xuduorenruguobeifenshouhou,zaigangkaishineiyiduanshijianyizhihuiyizhiqian,yejinbuzhuquguanxinlingyifangdeweixinpengyouquan,ruguolingyifangdeweixinpengyouquanyounaxieshengxiang,feichangshifaleyixiejitangwen,jiuhuanxiangshijiezheshitaduizishendebushede,yinci,youxiangxijidilianluolingyifang,gaosutalingyifangzishenyouzhixiangta。wojuede,niyueneiyangzuo,yueduopululezishendeyaoqiugan,zheiduinidewanliushihenbuliangyingxiangde。weishenmenishuo?wanhuiaiqingmijiyounaxie?xiang wanhuiaiqing dehuazenmezuo?
一、分手之后不可以有的个人行为
nvxingzaifenshouzhihou,yibancaozongbuleyoushangdexintai,yuanyiwanhuinanpengyou,danyouzuochulemouxiebuzhengquedezuofa,biruzuomouxiedadongtadeshi,bingbushimouxiechudongtaxinlidehua,danjieguozongshirangxianghudeliefengyulaiyushen,wanliudejiyujijuxiajiang。yuanyiwanhuinanpengyou,nibixuzhangwozheizhongcuowuguannianbingmingbairaokaizheizhongcuowuguannian,nenggoujinidewanliugengyuanman。
xiangwanhuiaiqingdehuazenmezuo?meiyouxintaidiaozheng。yuanyiwanhuinanpengyou,xintaizhuangtaidediaojieshihenguanjiande,yixienvxingzaifenshouzhihoumeiyoulijixintaidiaozheng,bukenjienatichufenshoudekeguanshishi,yitiandaowanchenzuiyubuzixintongchudangzhong,shizishenmeijingdacai、chouchangbukanrumu,rangzhoubianderenjianeryuanzhi,dangnishizhongneiyangxialai,zongshijinidewanliumengliekai,nibixuzouxiangshijie,xiaohuaxishoudaziranhetaiyang,rangzishenzaicizhenzuo,leguandexintaiyouliyunizuochuqiadangdejuece,tishengwanliudetongguolv。
meiyoujishichulibenshendenanti。zaifenshouzhihounengjijifajuenantibingjiuzheng,henduorendouwufabaozhengzheiyidianer,jiarushizhonghenparenqingnanti,shinantimeiyoulijichuli,wanliujiugengweiwuwangle。dangqinglvzoulaidaotichufenshoudeneiyibu,biaominglexianghudeqingganzaojiuchuxianlenanti,zhengshuobaileyigebazhangpaibuxiang,ganqingchuxianwentinishitaolibushangguanlian,nibixuxianfanshengziji,congzishenshoushangzhaoxuntichufenshoudeyuangu,suihouduizhengzhiliao,neiyangduiwanliucaiyouyi。
meiyoujinkuaitigaoziji。zaiwanliuzhong,xuduorenzourule1gecuowuguannian,jiushishuomeiyoujinkuaitigaoziji,juedeyaoshizishenchixusichanta,tajiuhuinianjihenduoniandeqingganerhehaoruchu,keshitazaoyiduinisilexinle,niweihetahuiganxinqingyuandipeinifuhexingni?nibixurangzishenbiancheng1geshiyongjiazhigenggaoderen,genjuqinfenbuduantigaozishendeyouhuoli,tahuiduiniermuyixin,qudechenggongbaochiercixiyin。
二、分手之后为何不必关心他的微信朋友圈
xiangwanhuiaiqingdehuazenmezuo?xuduorendaowanhuiganqingquanguochengshihuizourude1gecuowuguannian,jiuliruxuduoneishihouhenduorendouhuishizhongguanxinzhelingyifangdeweixinpengyouquan,suihouzuochumouxieguanzhuyouchexiaodechunshi,qidaikeyiyinerhuodelingyifangdeguanxin,neima,neiyangdegerenxingweihuiyougongxiaoma?
lengzangbudantingbuyu“buxutalejie”
wanhuiaiqingmijiyounaxie?wojuede,lengzangbingfeinijuededeyaoburantalejieniyaotajiujiuxingle。henduorendouhuirenwei,zhinengfenshouzhihoubuduanditongdianhuasaoranlingyifang,buduandechanzhelingyifang,zheizhongsuanshihuibaoluzijiyaoqiugandediqu,keshi,wojuedeqiaoqiaodeniguanxinzhelingyifangdeweixinpengyouquan,suihouzuochumouxieguanzhuyouchexiaodechunshi,zheidoushihuipuluniyaoqiugandegerenxingwei。
yinci,jianshaoyaoqiuganbingbushijinjinyaoburantalejie,zhishicongbenzhidejianshaoniduitadeyaoqiu。neimayaozenyangcainengjianshaoyaoqiuganni?wojuedezaizheiliyiduanshijianli,ninengyongdaliangdehuolizuohaozijixiaideshier,ninengbazishendeyishizhuxingguodefengfuerjingcai。neiyangbinishizhonghuozaitadequanqiulihaoxiededuo,zhiyaonizhenshidejianshaoleduitadeyaoqiu,nenggougengqiangdequkaizhanxiayijieduandewanliu。
liangzhezhijianzishenmomodi“toukui”,bibushangxiangfangfatahuizhenshideguanxin
yexuxuduorenyaoshuo,neimajiarubuguanxintale,renmenwanquanduanlianlezheijiunenggou wanliuma?wojuede,yuanyiwanliu,nikeyiyougengqiangdefangshi。liangzhezhijianjingjingdi“toukui”,bibushangxiangfangfatahuizhenshideguanxin。
zhimingdeganqingzhuanjiakangnajiucengjingjiangguo“ruguoniyaoqiuganyuedideneishihou,zhudaoquanzainishoushangbianjiushishuowodezuijindeneishihou”,yincinigengweiyingdangzuodeshixiangfangfatahuiguanxinni,erbingbushinimomodiliuyita。neima,yaozenmecainengtahuiguanxinni?
weixinpengyouquanzuoweihuxianggoutongjiaoliudegongluqiaoliang,keyijibicideganqingjuyoulianjiedegongxiao。yincinijiaruyuanyitahuizaiciguanxin,jiunenggou genjuweixinpengyouquanzhanxianbutongdeni,jiuliruninengzaigaibianzishenyihou,genjuweixinpengyouquandefangfawuyijiandichengxiannideqianying、niduozhongduoyangdeyishizhuxing,xianchunidejijizhudongkailangyugaoshiyongjiazhi,neiyangjiunenggou dianfuyiwangdeniyizhizaitaxinzhongzhongdepinpaixingxiang,zaiduzaochengtaduinidexingquaihao,neimanidewanliujiunengjiandaoshuguang。
wojuede,ruguonitoukuitarenweixinpengyouquanshi,guanzhuyouchexiaozhiyoushi1gepulunizishenyaoqiugandegerenxingwei,ciwaibingmeishenmeqitadegongxiao,nineiyangzuozongshitahuijuedenihuanshishizhongliuyizhetade。yinci,jiaruniyaozhenshidezaochengtadeguanxin,neimajiushizhequgenggainizishenba,babuyiyangdezijizhanxianzaitayanxia,neiyangtacaihuibeinizaicixiyinzhu。
三、怎样减少自身对他的要求感
wanhuiaiqingmijiyounaxie?tichufenshounikeyibaozhengtouyijianshierjiushishuolengzangdajiazhongjiandeqinggan,bukeyijijilianluota。youyuzhinengneiyang,ninenggoufangzhigentazaochengdaliangdefenqi,nenggoushuoburongyiranglingyifangjuedaoniyaoqiuganguogao。nikeyishiranjienayitichufenshoudekeguanshishi,xintaidiaozheng。
jianshaoyaoqiuganduiwanliudeweihai
fenshouzhihou,jianshaoyaoqiugan,ninengyoudaliangdehuolizuohaozijixiaideshier,ninengguodegengqiang。neiyangdangtajiandaofenshouzhihouguodefeichanghaodeni,yincijiuhuixinxincuolie,ganjuebugan,jinbuzhudiguanxinni。jianshaoyaoqiugan,meiqujijilianluota,lijingguoduanshijian,tayincijiuhuihelixingweishifoutazishenzuobuduinaxie,yincinicaihuineiyang。neiyangwoyezaochengtadeduinideguanxinle,taduinideyaoqiuganjiushengshanglaile,erzhudaoquanjiuzainishoulile。rutongganqingfuhedashikangnachangshuode“ercixiyinzhuzhongzhudaoquan。ruguoniyaoqiuganyuedideneishihou,zhudaoquanzainishoushangbianjiushishuowodezuijindeneishihou。yincizaiquanbuwanliuquanguochengzhong,yaoqiuganshi1gegenbenxingdeyaosu。”yincishuoxiangwanliuta,bixuyaojianshaozishendeyaoqiugan。
yaoqiuganzaiquanbuwanliuquanguochengzhongqihenguanjiandegongxiao。zhinengjianshaozishendeyaoqiugan,ninenggougaibianxianzhuang、wanshanziwo,cainenggou zaochengtaduinideguanxin,ninenggoujinkuaiwanliuta。
wanhuiaiqingmijiyounaxie?yiner,fenshouzhihouruoniyaowanliu,jibianniyaohensinianlingyifang,henhaoqixinlingyifangrujindezhuangkuang,nihaiyaobimianzhuzishendexintai,jianshaoduitadeyaoqiugan,bubiquguanxintaweixinpengyouquanlibiandeqingkuang,huoxuyuekanyuetishengniduitadeguannianzijintouru,neiyangduinidewanliuzongshibaihaierwuyige。
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