为何异国恋无法走到最后?

 ruhe wanhuinanpengyou ?wojuedegekaiwaididelianqing，meiyikezhenduilianrenbicieryanquanshizheizhongnanao。keyiguoliantazishensuocunyoudejianjuxianding，huiduilianggerendeneixinzaochengerrumurandeweihai，jianjiandihuichuxiangongzuozhongfanmangmeifalianluo、meifaqulingyifangsuozaichengshipengmiandenggezhongzhuangkuang，congererwenshidejiushiqinggandeshengshu，mianbulelianggerendefenqieryinqidezhengzhi，naizhilaidaotichufenshoudechengdu。zenyangwanhuinanyou?

一、为何异国恋无法走到最后

 waidi，shixuduolianrendoubuyuanpengchudeyige，zenmehuishi?youyuyiguoliandekekaoxinghendi，chuxiannantidegailvhuihengao，jinergengfeichangrongyirangmeiduanqinggancongcishuailuo。shuobailedeyiguolianjiushishuoliangzhilianren，liangrenyishizhuxingzaibuyiyangdediqu，zheidoushiyiguoliandexitongxingfengxiangenggaodebenzhi。neishizenmehuishizaochengyiqianchaoyuediyuhaiyaoenaidelianggeren，zuihouluogegebendongxidejieguoni?

 xinlaiganbugou。zhimingganqingkangnacengshuo：“yiguolianduobaizaiguanniandefourenshang，bicicaiyihewushishengfei。”waididelianrenyuanbenjiuyouyuwaidideyuangu，guishuganhuibugou，neiyangjiuhuizaochengtamenyuanyibalingyifangshikedezhuazaishoushang，ruguoyouyidianerdongjingjiuhuixinfanyiluan，neiyangjiuhuijinigengxianglaicaozongzhulingyifang，jinerhushilingyifangdetihui。zheileibuxinlaihuirangdajiazaochengtongku，jiarulingyifangyoulveweidedikang，woyehuikuangzao，xintaishilingdewoyefeichangrongyihuifancuowu，zhizhibunengrenshou，neimadajiadelianqingyejiulaidaozhongdianzhanle。

二、挽留异国恋的3个方式

 suizhishiqidefazhanqushi，zaixianrujinchengshidefazhanbiankuaideshehuifazhanli，henduorendouhuiyouyugezhonggeyangyuanguyuanyinlixiangbiejing，yinciyezaochenglexuduoyiguoliandechuxian。jinguandajiachangshuojulichanshengmei，danshiquanbuganqinglibiantichufenshoulvjiushishuoyiguolian，daodiyaoruhezuonenggougengqiangdewanliumeiduanyiguolianni?

 zenmewanhuiqiannanyou?yaoqingpengmianyoushuodao。jinkenengzaizhengdelingyifangyuanyixiakaizhanpengmianwanliu，yaoliuyibiezailingyifangwuyihuoshibuyuanyidezhuangkuangxia，qinglvqulingyifangsuozaichengshiwanliu，neiyangzongshijiajulingyifangdefourenxintaizhuangtai。qingganjibennonghoudenenggou shizhe，duotidaoguoqumeihaodehuiyi，jiarulingyifangqiangliefanxiangreqingnijiujilingyifang1gewennuandexiangyong，tangruolingyifangbawolakai，woyebiaoshushuochenzuiyuwangrizhuduoxingfuzhongjinbuzhu，liuyijianjixingshi。erqingganjibenjiaochadeniyaoshibubaoluzijiguoduodeyaoqiugan，shidutidaojiushizuokankan，kanlingyifangqiangliefanxiangzenyang，qiangliefanxiangreqingjiuduochoukongyushijianzaiyaoqingjihui，qiangliefanxianglengmojiulakaijulidenghoutiaojianchengshuzaiyaoqing。

 zenyangwanhuinanyou?zhengtiguihuahaoganqingfazhanqushi。zenmehuiyouyukanbudaoganqingjianglaidefangweierzaochengyidilianfenshouni?neijiushilianggerenyemeiyouliji，congyibanganqingbianhuanweiyiguoliandezhuanbianzhongzouchuqu，zhangciyiwang，fajuelianqingfangfomimangdeneishihou，zaikaizhanwanjiujiutaiwanle。yincibixuyaoquelidizhengtiguihuachuxianghufangweijiqifazhanqushi，zaiqueliqingchudefangweixia，nenggouzaochengdaliangdegongmingdianhezixinxin，youxianghuzongtimubiaojiunengbingjianzuozhan。zuiguanjiandehuanshiyouzhe1gexixinheqianjiudeqifen，quebaochongpeidegoutongjiaoliushijianhepinlv。

 zenmewanhuiqiannanyou?weichipengmianduoshouhou。qianquepeibanshirangzhishenwaidiganqingpoliedejiaodazuikuihuoshouzhishou，zhimingganqingzhuanjiakangnacengshuo：“yiguolianyouguoduoanquanyinhuan，zaiqizhongyouyidianer，buyiyangdedachengshi，weishenghuo、shejiaoquanzi、bangonghuanjingchedimeiyoubingji，dangbingjidedianguoshao，bicixinlideqiyueshuwufachuangjianhuoshijiangu，jiuchanshengbushangzheizhongxiangjinlianqingfalvfaguidexiaoyonglaijibanhexiandingrenmen。”yincinikeyizhuyilingyifangdedongtaixingliuxupaimatishengbingji。peibanshizuizhangqingdegaobai，yaofangduohelingyifangpengmiandepinci，duojixieshijianqulingjulishouhou，jinguanpengmianshijianhuijiaoweiduan，danqinshenjinglimeiyicigezi，wuxingzhongrangdajiagengmingbaiaixixianghu。