wanhuiqizidelengchulifa,duiyuaiqinghehunyin,womenbixuyouyidingdekuanrong。dangtamenfashengchongtushi,womenyinggaibimianbahunyindangzuozhanchang。womenbixubanihewofenkai,banihewosichengsiwohuo。
yulianggerenzaifennuzhongxuanzejiannanduikangdejiejuxiangbi,shidangdelengchuligengweimingzhi。tamenxiangaideshihouyuereyuehao,danshiruguoyouliefengyaowanhui,bufanglengyixia。wanjiuhunyindelengchulifangfashishenme?
1.先保持冷静,再引导对方的情绪
zaihunyinhuifuchenggongdeqingkuangxia,fuqishuangfangdexinggetezhengdouyouzheiyangyigetedian:zhishaoyouyifanglengjing,yejiushishuo,yifangdeqingxuhuidedaogenghaodekongzhi,bingyuanyihuifu。ruguonizhengzaiduzheipianwenzhang,nixiangzhengjiulingyiban,jizhu,xiangzhengjiubici,shouxianbaochilengjing,yongyuanjizhu:renzhu,woxiangzhengjiuta,erbushishengjimaodun。
zuohaoziwoxinlijianshehou,nikeyikaishixiayibu——yindaobicideqingxu。cishi,duifanghenshengqi,zuibimianshiyongjiuchanhuodianhuahongzhalianxi,yinweiduifanghenshaonaixin,shenzhibanidanfangmiandechiqinglianxihejieshizuoweisaorao。lixingdefangfashibuyaojingchanglianxi,ershijiduifangyiduanshijianlengjingxialai,dangduifangdefennuxiaoshishi,nikenenghuizidongzhaodaoni。
wanhuiqizidelengchulifa,dangduifangnenggougoutongshi,womenyinggaibiaoxianchujiejuewentidejijitaidu,gongkaitanlunlianggerenzhijiandemaodun,lejieshishenmerangduifanggandaobushufu。ruguomaodundeyuanyinzhishishenghuozhongdeyixiexiaoshi,neijiuhenrongyijiejuele。xiangyaohuifudeyifangzanshidixiatouchengrencuowu。bijing,aibufennidegaodi。zaizheigeshihou,ruguonichengrencuowu,duifanghuixiangyingdifansiziji。
ruguomaodundeyuanyinheaidedixian,rujiatingbaolihuoqipian,jiandandecuowuhuodaoqianshiwuyongde,xuyaojuexinjiuzhenghexingdong,biyaoshishenzhixuyaotigongzugoudefalvbaozhang,yibianchenggonghuifu。
2.寻求家人的帮助
jushuo,ruguoyiduifufuxiangyaoxingfu,tamenbixushouxiandedaojiarendezhufu,suoyizaihunhou,buyaohushijiatingdecunzai。youxiefufurenweijiatingchouloubugongkai,suoyizaigongzuori,lianggerenmimiguanshangmendajia,ranhouyifangkenenghuijixubaochilingyifangzaiqinqiheshurenmianqianweixiao,jiazhuangshenmeyemeifasheng,danshenghuobijingbushibiaoyan。
guodudeqianjiuhebeiweikenengwufawanhuiduifang。henduoguanmendefuqihoulaiqiaoqiaolihunle。zhidaofendaoyangbiaodeneiyitian,tamenzhijiandewenticaizhenzhengjiejue,danfenkaibingbukepa。kepadeshi,yifangkenenghaixiangwanhui,tamenzongshibumingbaiweishenmetamenzuizhonglikaile。
shishishang,xiangqinqiheshurenbaolufuqizhijiandemaodunbingbuyidingshiyijianhuaishi。bijing,pangguanzhehenqingchu。henduoshihou,qitarenrengranbiyouxizhongdeliangduifufugengqingxing,qinqimenwangwangxiwangzheiduifufuzuizhongnenggouhejie,bingjitamenyixiejijidejianyihebangzhu。tamenjingchangshuoshihua,tixingguocuojiaodadeyifang,zheiyejiangzaijiejuefuqimaodunfangmianfahuijijizuoyong。
ruguoyiduifufuchaojiale,tamenshenhoushejidejiatingyekaishidajia,tamenzuihaojinkuailihun。bijing,tamenzijishenghuodebuhao,tamendejiatingyebudasuanhuxiangjieshou。zheigenbenbukeneng。
3.不要太在意
ruguofuqishuangfangxiangyaowendingdehunyin,zhishaoyifangbixugengkangkai,shiqiangliedekuanrong,yinweiruguolianggerenbushiyinweiliyinanyizhangqishenghuozaiyiqi,jiuxianghulianwangshangchangshuoqipiannvrendeganqingnanrentongchangbuhuizhaodaoqipiannvrendeganqingnvren,yinweiqipiannvrendeganqingzisiwangwangzhikandaozijideliyi,bicitiaoti。
lianggehezhazaiyiqideren,yinweidoudongduifangdetaolu,chuyutongxingdejujue,yongyuanbuhuizhangjiuzaiyiqi。nengjiehunyiduanshijianderenyoudianzerengan。ruguoyoumaodunxiangwanhui,jiuyaoshaoguanxin。heziduijiatinghenzhongyao。
wanhuiqizidelengchulifa,meigerendouhuifancuowu,danruguoduifangyishidaocuowubingyuanyijiuzhengcuowu,tamenbufangjiduifangyigeaidejihui。wennuande,zhengchaobufangzanshileng,danlengqibushiyinweiduifangbunenglijiezijixuanzedapoguanzidapohunyindixian,fouze,hunyinzhendeleng。
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