为什么他会绝情而去？挽回男友必须知道的情感雷区

 ruhe wanhuinanpengyou ?beinanyoushuofenshouzhihou，nvhaiyincidoushiyouyuyuanyiwanliulingyifangerzuochumouxiefengkuanghuoshidishiyongjiazhidegerenxingwei。ru，buduanditongdianhua，faxiaoxijilingyifang，youhuoshizailingyifangchangyoudediqudengni，danshi，fenshouzhihouyuesichanlingyifang，lingyifangzongshiyuedichuzishen。zuizhong，nijianghuihuichuanchuneiyangdegantan：“weihetanenggou neimewuqing?”wojuede，nanshengzaifenshouzhihoudewuqing，xuduoneishihouquanshinvxingbichulaide。zenyangwanhuinanyou?

一、分手之后最愚昧的作法

 ganqingxiufuguochengkanqilaijiannan，danzhongyaohuanshiqujueyuninazhongfangshiwanliubale。youxierencaiyongmouxiejiduanhuadewanliufangshi，erzheizhongfangshibujintongguolvdi，haishiwanliunanduxishukuoda，shitaiyanzhongjianghuifazhanqushidaowufawanliudechengdu，fenshouzhihouzuiqiejidezuofayoushenme?

 ruhewanhuinanpengyou?qiangzhixingganyutadegerenxingwei。“nanshengzuibixucongnvxingshoushanghuodezheifennanrendexinsheng。”yinci，ruonidongdenanshengdexinliyaoqiudehua，woyehuimingbaizaitayanqianrenrang，jitamenqingmian，neiyangtacaiburongyiyouyunanshengqimadezizunshiqubaochierduinizaochengdichu，naizhiqingganshangdewaiyu。yinci，nikeyixiangrang1genanrenweiniqingqing，zuixianwubiyaoxinlaita，zhongshita，jitamensuiyi。bubiganyutazuodejueceheguannian。naizhihaiyingdangshiyongta，jilita，duojiyutazaishenghuozhongdehaowuyiwenhezanyang!

 xianguanzhubuzuduo，hushiletihui。huisajiaodenvren，zainanshengyanqianshihuidedaodaliangdetongqingheguanai。keshi，ruofadiaguoduo，jiuhuijinanshengzheizhongyanjuan，dichudejuede。youyu，nanshengyebixuyouzishendegerenshijianheshineikongjian，jiaruonijinjinxiangqizishendexintaizhuangtaiyaoqiu，changchangyaotapeizaizishenshenpang，neima，neifenzisizilideaijiuhuitahuiganjueniguodunianrenerdichu，youyuzaitadeyanqian，nimeilezishendeshizhitedian，qianquelezishendegexinghuahefengcai，neiyangdenvxingzhangqihoujiuhuirangnanshengqianqueshenmigan，jinermaixiangtichufenshoudechujing。

 zenyangwanhuinanyou?yiqieguoduzaihu，xiaotidazuojifan。yiqiedouguoduzaihu，xiaotidazudenvxing，zainanshengdexinlijiushishuodishiyongjiazhidenvxing。zheileinvxingjibianwaimaozaihaokan，ruopinxingbuhaodehua，zaijiaowangquanguochengzhong，yehuiyouyuzishenzisizilidexingqingerrangqingganchangchangshenxianfenqihezhengzhizhong。yiner，zhenduinvxingeryan，yaoxiangrangnanshengshuxinyuzheixieganqing，erqieqingxinyuni，zuixian，nihaiyaofangkaizishendexintaizhuangtai，zuo1getongqingdalidehaolaopo。

三、高姿态挽留

 dangnanpengyouxiangnimingquetichufenshouhou，youderenhuichixuzhiyilingyifang，zeguailingyifanghuoshicaiyilingyifangchugui。neiyangzuobujinbukeyiwanliunideganqing，bingqiehuijiazhongdajiazhongjiandefenqi，huihuaiwanliu。yuanyiwanhuinanyoudexin，suijiyingbiandenvxingyingdangneiyangzuo

 zhangwolingyifangweishenmexiangfenshou，duizhengzhiliaogaoxiaolvwanliu。zaiduifangweinimingquetichufenshouhou，xuduonvxingxiayishibayiwutuidaolingyifangshoushang，quemeiyousikaobenshennanti，ranglingyifangganjuejishitichufenshouniyebuzhihuigai。yuanyiwanliulingyifangdexin，haiyaosikaobenshennanti，birushibushizaishenghuozhong，nijilingyifangguoduogongzuoyali，ranglingyifangyuanyidujueni;nishibushichixutiaozhanlingyifangdedaodedixian，tahenzhiruguzheixie。bubidianjizhequbianboniyiqianbuzhengquedegerenxingwei，zhishirenzhengaizhengquedian，“danglingyifangfengbishileneixinyaofenshoushi，tamenduirenhetashuodehuadouduofangmianfouren。”buduantigaozishen，yongshentilixingranglingyifangzhengshininengyuelaiyuegengqiang。

 jijifancuowu，jianshaofenqidian。danglejiebenshendebuzhengqueyihou，yixienvrenzirenweifadia、chixuyangqiulingyifangjiunengwanliulingyifangdexin，nvxingshidudefadiananshenghuiganjuetaorenxihuan，keshirujindajiadeganqingbuguidianbaofa，niguoduofadiajiurerentaoyanle。yuanyiwanliulingyifang，haiyaosikaobenshendequexian，xianglingyifangrenkezishendebuzhengque，rangneiyangjianshaodajiabicidefenqidian，jiangditaduinidefouren，neiyangyouyiyujiexiaqudewanliu。

 zenyangwanhuinanyou?tishengbenshenyouhuoli，zaicixiyinzhulingyifangdexin。bubiyouyutichufenshouerziganduoluo，yuanyiwanhuinanpengyou，gengyingbadaliangdeshijianhehuoliqutigaobenshendeshiyongjiazhi，bulunshizainaxiehuanjie，nvhaibixuxuedaban;duanlianshenti，caizhuangmaixiezi，laigepinpaixingxiangdabianhuan。yaolejie，nigenggaibuwanquanshiyibianzaiciyinghuilianren，yeshirangzishenqingxuyukuaiqilai。danglingyifangzaicijiandaonideneishihou，beiniganjingzhengjiedebiaomianxiyinzhudao，jitamenshijueshanghejuedeshangdeshenmigan，yiqinibuyaozaitahuiganjuejinishifenqipanhuiguotoudemoyang，dangnanshengganjuejinibixudexinxiangan，huigengyuanyikaojinni。

 zenyangwanhuinanyou?zaiwanhuinanpengyoudelumianshang，nvhaiyaozuodebingbushijizhequwanliu，tigaozijideshiyongjiazhisuanshizuixiangzuodeshi，zhinengruguonibazishendeshiyongjiazhitigaoshanglaile，nideyouhuolicaihuiyuelaiyuegengqiang，erlingyifanghehaoruchudegailvcaihuigengda。