分手后可以继续做朋友，你该如何挽回前男友

 zaifenshoudehuayuli，shuodeshuzuiduodejiushishuo，“wohenlei”，“wojibushangnixingfukuaile”，“renmenyouwenti”，“renmenzuopengyouba”dengzheileideyuju。yingduineiyangdehuayu，nvhaizuodeshuzuiduodejiushishuoyangqiulingyifang，sichanlingyifang，weixielingyifang，qidainengyunyonglingyifangdezerenxintahuihehaoruchu。danshi，nvhaimen，dajiayaogaoqingchudangnanrenjiangchutichufenshoudeneiyike，niyizhizailingyifangdexinlijiuzaoyichuzai1gefourendebuweile。neima，zailingyifangjiangchuzheihuashi，gaizenyang wanhuinanyou ?

一、不必作出低使用价值的挽留个人行为

 fenshouzhihouhuimitulezishen，shiqulixing，tashihenduorendouhuiyoudezhuangkuang。tamenfeijinxinsigezhonggeyangfangfa，haojingezhonggeyangfangshixiangwanliulingyifangdexin，nalejieyueganyuecuo，yuecuoyueda。zhizhilingyifangbazishenjijiaruheimingdanle。wanliubuqujueyuzuoshiduoshaoduideshi，erqujueyunifanshiduoshaocuo!neima，zaiwanhuiganqinglibian，henrongyichuxianbuzhengquedezuofayoushenme?

 changshisipilailian，shizhongtongdianhuafaxiaoxi。fenshouzhihoujienabushangmeitianhuayanqiaoyuzhandaoyikuaierderen，huranxiaotuizaizishendeyishizhuxingzhizhong。xiangshiquxinderenfengkuangdixunzhaolingyifang，buduanditongdianhuafashoujiweixin，qudishengxiaqilingyifangkuanrong，qidaofuhexing。zaochengleguanxiehuashengji，zaochenglingyifangdedichu。lingyifangrenaozhizhongjiangchuhenduobuhaotingdehua，sixindilaheilequanbudelianxidianhua。jiranshitichufenshouneiliangrenchangyouyiwu，nishoushangbidingyoutajienabushangdequexian，ciketayanlizhinenghuaiyinxiangdeni，niganshenmeshierquanshicuode。zheizhongxingweijiushishuoduankaibingjigerenxingweirangfenqishengji，yinciniqianwanbiesipilailian。

 changshilianxitadepenyouhuojiashu。bukeyisaoraota，youxiangyaozhidaoyouguantadexingji，congqinqipengyouzhonghuodetadexinxi?qianwanbieneimeben!youyutadepenyoujiashuzongshijiangniquanbudehuawanhaowusunditanbai，naizhihaihuixiangtajubaonisaoraodaotamendeyishizhuxing。zheibujinlingdaotaxihuanni，jiuliantadeqinqipengyoudoushixihuanni。nongbuhaohaiyichuanshi，koukouxiangchuandajiatichufenshoudexinxi，rangyouxinrenhaiyoujihuiqutiejinta。yinciniqianwanbiechangshilianxitadepenyouhejiashu。

 tingquyijianpenyoudejianyibingqushizheyumeiwubidewanliufangshi 。jibukenaixiangwanliulingyifangqueyoujiaojinnaozhideneishihou，ganwanbukeyisuiyitingquyijianpenyoudejianyi，naizhizaibaidutieba、xinlangweibo、bokezheixiefangshifatieziqusouji“gejiegaoshou”detiyi。qingganwentiqishiwenbenshangnenggou xushuqingchuni?pangbianrenchuduixiangderenyoubingbushitamen，tamenweishenmehuilejiezenmezuocaiduini。neiyangfangcundaluandeni，zishenyemeiyoupouxiqingxitichufenshoudeyuangu，yaofouzedehuawoxianzaijiuzaiduizhengzhiliaogaibianxianzhuang，erbingbushikongxuelaifengshizhemouxieyumeidefangshi 。

 changchangdanxinganqingmanmangaoyiduanluo,zhongjiudoubingbushiheqiannvyouzhongxiujiuhaole。renyuanbenzongyouqiqingliuyumeibanfaqingyijiupiekaixiaojiqingxuqufenfaxiangshang。youqirouruodeneishihou，niantoujiuhuipianzhongbutaihaodefangwei。keshizheibanfumianxinxideniantou，duiyufuhexingeryanshibingmeiyoudeyichu，zongshiweihainiwanliudetuanduizhixingli。xiyinlifazelibiantiji，ninaxiedexintai，naxiedechufadianyuzhoukongjiandeyinlichangbianhuirangnichanshengnaxie。niyingdangshulihaozishendexintai，jijizhudongwanghaodecengmianquxiang，guannianweihaigerenxingwei。

二、敢于应对提出分手的客观事实

 meigerendianjizhezishendeganqingkeyibaitouxielao。danbingbushiqidairuhe，neimajiuhuiruhede，youshimouxieyuanguzaochengchuxianletaduinijiangchutichufenshouzheihua。ruguonimeifayingduizheishiliaoweijideyanlidajideneishihoujiuhuifeichangrongyishenxianxiaochendiluodexintaizhizhong，quanburendoutianmanlefumianqingxu。yuanyiwanliulingyifang，zuixiannidejiejuefumianqingxu，yingyongyingduiqinggan，zuogejijizhudongkailangwangshangderen。

 suzaojijizhudongjijidexintai。wojuedefenshouzhihouhenduorendouhuiyidiebule，youshangdexintaizhanyoulezhengyigeneixin。ruguoyitiandaowandouhuidianjizhetichufenshouzheijianshiqing，nanguojiuhuifeichangrongyidaozhixintaishangdeshiling，zaochengzuochuxiebulizishenwanliudeshierlai，buduanjilingyifanggongzuoyali，neimazongshiranglingyifanggengweixintaizhuangtaishangfourenni，juedetichufenshoushiduide，neizongshirangwanliugengweijiannanle。yinciyaoxiangsuzaoshenxinjiankangdexintaizhuangtai，jiuwubizhaoxiefenfaxiangshangdeshierlaizuo，fensanhuajizhongzhuyilirangzishenbubidianjizhetichufenshoudeshier。biru：qudengshan，genpenyouqugechangdeng，rangzishendexinqingyukuaiqilai。

 bashijianhuoliyongzaitigaozijideshoushang。lianqingshi，ganqingshangxianghudoushibazishenbixudeshijianhehuolizijintourudaolingyifangdeshoushang，youzhongzhuangkuangjiushishuozuoweiyaoqiugangaodelingyifang，jiuhuizailingyifangzijintourudaliangshijianhehuoli，yitiandaowanjinjinweiraolingyifangzhuandong，zheimianbuleburongyiranglingyifangshangxiazishen，zaochengzishenmeiyouhuashijianlaiyuanyuwojibenjianshe。yinci，cike，jiuqingbieqianxinwankuqidaolingyifangzaigenniyizhizaiyikuaierle，liangzhezhijianneimekelingdewanliu，haibibushangbaneifenqidaolingyifangdequdongliyongzaizishendejibenjiansheshang。zhinengchixudewanshanziwo，jiuhuigengweiyouzichan，gengweidiyouyouhuoli。

 tigaozijidelianqingdengji。youshi，lianqingdengjidetaidi，jiumeifalejiehechuaicelingyifangzaixiangganshenme，yuanyideyoushisha，erzheiyineishihouyincijiubuqingchuzenyanggenlingyifanggoutongjiaoliuhedafulingyifang。yinciruguoxianggenlingyifangjiaowangdehemu，haiyaotishengzijidelianqingdengji。nikeyizuodejiushishuoxuehaoqukexueyanjiuguanjiandian，jiushishuozixiguanchalingyifangdegerenxingweihezishi，zailijingzishendepouxi，bingzuochushihededafu。jiufangfoyixienvshengchangshuozishenmeiyouanquangan，neizuoweinanhaizidenihaiyaoqufajueshizenmehuishizaochengletaquefaanquangan，zhinenglejieshishenmeyuanyin，caihuigengweiyoumudexingdiyulingyifangjiaowang。ruguonizaiyilingyigelingyifangdeniantou，weilingyifangguanxindeneishihou，neimalingyifangjiuhuigengweiaixizheizheifenqinggan。

三、以异性朋友的方法与前女友交往

 yibanlaishuo，ruguoliangrentichufenshou，xianghuxianghuguanxibidinghuiyuelaiyuehaogangahuoshihenjiroujiangying。jiaruzheiyineishihouqiangzhiquxiubuguanlian，haowuyiwenhuidebuchangshi。yincizaifenshouhou，bixuyaoqingxidigaoqingchuzishendejingzhundingwei，gaohao1geyixingpengyou。

 yaobazishenjingzhundingweichengyixingpengyou，zuixiannikeyijienatichufenshouzheiyikeguanshishi。dangniliankeguanshishidoujienabushang，haitannaxiejingzhundingweichengyixingpengyou，nizongshigaosutazishen，dajiashiyixingpengyou，keshiquexiangganzhelianrencaihuizuodeshier，yonglianrendeguifanguidingta。zheimoyangzuobulaiyixingpengyoude，huoxupianbushangta。jienaletichufenshoudekeguanshishi，nicaihuigaoqingchudajiazaixianjieduanhuanjie，shimeiyouguanliande。neiyangnicainenggou zhenshidiyiyixingpengyoudezhenshishenfengentajiaowang，tacaihuiduinisangshifangbei，youyutayekeyijuededaozaiyebuhuichanta，tabubidanxinniheshihuichuxian。yaoshidajiabicihainengyipenyoufangfajiaowang，ninandaohaipatakanbujiannidegenggaima?

 qicifenshouhoubixuyaoyouzhezishendeyishizhuxing，bukeyiyitichufenshoujiujuedequanqiudoutale，yitiandaowanzaineibiannanguoshangxin。yikaishitichufenshousheidouburongyixiguanxingde，keshiyounengzenmeyangni?zaixianjieduanhuanjieeryan，keyiyouzhezishenyishizhuxing，erqiebayishizhuxingguojingcai，caikeyizaiduxiyinzhudaotademuguang。rangzishenyouzhejingcaideyishizhuxing，nenggou genjumouxiefangshitahuizhangwodao，tahuijuede，tameiyounixiangtongnenggou guodefeichanghao，bazishenduitadeyaoqiuganjiangxiaqu，badajiazhongjiandefenqidianjiangxiaqu，wanliudenanduxishujiujianshaoxuduole。“tahuiganjue，tameiyounishenbianshi，douhuicuoguolemouxiexingfudewupin。”dengnitaganjuewomenzaiyiqiyishizhuxingyoujianghuibizishenyigerenderiziyaogaoxingdeneishihou，woyezaoyiqudechenggongxiyinzhudaotale。

 zaidajiahuanshiyixingpengyoudequanguochengzhong，diaojiezishendexintaizhuangtaihenguanjian。jianghuigangkaishijingzhundingweibianchengyixingpengyoudeneishihou，huishifenbuxiguanxing，wojuedexinlihenxianglaizhaolingyifang、henzheji、henxinfan，zheiyineishihoujiubixuyaokefuzhuzishendechongdong。zaizheiyiquanguochengzhong，rangzishenweichijijidexintai，weichixiangshourenshengdexintai。dangdajiakeyiyikuaierchuqushuoshuohuadeneishihou，yebubitanzhiqiandeshier，ranglingyifangmeiyouneimadagongzuoyali，weichi1gexinqingyukuaideqifen，rangbicinenggouxiangyouciciyouhui，neiyanghaikeyiweidaoshihouyouhuifahuitezhang。

 ganqingmeiyouhongyundangtoudeneishihou，yedouhuiyouzhengzhihefenqidecunyou，danglingyifanggenninaofenshoushi，qianwanbieyulingyifangzhenglun，xianyuanyilingyifangdejuece，suihouhaohaoxiangqingxinantichuxiandeyuangu，zaijiushinantiquzuochugenggai，tigaogerenjiazhi，yiyixingpengyoudefangfaquyulingyifangchupeng，ranglingyifangxuehuifangxiatifangxin，ninenggouyouzaiduyulingyifangqinjindejiyu。