挽回异地男友：你需要做好这三个挽回准备

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一、先清晰异地恋分手的普遍缘故

 xiangwanhuiaiqingdehuazenmezuo?bingjiguoshao。“yidilianyouguoduoanquanyinhuan，zaiqizhongyouyidianer，buyiyangdedachengshi，weishenghuo、shejiaoquanzi、bangonghuanjingchedimeiyoubingji，dangbingjidedianguoshao，bicixinlideqiyueshuwufachuangjianhuoshijiangu，jiuchanshengbushangzheizhongxiangjinlianqingfalvfaguidexiaoyonglaijibanhexiandingrenmen。”yinweibicidebingjiguoshao，gongtongyuyanyehuixiangduixingpianshao，dajiazhongjiandegoutongjiaoliumeibanfachaoguogongmingdian，zaochengbicidegoutongjiaoliujiangdi，zuizhongyuelaiyuemaoheshenli。

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 jianjuchanshengwujie。liangrengekaierdi，dajiazhangqibukeyipengmian，bukeyilijizhangwolingyifangdezhuangkuang，dangshijianzhanglezhihou，dajiazhongjianhuiyoumouxienantibukeyilijichuli。dangzheizhongnantishizhongjilei，shizhongmeiyouzuyichuli，dajiazhongjianjiufeichangrongyihuichanshengwujie，dangwuhuijiazhongzhidaodidaganqingbuguidianshijiuhuibianchengdajiatichufenshoudedaohuoxian。

 waibuyinyou。linzidalenaxieniaochangyou，zheishijiefuzaduobian，gezhonggeyangderenchangyou，rujingezhongdisanzheer、xiaosiwuhuabamen。dangwaibuyouyinyoudeneishihou，yinweilingyifangbuzainipangbian，woyechengshoubuleyinyou，shiquziwo，panbianqinggan，sunhaizuiaideren。zuizhong，danglingyifangfajueniwaiyudeneishihou，dajiadeqingganzuihoujiuyitichufenshoushouwei。

二、异地恋情感如果冷漠该怎样提温

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 zhidingduanqineizongtimubiao。yidilianjiaowang，zhidingduanqineidezongtimubiaonenggoutishengdajiaduijianglaidexiwang，bingqiehenrongyijinxing，liuyoudaliangxingfutianmeidezhuiyi。liruzaishujiadeneishihou，nenggouzhiding1gedujialvyoudefangan，qu1gelianggerendouxiaidediqu，rengxiagongzuozhong，rengxiafanmang，liangrenhaohaoxiangyoushujiayouliyuqingganpingwen。keyipaidaomouxiexiangpian，waidixianliaodeneishihou，haikeyibaxiangpianfanchulailezhuiyiyixiaxia。

三、每段长期的异地恋是如何缩短距离的

 xianghuxinlaikuanrong。xuduoyidiliandelianrendoushiyouyuzhishenerdidanyouneimezhangqidebupengmian，huifouqingganyuelaiyuelengmohuozhelingyifanghuishoubulewaibianyinyouermishangtaren。zhangqibupengmianmeifazhangwolingyifangdezhuangkuang，jinerhuizaochengmouxiecaiji，benshenzaochengmeiyouanquanganerxinfanyiluan，zaochengtishengfenqizhengzhi。zheiyineishihouxinlaiganjiuyuelaiyueshifenguanjianle，zuixianailingyifangjiubixuyaojilingyifangbixudeziyoukongjianhexinlaikuanrong。henduoqinggandeliekai，douyouyubuxinlaigangkaishide，bicizhijiandecaijihebuxinlai，jiuhuirangqingganxianrujuejing。

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