异地恋挽回男友的方法，你知道吗

qingganwanhui zenmeban?wojuedegekaiwaididelianqing，meiyikezhenduilianrenbicieryanquanshizheizhongnanao。keyidiliantazishen suocunyoudejianjuxianding，huiduilianggerendeneixinzaochengerrumurandeweihai，jianjiandihuichuxiangongzuozhongfanmangmeifalianluo、meifaqulingyifangsuozaichengshipengmiandenggezhongzhuangkuang，congererwenshidejiushiqinggandeshengshu，mianbulelianggerendefenqieryinqidezhengzhi，naizhilaidaotichufenshoudechengdu。yingduiyidilian，nigaizenyangwanliuxinlidetani?fenshouhouzenmewanhui?

一、为何异地恋无法走到最后

waidi，shixuduolianrendoubuyuanpengchudeyige，zenmehuishi?youyuyidiliandekekaoxinghendi，chuxiannantidegailvhuihengao，jinergengfeichangrongyirangmeiduanqinggancongcishuailuo。shuobailedeyidilianjiushishuoliangzhilianren，liangrenyishizhuxingzaibuyiyangdediqu，zheidoushiyidiliandexitongxingfengxiangenggaodebenzhi。neishizenmehuishizaochengyiqianchaoyuediyuhaiyaoenaidelianggeren，zuihouluogegebendongxidejieguoni?

qingganwanhuizenmeban?xinlaiganbugou。zhimingganqingkangnacengshuo：“yidilianduobaizaiguanniandefourenshang，bicicaiyihewushishengfei。”waididelianrenyuanbenjiuyouyuwaidideyuangu，guishuganhuibugou，neiyangjiuhuizaochengtamenyuanyibalingyifangshikedezhuazaishoushang，ruguoyouyidianerdongjingjiuhuixinfanyiluan，neiyangjiuhuijinigengxianglaicaozongzhulingyifang，jinerhushilingyifangdetihui。zheileibuxinlaihuirangdajiazaochengtongku，jiarulingyifangyoulveweidedikang，woyehuikuangzao，xintaishilingdewoyefeichangrongyihuifancuowu，zhizhibunengrenshou，neimadajiadelianqingyejiulaidaozhongdianzhanle。

二、挽留异地恋的3个方式

qingganwanhuizenmeban?suizhishiqidefazhanqushi，zaixianrujinchengshidefazhanbiankuaideshehuifazhanli，henduorendouhuiyouyugezhonggeyangyuanguyuanyinlixiangbiejing，yinciyezaochenglexuduoyidiliandechuxian。jinguandajiachangshuojulichanshengmei，danshiquanbuganqinglibiantichufenshoulvjiushishuoyidilian，daodiyaoruhezuonenggougengqiangdewanliumeiduanyidilianni?

yaoqingpengmianyoushuodao。jinkenengzaizhengdelingyifangyuanyixiakaizhanpengmianwanliu，yaoliuyibiezailingyifangwuyihuoshibuyuanyidezhuangkuangxia，qinglvqulingyifangsuozaichengshiwanliu，neiyangzongshijiajulingyifangdefourenxintaizhuangtai。qingganjibennonghoudenenggou shizhe，duotidaoguoqumeihaodehuiyi，jiarulingyifangqiangliefanxiangreqingnijiujilingyifang1gewennuandexiangyong，tangruolingyifangjiangnilakai，woyebiaoshushuochenzuiyuwangrizhuduoxingfuzhongjinbuzhu，liuyijianjixingshi。erqingganjibenjiaochadeniyaoshibubaoluzijiguoduodeyaoqiugan，shidutidaojiushizuokankan，kanlingyifangqiangliefanxiangzenyang，qiangliefanxiangreqingjiuduochoukongyushijianzaiyaoqingjihui，qiangliefanxianglengmojiulakaijulidenghoutiaojianchengshuzaiyaoqing。

fenshouhouzenmewanhui?zhengtiguihuahaoganqingfazhanqushi。zenmehuiyouyukanbudaoganqingjianglaidefangweierzaochengyidilianfenshouni?neijiushilianggerenyemeiyouliji，congyibanganqingbianhuanweiyidiliandezhuanbianzhongzouchuqu，zhangciyiwang，fajuelianqingfangfomimangdeneishihou，zaikaizhanwanjiujiutaiwanle。yincibixuyaoquelidizhengtiguihuachuxianghufangweijiqifazhanqushi，zaiqueliqingchudefangweixia，nenggouzaochengdaliangdegongmingdianhezixinxin，youxianghuzongtimubiaojiunengbingjianzuozhan。zuiguanjiandehuanshiyouzhe1gexixinheqianjiudeqifen，quebaochongpeidegoutongjiaoliushijianhepinlv。

weichipengmianduoshouhou。qianquepeibanshirangzhishenwaidiganqingpoliedejiaodazuikuihuoshouzhishou，zhimingganqingzhuanjiakangnacengshuo：“yidilianyouguoduoanquanyinhuan，zaiqizhongyouyidianer，buyiyangdedachengshi，weishenghuo、shejiaoquanzi、bangonghuanjingchedimeiyoubingji，dangbingjidedianguoshao，bicixinlideqiyueshuwufachuangjianhuoshijiangu，jiuchanshengbushangzheizhongxiangjinlianqingfalvfaguidexiaoyonglaijibanhexiandingrenmen。”yincinikeyizhuyilingyifangdedongtaixingliuxupaimatishengbingji。peibanshizuizhangqingdegaobai，yaofangduohelingyifangpengmiandepinci，duojixieshijianqulingjulishouhou，jinguanpengmianshijianhuijiaoweiduan，danqinshenjinglimeiyicigezi，wuxingzhongrangdajiagengmingbaiaixixianghu。

三、挽留后，你该怎样保持异地恋

fenshouhouzenmewanhui?shijieshangneiyangdemeiduanlianqingguanlian，enaideliangrenzhishenwaidi，meiriquankaoshoujishang，hulianwang，gezhonggeyangtongxinshebeikaizhanlianluo，yeyouxieren，gezhexianshipingdeganqingnengweichixiaqudequanshizhenqing。neima，jiniqinshenjingliguoyidilianma，nishibushiyijingyunyingmeiduanyidilianguanlian?jiarushi，neimazheipianjiangduijinitingdadexiezhu，qidainikeyihaohaodixiquzheixingdefangfa。

 1、gesanchawuweilingyifangtiqianzhunbeixiaoyiwaijingxi(jiarubiaozhunrongxu，nenggou zailingyifangjiazhongbalipinzangqilai，suihouranglingyifangquzhao，yiyuehuoshiliangyuelaiyifenneiyangdexiaoyiwaijingxi)

2、jilingyifangtianbuguishugan，zaichulaiwaibianwandeneishihou，yaoshaopaiyuyixingpengyoudexiangpian，tebieshizaishiqinmiwujiandexiangpian，yuanbenyidilianjiumeiyouanquangan，zaishenghuoqijuzhizhong，daodexingweishaoyoubudangzhichudoushiranglingyifangqiyixin，yinci，yidiliandelianrengengyaomingbaizaijiaojiquanliyuyixingpengyouweichishidudejianju。

3、bukeyishizong，bixuyaoranglingyifanglianluohuodeni。zheiyidianerjianghuishiwuzuqingzhongde，dandoushizhiguanzhongyaode，jiaruoyixiaxia，nidaguonhaojigedianhua，lingyifangyemeiyoujie，ruguohenduozhongtoudoulianluobulelingyifang，nibidinghuijinghuangshicuohuoshibaotiaoruleide，jiarubiaoshubuqingxi，youjianghuifenqidiancongcibaofale，yinci，buguanzaiyiqiedezhuangkuangzhizhong，ruguoshoujimeidian，meihulianwangle，doudexianggebanfajinzaohelingyifangshuoliangsheng，ranglingyifangshuxin。

4、xianghuzhijianjili。dangduifangweinidiaokanyishizhuxingzhizhongbushunxin，buruyideshiershi，nijianghuihuijiaoweixinbuzaiyanhuoshibumingbairuhekuanweilingyifang，neimacikenikeyizuodejiushishuojilita，kuanweita，qianwanbiezaiquyanlidajihepipantadezixinxin。

5、helingyifangshenpangdeqinqipengyouhunshu。zheiyidianerjianghuixuduolianrendoushihushidiao，youyuyuanbenwaidi，jiaowangdeshijianjiaoweishao，neimashenpangdexianghupengyoujiuyuelaiyueshaole，jiaruzhiqianshitongxuemenhaixing，yaobushi，neimenihaiyaojiezhezaipengmianjiaowangdeneishihou，helingyifangzhoubianderenyezuohaorenjijiaowang，zheizhenduiweilailiangrenyiqihuiyoutingdadexiezhu。

fenshouhouzenmewanhui?yidilianwanliuqudechenggongyihou，qinggansuiranzaoyifanhuilezuichudezhuangtai，keshijiexialairuheyuduifangkaizhanjiaowangyezuigaiqugaoduzhongshi。zhongjiubicideqingganhuanshichuangjianzaibuyiyangdiyudeqiantitiaojianxia，heshigaiweichiqinggandewendu，heshigaiduiqishidutiwen，doubixuzaijiaowangquanguochenglianyongfangfaweichilianggerendeqinggan。jiranpingdinglelingyifangjiushiniaixidelianren，gengbixuquweihuhaoneifenshierfudedeyidilian。