挽回妻子的经典策略，妻子该怎样挽回

 wanhuiqizidejingdiancelve，gangjiehundeshihou，fuqiliangyizhihenqinmi，tianmidaorangrenxianmu。raner，suizheshijiandetuiyi，tamenzhijiandereqingzhujianbeishijianhaojin，yuelaiyueduodewentifashengzaimeigerenzhijian。wujiezhidejiufendaozhimeigerenzhijiandeqingxuzhujianpolie。weileyingduizheizhongqingkuang，qiziyinggairuhezhengjiuzhangfu，baochizheizhongpoliedeqingxu？

一、发现自己的缺点

 meigerendouyouzijidequexianhequexian。zaihunyinshenghuozhong，nibunengmangmudixunzhaohefaxianduifangdequexian。niyinggaiduoxiangxiangziji，xiangxiangzijidequexian。qingxupoliebixuyunizijideyuanyinyouguan。nixuyaojishichulibingzuochugaibian。

二、独立思考对方的观点

 zaijiejueyiqiedeqingkuangxia，zhiyaonizijidejingli，nijiubunengchuliqingganwenti。nibixucongduifangdejiaodukaolvwenti。weishenmeduifangmeiyouni，huozheduifangduizijiyoushenmekanfa，duifangxinzhongdeyaoqiushishenme？zhiyoucongduifangdejiaodudulisikao，nicainengfaxianwenti，nicainengzuochuzhengquedejiejuefangan。

三、重视对方

 wanhuiqizidejingdiancelve，buguanzhongjianfashengleshenme，jinglileshenme，huozheduifangzuolerangniqi，dannibunengfeilixing，zema，taizhixiang，shenzhiwuruduifang，suoyizongshimeigerenzhijiandeguanxibing，meiyourenxiangheyigebuzunzhongzijiderenshenghuo。yinci，ruguonixiangjiunidezhangfu，nijiubunengxuehuizunzhongnidezhangfu，yinweifuqizhijiandeguanxishigongpingde。

四、提升自己，让自己变得更强

 ruguonixiangjiunidezhangfu，nibuhuixiangaibianxianzhuang。zainijiehunzhiqian，nishiruciderongyaohemeili。jiehunhou，nibutaizaihuzijideyifu。nituranbianlaole，yidianfenggedoumeiyou。

 nizainalixiyinnidezhangfu？yinci，congjintiankaishi，meigejingzhidenvrendouzuozaiyizishang，nuligaibianxianzhuang，piaopiaoliangliang，zheiyangnijiukeyizaicixiyinnidezhangfu，zhengjiutamendexin。

 wanhuiqizidejingdiancelve，zongdelaishuo，wojuederuguonixiangbaoliuta，nixuyaoquebaoshangmiande。zhiyouzheiyang，nidezhangfucainenghuidaonishenbian，meigerendoukeyixiangzuichuyiyangkuaile。zuihou，woqidaizhemeigerendounengchenggong，hetadezhangfuzaiyiqi，guoshangxingfudeshenghuo。