分手后挽回男友的三个高效方法

wulunshizaiganqingli，huanshizairichangshenghuozhong，renmenyiban yuanyiwangjiyigerendehuadoubingbushineimafeichangrongyideshi。meiyoulijingdabannianzuoyoudeshijian，lingyifanghaihuizaizishendenaohaizhongliyihuierchuxian。dadaoliwojuedemeigerendong，jinjinzhenduifenshouzhihoujizheyaowanliudereneryan，tamenyouyuyaoqiugantaiqiangle，kenenghuidaozhiqueshilezishendelixing，youyuyuanyixunsuwanliulingyifang，erjizhequzuoyixiezijuedenengwanliulingyifangdeshier。danwojuede，yuexinjiderendaowanliudelumianshangyuewufaqudechenggong。wanhuiaiqingmijiyounaxie?xiangwanhuiaiqingdehuazenmezuo?

一.不必由于心急而犯错误

yiban ，renyibianyaojizhewanliulingyifangxiubuxianghuxianghuguanxi，yincihuicaiyonggeshigeyangnijuedeshiduidegerenxingwei。danzhengyouyuzheizhonggaoyaoqiugerenxingweizaochengdajiadeguanlianyanhuadeyulaiyucaogao，conglingyifangyuanyipeinitichufenshoubianweiguoduanbixuyaopeinitichufenshou。shenmegerenxingweihuizaochenglianggerendeguanlianbuduanebian?

二、调节良好的心态，改变现状

meigerendianjizhezishendeganqingkeyibaitouxielao。danbingbushiqidairuhe，neimajiuhuiruhede，youshimouxieyuanguzaochengchuxianletaduinijiangchutichufenshouzheihua。ruguonimeifayingduizheishiliaoweijideyanlidajideneishihoujiuhuifeichangrongyishenxianxiaochendiluodexintaizhizhong，quanburendoutianmanlefumianqingxu。buzhiyousheixiangyaogen1getianmanfumianqingxuderenyikuaieryishizhuxingni?fenshouzhihouruhediaozhengxintaiwanhuiganqing。

suzaojijizhudongjijidexintai。fenshouzhihouhenduorendouhuiyidiebule，youshangdexintaizhanyoulezhengyigeneixin。wojuedexuduoneishihouxintaishiyouzishenqucaozongde。“xingfukuailedeweiyiguize，jiushishuodujuefumianqingxu，dangzishenyoufumianqingxushichulita，dangtarenyoufumianqingxushibangzhutarenchulita，jiaruqueshibangbushangnijiudujueta。”yinciyaoxiangsuzaoshenxinjiankangdexintaizhuangtai，jiuwubizhaoxiefenfaxiangshangdeshierlaizuo，fensanhuajizhongzhuyilirangzishenbubidianjizhetichufenshoudeshier。biru：qudengshan，genpenyouqugechangdeng，rangzishendexinqingyukuaiqilai。

xiangwanhuiaiqingdehuazenmezuo?bashijianhuoliyongzaitigaozijideshoushang。lianqingshi，ganqingshangxianghudoushibazishenbixudeshijianhehuolizijintourudaolingyifangdeshoushang，youzhongzhuangkuangjiushishuozuoweiyaoqiugangaodelingyifang，jiuhuizailingyifangzijintourudaliangshijianhehuoli，yitiandaowanjinjinweiraolingyifangzhuandong，zheimianbuleburongyiranglingyifangshangxiazishen，zaochengzishenmeiyouhuashijianlaiyuanyuwojibenjianshe。yinci，cike，jiuqingbieqianxinwankuqidaolingyifangzaigenniyizhizaiyikuaierle，liangzhezhijianneimekelingdewanliu，haibibushangbaneifenqidaolingyifangdequdongliyongzaizishendejibenjiansheshang。zhinengchixudewanshanziwo，jiuhuigengweiyouzichan，gengweidiyouyouhuoli。

tigaozijidelianqingdengji。youshi，lianqingdengjidetaidi，jiumeifalejiehechuaicelingyifangzaixiangganshenme，yuanyideyoushisha，erzheiyineishihouyincijiubuqingchuzenyanggenlingyifanggoutongjiaoliuhedafulingyifang。yinciruguoxianggenlingyifangjiaowangdehemu，haiyaotishengzijidelianqingdengji。nikeyizuodejiushishuoxuehaoqukexueyanjiuguanjiandian，jiushishuozixiguanchalingyifangdegerenxingweihezishi，zailijingzishendepouxi，bingzuochushihededafu。

三、无要求的检测联络

fenshouhouzenmecainenglejiezishenzaitadeyanlishibushibianhuahenda?zheishinibixuzuodeshikaizhanjiancelianluo。genjujiancelianluo，woyenengzhangwolingyifangzheishidexintaizhuangtaiyuduinidefanying，congerjuecexiayijieduanyingdangzenyangkaizhan，laiyuanmanwanliuta。

kaizhanjiancelianluodeqiantitiaojian

xiangwanhuiaiqingdehuazenmezuo?zaikaizhanjiancelianluoyiqian，nikeyixiangaohaochongyudetiqianzhunbei，baozhengzishenzaoyifeichanghaodejinxinglezishenjibenjianshe、hulianwangzhanxianzheixie。zheishihou，ninenggouduilingyifangkaizhanjiancelianluo。bukeyizaigangtichufenshouhuoshilingyifangqidouhaimeixiaodeneishihouqukaizhan，neiyangfandaohuidaozhifanshijixiaoguo。“jiarulianluobukeyidadaohaodetuidong，neizheibidingshihuaidetuidong，huanjuhuashuoluanshizhehuoshiluanjiancelianluo，zongshitishengwanliudezhouqishijianhenanduxishubale!”bingqie，zaikaizhanjiancelianluoshi，yingyiwuyaoqiudexintaiqukaizhanjiance，bukeyiranglingyifangganjueniyeshiyuanyiwanliuta，nikeyibatazuoweiyixingpengyoukandai。

怎样开展检测联络

zuixianninengyongmouxiewuyaoqiudeyuanyin，genjushoujiweixin、dianhua、qqdengxiaogongjufaxiaoxijitamen，liru，zaichuantongjierijitamenfazheitiaojianjiemingledezhufuduanxin。jiarutalijidafulenibingwenhaonidexiankuang，biaomingtadexintaishijijizhudongde，zheishihou，ninengshizheyutaliaotianer，liuyiyaozhuyaobiaoxiandejijizhudongjiqing，erqiejinkenengjianjiemingledewanbihuihua。jiarutazhuyaobiaoxiandehenlengmohuoshimeiyouhuiyingnideduanxiaoxi，biaominglingyifangduiniyaocunzaibixudejiebeixinhekongjugan，neimaniyebuyongzaizaicihuiyingtale。niyingdangzhongzhijiance，zaiciduizishenkaizhangengxingaizaohetigao，tishengzishendeyouhuoli。

chukaifaxinxi，nikeyigenjutongdianhualaikaizhanjiancelianluo。youyurendeyudiaohuiyijuzishendexintaiergenggai，erduanxiaoxiqueshijiaoweinanqiadangfenbianlingyifangdexintaizhuangtai。genjuyutadadianhua，nenggou congtadeyudiaozhongfenbianlingyifangzheishiduinidexintai，jinerxuanzeshihedewanliutuidongfangshi 。liru，zailingyifangchangchanghuigudedianmianzaizuozhekouzhutihuodongshi，tongdianhuagaozhilingyifang，yilianghaodexintaiyulingyifangshuohua。jiarulingyifangyuniqingqingsongsong、kaixindetanhuaneirong，woyenengzaicikaizhanwanliudexiayijieduan;jiarutaxintailengmo，woyebixumashangzhongzhijiance，yizuijianjiemingledeyujuwanbihuihua。

xiangwanhuiaiqingdehuazenmezuo?wanliutichufenshoumeiduojiudenanpengyou，zuibukeyizuodejiushishuoxinjiwanliu，sichanyangqiu，xianjianshaozishendeyaoqiugan，bajizhongzhuyiliduofangdaotigaozijishiyongjiazhideshiershang，yiyixingpengyoudefangfaqukandailingyifang，neiyang，taduinideyouhaoducaihuizaidutigaoshangqu，zheishihou，wanhuinanpengyoudegailvcaihuizhubutigao。