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 ruhewanhuihunyin?hunyinjingyingdequebuyi，yuanbenjiushishuo1gedachuti，zibianliangduo，qizhang，henlingsui，youfeichangrongyiqianyifaerdongquanshen，hexiuyangxiaohaixiangtong，xiangkaizhanfengxianguankonghenjiannan。wojuedeyulaiyujishirendouguanniandao，hunyinbixuyunying，tamenyikaishijindaohunyinshi，yehuipingzheaihezizuo，jinxiaoshenwei，baochizhebiaocengshangdehemu，danshijianjiule，huochuxianleyixiezibianliang，zhongguifeichangrongyipulunanti。yinciyouderenguoduanrenqitunsheng，yiburennai，hanchangxintai，ganshoukuguoshizongyoulekaichangchangshuodeyihuo，juedehunyinjingyingmeiyouguilvxingkexun，naizhisuanchu“hunyinshiganqingdemuzang”deyiju。qingganwanhuizenmeban？

 suiran，hunyinjingyingshi1gedashi，nanzaishiketounaoqingxing，younengjianchibuxie;nanzaizibianliangguoduo，bixuzhihuixinglinshixingyingbianli;bixuhuanweisikao，yanyilvji，kuanyidairen。yincishuo，jiushishuobixuqingshangzhishang。

gaoqingshangderen，youlianghenda：

 yinengbiandazhuduokaixin，huoshengchanzhizaokaixin;ershiyingduimaodunhefenqi，lejie、erqieyougongzuonengliyongwanzhuandefangfabiaoshuzishen，jizhaoliaodaolingyifangdetihui——ganjuezishenshi“beirenkede、beilejiede”，yoububiequzishen，qiadangdichaoguozishendemudi。

 erqingshangdideren，jiusuanyuanbennadeqinzihaopai，youyubumingbaixuanze，qianquezhihuixing，feichangrongyiyijiduren，zhimibuwu，yiguidinglingyifangtingcongdefangfaqugoutongjiaoliu，quezaochengbicizhengfengxiangdui，qingganzaochenggehe。

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(1)ziworenshi：qiadangjianbiezishenheairendexiaojiqingxu

 hunyinqingshangzhishang，zhideshizaihunyinzhongrenmenkeyiganshoulingyifangdexintai，qurenzhilingyifangdegongzuonengli，suihouyongxunsuxingdongqujiejuelingyifangdexiaojiqingxu，neiyangyekeyitigaolianggerenqinggan。neima，yaotishenghunyinqingshangzhishang，zuixianyidianer，jiushishuorenmenyaotishengziworenshi，qiadangjianbiezishenheairendexiaojiqingxu。jiaruqianqueziworenzhinengli，bukeyiqiadangfenbianzishendexiaojiqingxu，neimazheileixiaojiqingxujiuhuiyibiedefangshi、huantangbuhuanyaochuxianzailianggerenderichangshenghuo。

 julishuoming，laogonggennishuodeneiyiqie，“nijinqizenmela，genchiwanhuoyaoyiyang”，ninengfanshengzijidegerenxingwei，huanshigenlingyifangfashengzhengzhi?ershishishang，jinidexintaiyuelaiyuezheibancaogaode，bingfeilingyifangqueshizuobuduinaxie，zhishinimeiyouguanniandaogongzuoshangdetongkujigongzuoyaliweihailaidaoni，nizishimeiwenti，dankandailaogongquekanqilaiyuyuguahuan、qianquenaixin。weiyouzhenshidizhangwodaozishenxintaizhuanbiandelaiyuanyu，nenggoubuxubierenbianchengzishenxintaide“shouhairen”，fangzhifufufenqidezaocheng。

(2)zishencaozong：qingxingdicaozong、diaojiezishendexintai

 ruhewanhuihunyin?zhangwodaozishendexintaiqingkuangjishijiyiyihou，renmenhaiyaoyougongzuonengliquguanlifangfahecaozong(tebieshizaishixiaojiqingxu)。jinguanhanchangbiaoshuzishentihuihexintai，shizheijianfeichangrongyierqie“rangzishenhaoshou”deshi，danzaixuduohunyinjiaowangqingjing，tebieshizaishiqinshenjingliguofenqihou，zheizhenduilianggerendepengyouguanxishizhimingxingde，huijihunyinliuyoujidaanquanyinhuan。

 liru。bujiuqinshenjinglilezheichangzhengzhidedajia，bicixintaidouhenbupingwen。jiarulaogongweinengguanlizijidexintai，dongshounenglidaguolaopo，neimazheileibaolijiuhuiranglaopodaxinlishiluo。jiarulaogongcaozonghaozishendexintai，likai，erlaopocaozongbulezishendexintai，jiansuankebo，naizhikaizhanweixiekonghe，huoshizuochumouxiechugedeshier，neimalaogongxinlijiuhuiyouyitiaoci。

chongdongshimogui，xintaishilingshizuodeshi、shuodehua，guohouquanshizhuihuibuji。

zheiyidianer，kanqilaitongsuyidong，queshijiaonanbaozhengde。

(3)jijixintai：yunyongxintaikaolvzhuguanyinsu

 qingganwanhuizenmeban?renmendeyiqiegerenxingweiquanshizaixintaiqingkuangxiakaizhande，xintaishirenmengerenxingweideyuandongli。qingshanggaoderen，mingbaizenyangzhengqueyindaozishendegezhonggeyangxintai，qudidazishenzhuiqiuwanmeidezongtimubiao。

liru。nidelaogongyizhimangliugongzuozhong，meiyoushijianpeizhenihexiaohai，niguidingguo，quezongbei“fuyanleshi”leshi。

qingshangdiderenfeichangrongyishenxianxiaojiqingxu——

ziwohuaiyi(tashifoubuaiwole?);

caiyi(shifouzaiwaibianyouhunhouchuguile);

duilimian(naoren，zhiwen，chadianhua，chaweixinliaotianjilu，caozongchumen)……

 gaoqingshangderen，youyuzhidaoyincixinxin，youyuxinxinyinciyouguishugan，zuoshifandaohuimingbaizishenjili，jiusuanshipengdaoburuyideshi，yehuimingbaizishenjili(diaozhengqingxu、shandongzishendefanmianxintai)，yongjiejuekunnandeshijiaoquxuanze——yincikaolvdaodeshi“zenyangqiadangderanglaogongmanmantishengduijiazhongdezijintouru”;

 liruxianhaowuyiwenlaogongzaijingjishang、qingyishangduijiazhongdenuli，suihoujiashangyidiudiubiequdexintaigenlaogonggoutongjiaoliu，“zhangfumeirigongzuozhongdaoneimawan，queshitaixinku，nannanjinqixuehaofayanle，bengchudediyiweicijuranshifuqin，heshinilaijiaota，rangtayaowomuqin?”

(4)huanweisikao：lejieta，yichaoguowuyishilianjie

 shangwenxushu，xuduorenxiguanxingyijiduren，zaiwuyishilishipianzhongyuzishende，yincifenbianjigerenxingweiyincishizisizilide，jilingyifangdetihuishi“buzaiyi，buzhongshi”。neiyangdepinciduole，huxiangjuedelingyifangmanbujiangli，zhangciyiwang，liangoutongjiaoliujiushengle，meiyicijiuzhiyoushangrendehua、lengbaoli、tuisang。zheileichoulvdeshiduole，jiusuanjiazhangliduanyekeyicuihuimeiduanjiankang。

 fanguolai，jiarunengduolizailingyifangshijiaokaolvdaoshier，tebieshizaishilizailingyifangderenwujiaosequxiangxiangtadetihui，lejietadeganqing，neimalingyifangxuduogerenxingweidouyibuwufalejie，niyejiuzhiruheyingduisuanshiyouyiyupengyouguanxiweihubaoyangde。

 zaiwangshangyiqianyouyigenantizaochengledajiaqiangliefanxiang，“weihexuduorenningkezuozhecheneifaleng，doubuxiangyaomashanghuijiale?”，shangbianyouyigehuiyingkaiqilegongmingdian：“xuduoneishihouyinweiwobuyuanxiacheshi，youyuneijiushi1gefenjiexian。lakaiqichechemennijiushishuoyouyanjiangcu、shibaba、shidaerzi、shizhangfu，keshibingbushinizishen;qicheshang，zijiqicheshangxiangananjingjing，chouzhiyan，zheiyishentiguishuyuzishen。”

 lizaibuyiyangshijiaojiandaodefengjingshibuyiyangde。neimapengdaozheileixiabanlehuijialehoubukenduoshuohuadeairen，dangnizhiwen“ruheneimawancaihuijiale!”，jianghuinijuedeyouyujiaolvbuanerguanzhu，danzailingyifanglaikanjiushishuoyueshuli、shijiayali、xiangwaitui。

 lizailingyifangjiaoduguanchadehua，ninengshixiabuyongshuoguoduo，tahuizishenbangzhukaitaiyongcan，suihouguohouyaohaohaodixiangzhe，daodishinaerjilingyifangneimadadegongzuoyali，shiyuyanbeiyapo，shiyiqianmaiyuanjiazhongmeiyouqian、tabuzubenling，shipoxizhijianzhengchaotahuinanzuo……yizhiyuyaozheiban“zibaoziqi”。

(5)tishengziji：renjijiaowangnenglidoushiqingshangzhishangdezhuyaobiaoxian

 renjijiaowangnengli，shizijishiyongjiazhidefanying，doushiqingshangzhishangdefanying。juedaduoshurenrenweirenjijiaowangnengliweihaidejinjinchuruzhichangjingkuang，quebuzhidaozhenduihunyinjingyingdoushiyouweizhongyaode。

 fuhedashikangnacengjingjiangguo，“weishenghuo、shejiaoquanzi、bangonghuanjingchedimeiyoubingji，dangbingjidedianguoshao，bicixinlideqiyueshuwufachuangjianhuoshijiangu，jiuchanshengbushangzheizhongxiangjinlianqingfalvfaguidexiaoyonglaijibanhexiandingrenmen……biciwuxingzhongdeyueshulichuangjiandeyuegao，waiyudegailvjiuhuiyuedi。”

 hunyinbidingqianshedaoxianghudeyuanshengjiating、pengyou、lingdaoganbu，jiaruliangrendeshejiaoquanzinenggengduofangmiandezhonghe，jiangyouyiyuhunyindepingwen;meishenmebingjinaizhiyulingyifangshejiaoquanzijiaoe，dangfufuchanshengmaodunshi，jiufeichangrongyinongqiaochengzhuole。zhengshiruci，tigaozijiderenjijiaowangnengli，mingbaizenyanggenbuyiyangrenwujiaosederengoutongjiaoliujiaowang，duihunyinjingyingdoushihenguanjiande。

 fenshouhouzenmewanhui?liruyimingnvren，jiarupingchangyujiapojiagongguanlianyouliang，zhifencungan、donglijie、bujiaobuzao;yulaogongxianghupenyou，bingqieyonghupingjiayouliang，shi1geyouzhihuixingdenvxing;yulaogongyikuaiercanjiaguotadegongsilvyou，lejietademouxiepengyou，bingqieyinxiangyouliang……zheizhongguanlianzaidajiadefuqiguanxichuxianxiaoweijishi，shicujinhehaodezhongyaonengliang，youyurenchangyoucongzhongxiaoying，danzhoubianderendouganjueninhao，neimayaoshidajiazhongjiandenantibingbushiweifandaodedixiande，tadoushixinlibangnikaizhanhelixing——tajinjinyouyu……caineiyang，zhongjiupingchangtashihenhaodeziji。huoxu，zheizhiheshixiaofenqi，tangruozaoyinaoliyi、weifandaodedixian，nenggou jiashangrenmentouzifenxishishoujiweixin(pjcy4000401399)kaizhanmianfeipingding，cepingwanliujilv。

 huashuohuilai，renjijiaowangnengliyebingbushiyuegaoyuegaode，tebieshizaizhenduinvxinglaijiang。nvxingrenjijiaowangnenglitaigao，huirangtadenanshengjuedezaodongbuan，“haoxiangyizhijiaojihua”，weifangzhidailvmaodefengxianxing，tahuibuyouzizhuzuochuxiandingnigongjian，naizhihuijiangdiduilaopohexiaohaidezijintouru，zheizhenduijiazhonghemushijiqibuliangyingxiangde。