防止第三者：教你如何挽回婚姻？

 ruhewanhuihunyin?henduorendouchongjingzhehunyin，ganjuehunyinkeyijianglindaoshenpangjiuhuiganshouxingfudeyishizhuxing。zhibuguoshizaizhenshiyuduifangguozhefuqixingshenghuodeneishihou，jianghuihuiyouyumouxiexiaoshier、xiaowentiergangkaishizhengchao;youhuoshizaiyixieshiershangzuodebuwentuo、bukexuezaochenglianrendedichuerchanshengmaodun。zhuduozhinengzaijiazhongganqingjulichuxiandejuqingdoushichuxianzaidajiadejiazhongzhizhong，rangdajiagangkaishizaiweihunhoushenghuojuedemihuobujie，weiheyebukeyibianweiliangzhimeijiameihudouxianmujidudeenaifuqini?shishenmegerenxingweizaochengledajiadeqinggangangkaishiyibuyoushanle?qingganwanhuizenmeban?

一、老婆在日常生活中不应当做另一方的差评师

 youxuduofufusuizhihunlingdetigao，balingyifangdequedianhebukanrumudeyibiansuoyoudouyilanwuyu，changchangwuyuanwugudijiunachuqucijixinglingyifang，ranglingyifanggangazuoweizheizhongjiaowangfangfa。youhuoshibushizhongshita，zaitarenyanqianyechangchangsunta、mata，zaitarendeyanlilaikantazainixinzhongzhonghaowuyongchu。neiyangdehunyinhuixingfukuailema?

 bumingbailejienansheng。laopowangwanghuizuonanshengdechapingshi，youyunvxingbumingbailejienansheng。lirubulejienanshengyibianchengdanqijiazhongdeyiwu，xiangzaigongzuofangmiangongkechukaoshichengjierbudeyiqujiemouxiejiaoji。nvxingdouhuikanbushangtaquanshenjiuweihuijiale，matameibenshi，matameibenshizheixiede。rangnanshengganjuetingleihenbubeilejie，leisileihuohuandedejinjinhuodelaopodeeyichaping，zaochengdajiazhongjiandeqingganyulaiyulengmo，naizhishimeiyicijiaojiwandoubuxianghuijiajiandaoni。

 fenshouhouzenmewanhui?bumingbaizhongshinansheng。nanshengzuiguanjiandejiushishuozizun，keshiwobumingbaizenyangweihubaoyang，fandaocaitatadezizun，chuyudaotadedaodedixian，zhiyinqiqichixudezhengzhi。lirudajiazaipengyoujucanshang，nidepenyoutucaotabuzutiexin，bumingbaibangnishengfan。nibujinbumingbaizenyangweihubaoyangtadeqingmian，haiyaotamenyanqianlengchaorefengtapingchangzaijiazhongzenyangbuguanzhuni，bumingbaizhaoliaoni，shangzhetadezizun，zaochengtanaopiqibicizaitarenyanqiannaodeeyuxiangxiang。ruguonichuyudaotadedaodedixiandeneishihou，tajiuhuiduinizhongzhizijintouru，mengfaleliyideniantou。

 dangtazhangqixingchuzaibubeinirentongdeqingkuangxia，tahuiduiniyulaiyudichu，manmandizaochengtadepannixintaizhuangtai。jiuhuiyuanyizaiwaibianyaoqiukuanwei，xiangganmouxiegerenxingweiquduifuni，dangwaibianyouyigenvhaimingbairenketa，zhongshitadeneishihou，tajiuhenrongwaiyu。jiuyouyujinidangchapingshidexiguanxing，batatuilaidaoqitanvxingshenpang。buguannigentachaogentanao，zongshitishengtaduinifourenxintaizhuangtai，tajiuhuifanxianghelixinggentashuozheiyiqienibitadedaozhide，gengweijiandingbuyiletalihunledexiangfa。

二、男生的这种缺陷会让老婆愿意离去

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 meiyoubenshenqianghandandudeyibian。zhiminghunyinzhuanjiakangnashuoguo：“nvxingbixubeinanshenglingzhe，jiusuanshiqiangshidenvren，xinlingshenchuyeqidaiyougebitaqianghandenanshengzhengfu2talingzheta!”nvxingxiantianxingjiuduinanshengyoubixudeyilaigan，sheibuyuanxunzhao1geqianghanyouyougongzuonenglidenanshengzuoweizishendejiezhu，rangzishenwanquanshuxin。huanyigeshijiaoxiangzhe，youyunanshengcunyouruanruolansandeyibian，yinerbianweilenvrenbinanshengyaoqianghan，yincijiazhongyingxianglihuikanqilainvrenbinanshengyaogao。lizaidaliang，tahuigengweiqiaobuqitadenansheng，lianxiaoshierdoumeifachuli，genzheiyinanshengyiqiqihuijuededaoxingfukuailekexun。jiranzheiyang，bibushangfangkaishouhuijiaoweihao。

 fenshouhouzenmewanhui?meiyouchuangjianshidudejiagou。jiagoudeyingyongxing，qujueyuniyoumuyouyuanyiweizheixiehunyinchuangjianqizhangqixingdeguizhangzhiduxieyishu。jiazhongdeshenghuoxiguanyingdangshiruhede，duijianglaidefenpeiyouyoumuyouguishuyuzishendeniantou，yipiankongbai，neizhibuguozaidanchunxingdesuibianguoshenghuobale。youyuwanhunjiuyiweizheleduilianggerenyishizhuxingdechengdanyupanwang，laopoyuanyiyougefangweiquzoudong，burantazairichangshenghuozhongfeichangrongyizhaobudaofangxiang，jilingyifangdaozhibixudeweihai。jiaruyoujiagou，jiunenggou ranglaopolejieshenmeshiershiyingdangzuo，shenmeshiershiyanjinzuo，nenggou yougequelidegousi。meiyoujiagoudenansheng，jianjiandide，nidezhenshishenfenhuijijuxiajiang，yulaiyushiquzhongshi。

 qingganwanhuizenmeban?meiyoujiaogaodelianqingdengji。meiyoujiaogaodelianqingdengji，bujuyouxinidesixu。neimalaopodaodiyongyounaxiedeyaoqiudouburongyinengkandong，shibushinengtaohaolaopobianweile1geweizhishu，zhangqixingguanliandebaochiyeshi1gedanandianle。laopoyouyunaxieshiererkaixinhuofahuo，tajinqideqingxuweishenmezheimebuduan，zhuduodebiaozhun，nanshengruguobushijiaogaodelianqingdengji，shiwufafajuechuqude。bujuyoulingzhenvxingdegongzuonengli，laopoweiheyaopeinixiangchuyiqi，weihebuguoduanxuehuifangxiazheixieguanlianxunzhaoxindeqidian?liqudeniantoucihouzaochengle。

三、夫妇的这种个人行为会危害交往品质

 suyushuodehao：“fufubenshitonglinniao，dananlintoufenbiefei”，danglianrenguanlianbianhuanweifuqiganqingshi，yixinzhedajiadeganqinghuimanmanbianhuanweimeiyouqinshuguanxidejiaren，zairichangshenghuozhonghaikuotiankongderichangshenghuoninengdaliangkaolvdaolingyifangdetihui，dangfuqiganqingzhongchuxiannantishi，ninengshiruhetiaoxuanni?bawozhulingyifangdeshoushizhongbufangkuan，huanshidaliangdejizijizhihouguanxin，zheiyiqiehuxiangzaifuqixiangchuzhizhong，nishibushidangtajiushinixingmingzhongzuiguanjianderen，shikefangdaoxinjianshang，pingchangzhongdeyidianyididejiaowang，queshiweijiguantouxiangbandaolaoderen。

 qingganhaosiqingmiyiluantongchangyikaishixingxingzhihuo，suizhiqingganzijintouruyuedaganqingdehuoyanjiuhuiyulaiyuchongpei，yihoubianchengxiongxiongdelieyan，muchaijiuhaoxiangshijian，qiancai，huolidanghaoguangquanbuganqingzheihuoyanyehuimanmanxiaohaodaijin，daodishishenmegerenxingweihuiweihaidajiazhongjiandefuqixingshenghuopinzhi，baganqingmanmanhaofei?

 ruhewanhuihunyin?yantanjuzhiculubumingbaizhongshilingyifang。zhimingqingganwanhuiquanweizhuanjiakangnalaoxianshengyiqianfabuguoguandian：“yuanyibaochizhangqideguanlianbingbuyi，richangshenghuozongyoukekebanban，yaolianggerendoujiandingbuyixinlidexinxin，xianghuqinshenjingliduguonanguannenggouranglianggerendeqinggangenglaogu。”zaishehuifazhanzhongrenmenhuipengdaosuyanggaoderentamenyanxingjuzhi，yantanjuzhiyazhi，lingrenjinbuzhuyuanyiduochupeng。keshishehuifazhanzhongyouhenduosuyangbugaoderencunyou，tamenyishuohuamanzuicuyanhuiyu，zhangfuheqizifayanmeiyoujihui，shuozhiyounaizhijiuhuidongshounengli。guohouchajuedebuzhengquejiusuanshiguidiqiurao，neiyangjiduanhuadegerenxingweiyehuiranglingyifangdexintaizhuangtailiuyouhuizhibuqudesunhai。fuqijianliyingmingbaizhongshilingyifang，shoulongneizaodongbuandeshouhejiao，mingbaixianghulijielingyifangdetihui，tashilaopobingfeinichoudi。

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