面临分手，如何挽回女友

ruguonimuqianhaishichuyunvyoudejibanzhizhong，jianyitiaojianchengshushiduchulihuxiangguanxi，jiejuwanmeijinguanhenhao，jiejudimiqiewuxieqi。chichuanzhuxinghaidezaidu，mingtiandetaiyangguangrengrancanlan。taolizhenxinqiulao，zhongxunzhenxin。 wanhuinvyou dehuazenmezuo?ruhewanhuinvyou?

ruguonixiangyaowanhuinvyou，xiwangdahuoerzaizuochuguanlijuecezhiqian，xianhaohaosikaodechuhaojigenandian：

1、niyaobuyaowanhuita?nishichengxinchengyiaitahaishibuganxinzheizhongbeishuaideganjue?nishidequejuedezuocuowu，xiwanggaiguozixin?jiushinicaijibenshenwoyebabulehenhaodenvshi，bikaiweizhizishende1getuoci?shibushininengdanfuwanhuizheidaoshang，duinimianzhangertongkudechaimo?

2、wanhuinvyoudehuazenmezuo?juwodegongzuojinglihesuoyou**depubiankanfa：guanlijuecedahuoernenggou kaixinkuailede，zuiguanjiandehuanshipixingshifounenggou banpei。nishizhedianjizhe，tangruodahuoerzaiduyikuaierle，shibushininengbaorongtalikainihelikainiyihousuozuodeyiqie?shibushiniyouxinxindahuoerweilaidechichuanzhuxingnengxingfumeiman?shifouhaishixiangyiqiantongyangmeirizhengzhi，dalengzhan，nongdexianghudoubugaoxing?

3、tangruoninengxiangqingchuzheileinandian，neixinshizhenshidezhangwogandaobenshenfanguodeyouwu，nenggou baorongtabingfeibazerentuiweidaotashouli。qingdakainipianai，wenwenbenshen，nidaodiyouduoaita?tangruotashinishengmingzhongdezhenxin，nikeyiyiwufangudequzuo!jishinishibaile，hentongku，danzheishiniyibeizizuiweigaizhenzangdecaifu。nijianghuichengxinchengyideaizhenicicizhihou，yinweiwozaiyemeineimerongyiaideneimananyiwanghuai，neimachedile。

 4、wanhuinvyoudehuazenmezuo?tangruoniyeshigechixindezhongzi，meigezuiaidenvshiquanshizijinfenpeihenduoganqing，wufashihuainvshengdelikai，xiangcongzhuanyexingdecengmianshangjinxingcaozuoguocheng。qingjinji，qiewuzouhuorumo!duiyudiyiduanmeiyoujieguodeganqing，yikaishijiuliyingzhizaoxuannian。dahuoerkeyi neibanquzuo，danzuizhonghaishiyaosisuoyixiabenshendejiazhiguannian，wenwenbenshen：woshifouliyingzijinfenpei?

ruhepanduanyuwonvshengshifoushihefazhanquxiangjingchangxingguanxi?niwubibawojingchangxingguanxiyou3gezhongyaohuanjie：

1、buyijulitaiyuandeshangpindejiazhihejiajingguifan，xianghudejiazhiguannianchaochuleduifangdeyuji。2、youxuduohuxiangdegerenxingquaihaohejiazhiguannian，neibanxianghukeyizaijingchangxingguanxizhongjinzaomohe。3、xianghudouyuanyiweiqingganqinfentouzixiangmu，kaolvdaozhei3diandejingchangxingguanxikeyizhangqixing。

ruhewanhuinvyou?diyigehezuihoumeiyoushenmehaoshuode，xiangguandierdian，dajiaxiangshuodeshi，xingqingjuedabufenshiyoudilihuanjingdebianhuaguanlijuecede，bingqujueyudilihuanjing。zishen，tabenshenjuyouleshenmedepinzhi，zheishidilihuanjingzaochengde，pinzhidebiangengshibenshenyijudilihuanjingdebianhualaiweichi，ermeifayijubenshendezhuguansiweiluojizaidilihuanjingbuhuigaibiandeqingkuangxiabiangeng。haosinichichuanzhuxinganyishushideneishi，buyijuedeyoushenmebaoyuan，yemeifashizhequjianchixiaqu，yexuzaojiuzainideshushiquanlimian，bengchulaizheiyi，nikeyiganshoudaotongkuhejiaozaobuan。erdangnidiezhidichaoqi，huozhezhouweihuanjingyalideposhi，youyunikeyijuedebenshendeshushiquanzhaobuzhe，yineryinweiwohuiyougengdadezixinxinquchaixienidedilihuanjing。fazhanqushidefangfa jiushibabenshenbirujizhi。

yinershuo，zishendepinzhijiaruyijuzhuguandeyiyuanqubiangeng，huimeifa。zhiyoudilihuanjingbiangeng，nicaihuiyougenggaodehuaxuenengqushizhetaolizheiyiyinanshoudedilihuanjing，qujianchixiaqudepinzhi，qushengchanjiagonghuoxunzhaoshushidedilihuanjing。yinci，jingchangxingxiangchuzuiguanjiandehuanshiyaoxuanshanren，xuanzepixingnenggou mohederenzheisuanzuozuizhongyaode。jibiandahuoxueleneimaduolianaifangfa，danshibujiqishuliangxingxiangchuchulaidegongzuojinglihaishikeyi fangxiao。

bingfeigeshigeyangshujudiaochabaogaoliangxingxiangfenshouhendadeyuangujiushi：sanguanbuhema?zheibingfeimeidaolide。jingchangxingxiyindezhendishishangpindejiazhihexinrengan，jingchangxingxiyinhendadexiongfanjiushigoujiahefumianqingxujixieneng。jingchangxingxiyinheduanshijianxiyinbutong，zheizhongduanshijianxuanzedezhaoshushishilingde。ruguoniqueshizuo1gejuyouyouxiupinzhidejingchangxingxiyindaren，quanjienihuanshiduoshehuishijianhuodong，zhiyouyijushehuishijianhuodong，nidefangshi caihuineihua。yaoxiangyaowanmeideganqing，neimawoyeduochuduixiang。

操作步骤

nvyoudiudiaolezenyangzaiwanhui?

dahuoerliyingyishidao，wanhuinvyoudexiguanxinghejianjuxing。dangzheileifangfa shibai，youyikaishishizhelingwaizheilei。yiner，nibenyoudejihui，yejiubeichedidecuihuile。genjubenshendeqingkuangxuanzezheileifangfa ，jianchixiaqu，zhongguibaochidulisikao。zheishiguanlijuecenihuodechenggongwanhuideqiantitiaojian。zheier，ninengjinkenengzhangwoyixiezhongyaokanfa：

1、nvshitianxingjiushituixiezerenanquanyishide，liangxingjiaowangzhongnanxingjinliangjianfuqiquanbuzeren。tangruodahuoerfashengzhengzhideneishi，nihuanshibazerentuiweijiduifang，douhaimeibawodaonvrenhenanrenqinggankaiguandianyuanyuanlishangdebutong，neimenijiushi1gefengfuxings13。

2、kanaijiyiqianjiangguo：“quanqiuzhiyouzheileifangshi nengrangzishenquzuorenheneijianshiqing，neijiushitabenshenganxinqingyuandequzuo。”niwubibawoweishenmedahuoerfapiqitahuijijizhudongfancuowu，weishenmeyoushihoutahuiqucongnidegoujia。zheishiyouqianergenkexueneihanliandekanglaqiangduchaochuhouneitiaodekanglaqiangduguanlijuecede。

3、fumianqingxujixienengweishenmehuishidahuoerguanxihendadexiongfan?zheishiyounvrendanfuheanquanyishidetianxingzaochengde。dangfumianqingxukexueneihanliandekanglaqiangduchaochuqianergendekanglaqiangdu，tajiuhuilikaini。

4、ruhechulinvxingbuxihuanzhibiaohediaojie，niwubibawobikainvshixiayishiyiziwoweizhongxintixiandezhongyaoxing。jijizhudongfancuowuhehongtazhihouzaisuanchunidebuxihuanzhibiaohemashangjibuxihuanzhibiaoyouzhebenzhishangdebutong。

jingchangxingguanxixiangfenshoudezhijieyuanyin，yinweinifanleyouwu——youyufumianqingxukexueneihanliandeshanghaichaochuleqianergenkexueneihanliankeyidaozhideshanghai，zaochengleduifangduinidaozhilemishi。zheiyineishi，ruguoyuwotalianxihuozhetaxiangqileni：“benshenqinfenzhihousangshiyinglidelei”，“dahuoerzhengzhizhihounaleixinsuideganjue”，“zaiyebunenghongtadenaleishangxin”，zheileixinmaoquanbuquanshishifangchulai。huanjuhuashuotaduinixiayishidetiaojianfanshe，huanjuhuashuoweishenmejiarutaguanlijuecelikainiyihou，nizenyangzuodoushilingdeyuanyin。

zongyouyitian，nikeyinanyiwanghuaidelingwudao，xinmaodedongneng，shizhenshitaidelihai。ruguonimeiyouhenvyoufazhanquxiangguojingchangxingguanxi，meiyoubeinvyoushuaiguodetongkuzhenshijingli，yexuyinweiwowufachanshenggongming。ninengzuodeshiwubihenduodejingchangxingguanxilaikuozhannideyishishuiping。nijinliangyaoshifangchulainideyishi，nijinliangyaoxuejinghenduodedulisikao。quanqiumeiyouneijianwujianbidulisikaohaiyaozhongyaodele，zaiyebunengdulisikao，yinweiwobingfeifazhanqushi。

jiexialai，jianggennishuodeneiyiqie1gexiangguanwanhuinvyou1gezuizhongyaodeguannian。nikeyitongtongbuqingxi，danniwubiyaoshujixiamianzheineitiao：renhediyiduanguanxidewanhui，qiguanlijuecezuoyongdebuzaiyuni，erzaiyutashifoujinijihui。renheshucitawurenheliyouhuozhezhaoyuangudejijizhudongqulianxini，doushijiyu。ninengzuode，jiushibawobencijihui。huanjuhuashuoruhewanhuinvyouzuizhongyaodeguanjian。

liru：nvshengzaodaomouxieshierdeciji(tingdaodahuoerzhiqianjianlilexinmaodeyishougequchudongletadehuiyi)，turanxiangqilenidehao，chudonglekexueneihanlian，yiner，jijizhudongjinifaleneitiaoduanxin。cicitajijizhudonglianxini，jiuchengzhiweijiyu。erbencijihuidechuxian，yuniyeshimeiyouguanxide。

wulunzenyang，ruguotawanquanmeiliyouhuozheyouxinzhaoyuangudelianxini，doubiaoshuzheishihoutaainidekexueneihanlianbeijifale，tayikaishixiangdaoledahuoerzhiqiandemouzhongjijidexinmao。youyunvshi，doushigenzheganjuezoude，erqiedoubuyijijizhudongdanfu。tayexuhuibeiqianyishizhengqueyindao，benshenshizhiyebuqingxibenshenweishenmedeqingkuangxia，jinifaleneitiaoduanxin。huanjuhuashuotawuyishijinidejiyu。yaozuode，jiushijinxingshidangdezhengqueduidai，bawobencijihui。

zheiergennishuodeneiyiqiejinxingshidangdezhengqueduidaidefangshi ，rangnihendajianghuidezhangwobencijihui。zheiyifangshi chengzhiweijiangdiqinggandianliuzhigongmingdianfa。dahuoyixijidexiaguisonghuadelizhengma?yizheiyilizhengweili。

tabulinilei，yineryuwotajiaoshangjingjingle，niqieerbushegoujia，jiushibujijizhudonglianxita。yiguojitian。nihuangle，yinermouyitiannixinxuelaichao，tingzheshanggandegequ，yixiabenshendouchudongdebenshentongkuliuti。yinerdaizhezheifenreqingchongguoxianhuadianmaihuilai99duomeigui，yibenshengengkuai，daizhe11fendeqidaichongguolenvshengzhengmenkou，yidunfankuangqiao。nvshengzhongyuchuqu，nizhuangzuojiweishangxindebiaoqing，shenzhiyanleidouliuchuqu，jiezheguizaidishang，qiqiubaorong。jieguo，nvshengquemouxieyouyu，zishizhizhongdoubujieshou。yiner，niyixiabaohong，bahuayishuai，zhuanlianjiupao。

weishenmeneimazuomeiyouyuqixiaoguoni?yexuaita，bingfeibiaoshutaaini;nibenshenchudong，bingfeibiaoshutahuichudong。niganjuehenchudongdefangshi ，zaitayanlibuyidinghenchudong;nidaizhe11fendechudong，erta，duinidexiwangzhiyou1fen。

zhiyoucaiyongshidangxintaizhuangtaibodongdefangfa ，tacaihuichudong。

1gezhenzhengdenanrenyizhijingjingdidebaidaoneili，yongjiweishenqingheneijiudeyanguangwangzheduifang，erzuishang，yijuhuayebuyiqujiang。huanjuhuashuoguanjian：nvshihuiduinidezheizhongxingweidaozhifeichangxianghujiandeganjue。nvshideqinggankaiguandianyuanyuanlidoushihenhaixiude，ernanhaizidedianliuzhiqueshikuaisude，jingpenshide。zheishiqinglvzaiganqinggouzaoshangyou1gehendadebutong。

ruhechulifapiqi?taduizhenifapiqi，tangruoyuwotayikaishizhengchao，neidahuoeryidinghuidouyinduanshipin。ruguonihuanjiannidelegan，jitazishenchao，nijiushibuzuosheng。tajiaonizhishengdeneishi，nizhishuoyiliangju：“ng，shidoushiwodecuo。”buyongwojiang，niyezhangwozuihoudejieguoshishenme。erzheshiyouzhi，shikuaisudekaiguandianyuanyuanli，liangzheshichenwen，shitawubidekaiguandianyuanyuanli。

weishenmeneimaduorendoushishuo“jiangdiguidinggan”，zheiquanshikaiguandianyuanyuanliguanlijuecede。nvshidedianliuzhidoushijiaomande，dannanhaizidedianliuzhidoushikuaisu。dangnixintaizhuangtaigengjiajidongdeneishi，nidedianliuzhijiuhuiyulaiyukuaisu，shenzhishijingpenshide。neime，nvshidekaiguandianyuanyuanli，shiwanquanjieshoubujinnineibandedianliuzhi。zheishibushinijingchangduinvshikuanghonglanzhazhihou，nvshimeiyoutixian，erqiehaichangchangtingdaotadeyijuhua：“yalihaoda。”niyiweizheishifeiwuceshima?zheishizhenlidekeguanxing!yinweitadekaiguandianyuanyuanlijieshoubujinnineimadadedianliuzhi，yalishifendeda!

weishenmejingchangshuonvshixiangmaotongyang，niyufajutibiaoxianchunidezhongai，taduinideganjueyeyuedaruo;niyufaduitameiyouguidinggan，taduinidexiyinyuedaqiang。yinweierzhe，nidedianliuzhiguomeng，tadekaiguandianyuanyuanliwufajieshou;dangnidedianliuzhiyikaishixueruo，tajiuhuipeizhenichanshenggongming;dangnigengruodeneishi，tadedianliuzhifanerbinikeyihao，yinci，tajiuyikaishixiangnidekaiguandianyuanyuanli，yunsongdianliuzhi。

zaibirunizhuinvshideneishi。weishenmenvshijingchangyingshuo：“jiwokaolvyixia?”shenzhitazaojiuhenzhongainilei，danhuanshiyingshuo“wosuanshikaolvyixia”。niyoujuedezheishinvshijinidetuocima?quzhaiyaogaosuni，zheidouyouyunvshidedianliuzhihuanmandetexingguanlijuecede，tawubidiyiduanrongjinnidianliuzhideguocheng。nanhaizijianghuijiandao1gefeichangxinggandemeinv，mashangjiuhuiyoushenglixuqiu。ernvshi，yineryaojinglihenduodexingqianxi，caihuiduixing，manmandidaozhiganjue。

dangnijiangnideduanxinpianshusuojiandaojijuxiajiang，shenzhidaozhiyou1ge“ng”zideneishi;jiaruhewonvshiliaotianerdehuajijuxiajiang，xuduodeyongyanshenjiaoliudeneishi;dangdahuoerzhengzhideneishi，nirentazeguaierbufanjideneishi;dangnideganjueyuelaiyuebitahaiyaomanbanpaideneishi。ganshoudaonvshidezheizhongganjuelemeiyou?nvshiyaodebingfeiniluanqibazaodemiaoshuhewenluandesiweiluoji，tayaodezhishizheileiganjue。ninengtingcongtahaixiudekaiguandianyuanyuanli，manmandijiangdinidedianliuzhi。neiban，niduitadexiyinyixiajiukeyi tiaozhi7fenshangxia。

nvshiweishenmedouzhongaichenwendenanhaizi，yinweizhiyouchenwendenanhaizicaizhangwo，wubijiangdibenshendedianliuzhi，caixiangqunvshengtongpingongzhen。dangnishibaideyueda，niyuedahuigaoqingchuruherangbenshenbiandegengjiatairanziruodezhongyaoxing。nisong10000duomeigui，haiburuzaitazhengmenkouzhan1gecheyewulunzaochengshenmeyijuhuawuxujiang，diertianjitazhaohuliangsheng，jiezhezhuanshenlikai。erzhe，tahuihendanyouerraokai;liangzhe，tahuihenchudongerdaozhifuzuigan。dangnijinjinzhangwolezheiyidian，haishibugou，nikeyiwubizhangworuherangtachanshenggongmingdefangfa 。

ruhewanhuinvyou?dangchuxiannidenvyouwanquanbulicainideneishi，nikeyidingbianneitiaopumandahuoermeihaohuiyideduanxinjitafaguoqu，tajueduihuijinirangnichuhuyiliaodeyiwaidejingxi! dangnibuduandeyijuxintaizhuangtaigongmingdianfa，cijitadediertiaokexueneihanlian。neime，henyoukenengtadediertiaokexueneihanlianhuitongguodisanfumianqingxukexueneihanlian!dangnizhangwolehuanjiannidedianliuzhi;buduandeyongxintaizhuangtaigongmingdiancijitadediertiaokexueneihanlian。neime，yinweiwonenghendachengduderangtadeqianyishiyikaishijinijihui，yinweiwonenghendachengdudezhangwobencijihui。huanjuhuashuowanhuideshifangfa !

tangruonikeyibuqingxi，wanhuideneishiniwubixuehuifangxianidezitai，nikeyibuqingxifapiqizhuangbhuozhexiangshenjingbingtongyangdezuofazhishirangdahuoerdeguanximaijindigu。nijinliangyaoshujiyixiaergenzhouqixing：

1、wanhuidehuangjinshijianzaidahuoerxiangfenshoudeyixingqinei，kecaozuoguochengdeshijianzaidahuoerxiangfenshoudeyigeyuezhinei。chaoguozhei2geshijiandian，wanhuidejihuihenyoukenengzai3bannian，bannian，1nian，shenzhiyibeizicaihuichuxian。

2、wudaqingkuangyikuaierdengchangsongmingyundongdinglv，yixiajileiqingkuangyikuaierdengchang，tadefumianqingxukexueneihanlianjianghuizhanjujueduidaoxiangxing。niwanhuidejilvjiangxiaoyu1%。

diyizhongqingkuang：wanhuideneishizhunbeichongfenjitadechudong，dangtameijiniyujidefanyingerfapiqi。

dierzhongqingkuang：wanhuijieduanfapiqidefangfalengdong，talianxinideneishiniyongfapiqibuzhangyangdengchang。

disanzhongqingkuang：wanhuideneishihetajianlishushiganlianxigan，nituranbiaoshuaiyi，tatuicini，niyikaishifapiqi，bingzhuangbyijushandiaohetalianxifangshi，xianghetazuihouyidu，rangdahuoermeiyoujiaoliuyugoutongdeanquanchukou。”

gandaozheiyineishi，nixuyaozuodezhiyouyidian：nikeyizhuanhuanzhidaosixiangle，dahuoerneizailianxi，jiangyidechufangfafazhanquxiang，zhidaochedijuezhong。

jieduan1：ruhewanhuinvyou?dangdahuoermoushuciliaotianerdeneishi，taturanrangniwuxujiaotanvpengyouchuguile，bingfeiyaolikainile。nimeifuzhushijian。

jieduan2：zheiyineishiyikaishizhuangbhuozhebianchengshenjingbingpinmingqidonggongjiquwanhui。

jieduan3：shenjingbinggongjishixiaozhihouyikaishizhangwoneibanzuotazhiruowangwen，yineryikaishijiazhuangxinpingqihehetajiaoliuyugoutong，xiwangyijugeshigeyangfangshi wanhuita。(zheiyineishitahaiyuanyipeizheniliaotianer，erqiedahuoerdeliaotianerhaikeyibijiaohexie，danniyitijiwanhuidehuati，tajiuhuibikaituici)

jieduan4：ruhewanhuinvyou?dangniqianlvjiqiongzhihou，yikaishishixinglengdong，tanbaita，nichedifangqitale，jiezhexiangrangtalai