怎么样才能挽回婚姻？如何拯救自己的婚姻？

 zenmeyangcainengwanhuihunyin？xianzaishizhongguolihunlvzhujianzougaodeshiqi，xuduodefufuyouyuyishizainaopiqilihunle，zhihouyouhouhuimoji。neimayingdangzenyangjiejiuhunyinjiubianchenglewenti，jiejiuzishendehunyinkanqilaiguanjian，zaineiyangdeqingkuangxia，liangrenlinshifenliyiduanlizhiyixia，huigengfeichangrongyikeguandiqupingdingzheiyiduanhunyin，yingdangzenyangjiejiuzishendehunyin?hunyinxinliquanweizhuanjiajiaoniruhewanjiuhunyin。

1.把问题摆到桌面

 niyinggaibanimenzhongjiancunzaidebuzuhuoshinibumanyilingyifangdediqu，nidouyingdangshuochulai，erbushizangzaixinzhongbuyongshuo，zheiyangyilai，lingyifangbulejienidexinsihebumanyi，neiyejiubiejixiwangyunimendeguanliankeyimingxiangaishan。niyaozhenxinshiyidebiaoshunidexuyaohezaodongbuan，bunengyongweihaihuozhechizedeyudiaoqugenlingyifangjianghua，zheiyangyilai，nimenzhongjianyebuhuiyouhaohaodichulidefangfa，zhinengjiazhongnimenzhongjiandewentihewenti，erqienidelingyibanyehuiduinisuobineixin。

2.倾听你的另一半

 ruguonidelingyibanzaijianghuadeqingkuangxia，niyaoxixindetinglingyifangzaijiangshenme，erbushidianjizheyingdangruhequbianbo。jiaru，nidianjizheruhequbianbolingyifang，neimajiuhuijinglibujizhong，zheiyangyilai，lingyifangyebianhuidichunizheizhongzuofa，erqierenweinibingbuzunjingta。

3.要充斥着情意

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4.先想一想个人缺点

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