挽回他，你就要戒掉这4个常犯的错误！有被花镇骗过的吗？

zaishijizhong，youbeihuazhenpianguodema？xiangxiaonanxiaominzheileizhuangkuangdeqinglvyouhenduo。

 yizhizaisunhailingyifanghou，zhidaolingyifangliqucaihuanghujianjuewuhuilai，gaoqingchuzishenshiquyigebixuaixideren，dianjizheyaoquwanliulingyifang，jieguomeiyiciquanshibuchenggongjieshu。

 yishuyoujuhuaworenweishuodehendui，tajiang：nijiangbierendexindasuile，nixuyaotaqushipolan，yixiaopianyixiaopiannaixindishipinqilai，xiangxiaopengyoumenwanpintuxiaoyouxiyiyang，huoxupingeshinianbanianyepinbuquan。

 doulejieyaowanliu，wulunshiganshenme，jibianweilingyifangtourugenggaodechengbenyezaisuobuxi。keshiniyoumeiyouxiangguo，zaiwanliudequanguochengzhong，shijishangnishiyongbuduifangshi，caihuizaocheng wanliushibai?youbeihuazhenpianguodema？neimayaoruhequfangzhikaizheizhongbuzhengqueni?

1.一直注重个人优点

 nvxinghuiganjuegerenyoudianquanshizishendeshiyongjiazhisuoshu，zaiwanliudeqingkuangxia，yizhiyitiaoyitiaodeliejuchuqu，xianglingyifangchuandichu“woneimechuse，duinineimehao，nijuranbubiwo?”shijishang，niyuefaneimebiaoshuzishendehanyi，yuefazaihaofeinanshengdeganxiexinlizhuangtai。

niyinggaishishitajiandaotazaizheiyiduanqingganzhongdezijintouruhetouru，shitazaochengyiyibushedexintai。

 keyishuoyixielingyifangjinidadongdeshier，jiarulingyifangbuyuanyiting，nixuyaoqingshendekanjiantashuodao：yiqianwozuolexuduorangnimeikaixindeshiqing，doubusheqiunilikeqingyuanliangwo，wonenggenggai，wonengyizhidengzhenide。

2.喝醉酒后的电话骚扰和蛮不讲理

 fenshouhouhou，yizhidianjizhejiejiujiaochou，jieguozuijiuhou，yuexiangyueshangxin，yincidadianhuajilingyifangquyoukuyounao，kenqiulingyifangzaiweizijiyicijihui。neiyangdexingwei，fanerhuibalingyifangtuiyuan，youyutahuiganjuenishigejiuzuijingshuajiufengderen。

 yinci yinjiudeqingkuangxia，nenggoulashangzishendepenyouhaoguimi，nenggouxiangtamenqingtu，bingdingzhutamenyaolazhezuijiuhouyaojitamentongdianhuadeni。

3.威协另一方

 bubidianjizheyongshenwangzheileifangfaquweixieta，neiyanglingyifanghuijuedenihenbanshipianzhi、guannianjiduanhua，tahuidanxinni，gengxiangfangqini。jibianwanliuqudechenggong，lingyifangneixinyebuhuizaiaizheni，liuyoudeyinxiangbianshinihenkongbu。

 jiaruyongyouweixiedegerenxingwei，hainenggouwanjiuyixia，wanxiaodebiaomingzishenbujiujinjinkaiwanxiaode，bingbushiqueshiyouneiyangdeniantou。kendingbukeyiyoudiercineiyangdexingwei，burandajiadeguanlianhuiwanquansuoding。

 bingqie，aita，zuixianyaozizunziai，xuanyongzheileifangfalaiwanliulingyifang，shiduizishendebuchengdan。ruguobuzizunziai，ruherangtarenlaiaizhenini?

4.见到他与异性在一块，就主要表现得不理智

 dangtafangqinihou，niyizhixianrutongchudexintaizhong，naozilidianjizhedeshizenmewanhuilingyifang。ertaquezhujianhebiedenvshengyouhui，ninengganjueyouqibushufu，henyoukenengjiuxiangpaoqutayanqianyoukuyounao。