanlefumianqingxu。

weixinpengyouquanzongfayixieziwofoudingdehua，biru“woneiyangderen，peibushanghuodewanmeideaiqing”“jibianwohaojinquanbufangshiqiuniliuyou，niyiranxuanzelikai。”

yexuyouyiburenshixianggenjudihuizishen，lairangqiannanyoujuedeneijiu。danhenyihan，zheileidihuigerenjiazhidexingwei，zongshirangqiannanyougengweihaowuyiwentichufenshoudejueceshiqiadangde。

youyumeirenhuijuede，zishenbupeigengqiangderen。

yinci ，wanliuzhuzhongdeshiercixiyin。jiarunimeiyougenjuyixiliedeqinfen，rangzishendezonghexingfengcaizhankuangshouqiangengweigaodehua，qiannanyouyouweishenmehuizaicibeinixiyinzhu，gengbuyaoshuoyunifuhexingle。

4.太心急要一个結果

yaoshibingbushibulizhixiadetichufenshou，beigaofangquanshilijingyifanshenzhongkaolvde。yinci yiduanbuchenggongdeqinggan，titichufenshoudeneiyifangkendingshiganlehaozhangshijiandeguanniantiqianzhunbei。

yidanlianggerenfenli，tadexinlidangranhuichuxianbaolei。duinidetiejinhetaojinhu，huichuxianhenshendetifang。youyumeirenqidai，zishenhuibeitongyigerensunhaidierci。

yexunihenyoukenengganjuelingyifangmeiyoujiaruheimingdanni，meiyouduinilengmo，fuhexingdegailvbianhuifeichangda。

dankeguanshishishi，yigeyouyuniershangguoxinderen，burongyineimafeichangrongyizaidujieshouni。jiaruzheishideniyaojiyuqiucheng，buduangongjilingyifang。zuihouzongshidebuchangshi，rangtaduinibieryuanzhi。