爱计较的男生应该如何挽回女友

 ruhewanhuinvyou?wanhuinvyoudehuazenmezuo?zaiganqingzhong，nishibushichangchangzaibuduandihelingyifangzaihu：lingyifangshengchenshuoyuanyilipin，tashuodajianeimajiudeqingganbuyongnage;qixijietashuoqitanvshengdoujiedaohuajiutameiyou，taneixinshangxin，tashuoyiqishiliangrendeshier，neimazhongshifangshiganshenme;bukeyilejielingyifangweiheshizhongxiangnikeyihua、yaolipin，zuibukeyilejiedeshilingyifangjingranyouyuzheiyiyaopeinitichufenshou。neiyangdeni，yingdangzenyangwanliuta?

yuanyiwanliuta，zuixianyaolejiebenshencunzaidebuzu，youmudexingdizuochugenggai。lejieweihetahuilikainima?

youyuzaizheixieganqingzhongnicongweiweilingyifangkaolvdaoguo。

 niderenheniantouhezuofadoushiyibenshenquwang，yisiyemeiyouweilingyifangkaolvdaoguo。jibianlingyifangpeiniquelidibiaoshuguotadeyaoqiu，keshinirengranzishen，hushilingyifangdeyaoqiu，erqiechixuweizijizhaotuoci，wangtuyaolingyifanghelixingnidegerenxingwei。zailingyifanglaikan，nizongshiguzhezishen，congweiweitaguanxinguo，zuoshashidouxiaodujichang，zisizili，zheizhongzuofashishifenlingrenfangande。duiyuzishendenanti，zuochuxiangduidegenggai。

一、调节自身的心态状态。

 ruhewanhuinvyou? lianqingzhongdebicidouyingdangxuehaonuli。dangnizongshilisuodangran、chixuhelingyifangsuoyao，quexiaodujichangzishendenuli，maiyuanlingyifangguidingdeguoduo，neimahuandededoushilingyifangjiyunidexiaodujichang。jiuruwanhuiganqingzhizaoxingyedechuangbanrenkangnachangshuo：“duiyunvxingeryan，nanshengzaiqingganzhongdezijintouruyueda，guanliandefengxianxingyueduodi，duizishenyueyouquebao。”1geshuoaitaderen，queliantayidianerxiaoguidingdoubuyuanqukaolv，buxiangyaoqunuli，neimatahainengjianxintashuodehuama?diaojiezishendexintaizhuangtai，xuehaoxianghulijie，shidudijiyuzijintouru，nidenulitashinengtihuidaode，tihuidaonideqingyi，tayehuiganenhuikuinitongyangdeai。

二、提升自己的生存力，考虑另一方的要求。

 wanhuinvyoudehuazenmezuo?wojuedeyoushinidexiaodujichang，jinjinhuoxudeshengcunlihenchale，bukeyifeichanghaodikaolvlingyifangdehuaxuewuzhiyaoqiu。cikewoyegaiziwofansiyixiaxiazishenle，jingjifazhangongzuonenglinenggou shuochengdangdainvshikaolvdaojianglaiairendeguifanzhishou，zuoweinanren，jianglaijiazhongdejingshenzhizhu，quemeiyoulaokaodewuzhitiaojian，jiubukeyiguaitalikaini。tabingbushiqueshihuaxuewuzhi，jinjinnvxingneixindouhuichuaizhezheduigengqiangyishizhuxingdexiwang。tigaozijideshengcunli，xunzhaodaliangdefazhanqushijihui，buduantigaozijidezhuanyejineng，jinideshiyegengshangyiceng。ruguoniyouchongzudejingjifazhangongzuonenglishi，woyeburongyizaixiaodujichangzishendenuli，nenggoujinkuaikaolvlingyifangdeyaoqiu。

 zhinenglingyifangdenuli，aideganshoubupingheng，tihuibushangzishenshibeiaideneizijijiuhuiliqu。zhenzhengdeaiqingzheichanghudongxiaoyouxi，bixubicizijintouruhenuli，nuliyueda，huxiangtihuidaolingyifangdeqingyi，neiyangdeguanliancaihuijiangu。