挽回男友的方法：如何击退男友的前任

xiang wanhuinanyou dehuazenmeban?ruguonigennanpengyouyiqishi，huranfajuetapangbiannvpengyoujingranyeyoulianluo，bingqiezaiyuyanshangshuohuahainuanweizhe，zheikegaizenmeban?zhenduinvhaieryan，yingduizheiyangdeshiqingyiban dezhuangkuangjiushishuodanaopiqi，zhiyinanpengyou，erqieguidingnanpengyoushandiaorenhepangbiannvpengyoudelianxidianhua。kezheileiyingduifangshizongshirangnanhaiziduinigengweidichu。zhenduinanhaizieryan，tamenxiaidenvhaizhongleiyiban quanshiwenrou，tongqingdalide，erbingbushixianghanfuyiyang，zongshizhiyinansheng，caozongnanshengdexingji。neima，dangfajuenanpengyoupangbianrenyeyoulianluoshi，gaizenyangconghuiwanliu?ruhewanhuinanren?

一、沉着冷静应变力，不 因而危害关联

ruhewanhuinanren?youmouxienansheng，zaifenshouzhihouyizhishuopangbiannvpengyounenggoubianchengpenyou，pingchanglianluomibukefen，haichangchangyikuaierchulaiyongcanyikuaierquwan，naizhizaiqianrennvyouyoujiannandeneishihoujiejinquanlidixiezhuta。erzheizhonggerenxingweiquebianchengletadexinrennvpengyoudekunao。

jiaruzheileishichanshengzainishoushang，nizuixianyingdangzuodeshi，bikoufencibutitaqianrennvyou，huoxuyueti，tahuiganjueniyizhizaibita，niyuebita，tayueganjuepangbiannvpengyouyiqibigenniyizhizaiyikuaieryaoshushi。nineiyangzuo，dengyincibazheiyinanshengwangtaqiannvyoushenpangtui。

zaininanyoumangzhezainiliangqianrennvyouzhongjianzhouxuandeneishihou，nibubizhituzhenanguoshangxin，ninengzaizheiliqineitigaozijideshiyongjiazhi。ruhetigaozijideshiyongjiazhini?tigaoshiyongjiazhifenchengwaizaihebenzhi2gecengmian。waizaijibenjiansheshizuibianjiehelidetigaozijideshiyongjiazhidefangshi ，nenggoujinkenengwangwenrouqiaolizheixingchuanzhedaban，youyunanshengdouxiaiwenroutitiedenvxing。benzhijibenjianshejiushishuogaizhengzishenmouxiexingqingshangdequexian，hongyang youshi。ruguoniyi1gequanxinshengjidepinpaixingxiangchuxianzaitayanqiandeneishihou，neileizhenhanrenxinjiqishenmiganjueduiyuanchaonidexiangxiang。

suihoujiushishuochuangjian1gejiangshanghechufatizhi。shenmejiaojiangshanghechufatizhini?jiushishuozaitaganlezheijianlingnikaixindeshi，woyejitamenmouxiejiangshang，biru1gexiangyonghuo1gejiewen;erdangtaganlezheijianjinibukaixindeshi，birutayouqujiantaqianrennvyou，nifanbuzhegentamingshuo，nijinjinshengqishuaxiaoxingzi，tajiuhuifanshengziji，quhongren，wuxingzhizhongjiutishengletaduinidezijintouru，weibifeidegentazhengzhi。zheileijiangchengtizhishijueduihuirangnanshengchengyinde。

二、考虑男生的本质要求

ruhewanhuinanren?zuoweinvxing，shencengcizhangwolenanshengdebenzhiyaoqiu，erqiemingbaiqukaolvta，nengfangzhidajiazhongjianxuduoduoyudefenqi，“nanshengdesixuwojuedebuhuitainancai，yaoshizhangwolenanshengshencengcidebenzhi，erqiekaolvtashencengcidebenzhi，dajiazhongjiandeqinggan，biranmilidiaoyou。”dangnimeiyoukaolvtadebenzhiyaoqiu，nianfuyinian，yincijiuhuizaochengtazaiqitanvxingshoushangxunzhaokaolv。

xiangwanhuinanyoudehuazenmeban?nanshengbixubeibixudejuede。youyubeibixukeyizhengshitamenbenshendeshiyongjiazhihegongzuonengli。zairichangshenghuozhongxuduonvxingxiang1genvhanzhiyiyang，nanshengdeshierdouqiangzhelaigan，huoshizigaozidadibafanzadeshierdoujiaojinanshengzuo，neiyangyincishinanshengjuedebushangzishenkeyilingzhenvxing。zuoweinvxing，yaomingbaishiduderenrang，xiangnanshengshidudifadia，neiyangdenvxingnenggoujiqinanshengdeweihuyu，gengshounanshengdechongni。

nanshengbixubeirentongdejuede。xuduonvxingzai zhongmuzhaozhangzeguaizishendenanpengyou，neiyangzuoyincihuishinanshengganjuediuren，naizhigangkaishixihuanni。zuoweinvxing，xuehaoqurentongta，zaigongzuofangmianbuguanchenggongyushibai，yaoqujilita，shiyongta;zaishenghuozhong，daqidizanyangta;tahuiganjueneiyangdenvxing，tamengengxiangpeinijiaowang，tahuiganjuewomenzaiyiqiyoubeirentongdejuede，zishendegongzuonenglihuodelefanying，youliyudajiadeqinggangengpingwenfazhanqushi。

nanshengxiaibeiqinpeidejuede。nanshengdouqidaizishennengzaigexinggeyelingzhezishendeduifang，suihoubeitasuoqinpei。keshirichangshenghuozhong，chuxianlexuduozhichangnvren，buguanzaishenghuozhonghuanshishiyeshang，doubinanshenggengqianghan，neiyangdenvxing，yincihuishinanshengwangershengweide。zaihenanshengjiaowangquanguochengzhong，xuehaoquqinpeita，shanyuqufajuelingyifangdeyoushi，duitaduoxiekuazan，shaoyidianermaiyuan，zuotadezhongchengfensi，zheiyenanrendezheizhongaimuxurong。

三、转换其他的和睦的交往方法

xiangwanhuinanyoudehuazenmeban?yixienvxingkandaizishendenanshengxiangkandaizishendexiaohaixiangtong，weitaxiyifuzuofan，zhaoliaozhouquan、duitataiguokuanrong，jibiantawaiyule，yeyixindiyuanliang，juedeneiyangjiunengbawozhunanrenxin。yeshidenvxingguoduqianghanhecuowu，rangnanshengwuxiandichu。yuanyiganqingzhangqipingwen，zanqieshizhexiahuanzhongjiaowangfangfa。

yaoqiuganyaoweichishidang。“rendebenxingbenjian，zhenduishunshoubidedewupinwomenburongyiaixi。renmenhuiaixide，shidezhibuyide、huozheshizhongzhengdequebingweihuodedewupin，jiusuanneiyangwupinweibibinageshunshoubidedehaoxie，tarengjiuhuibianchengnide1gexiwang。”zailianqingzhong，dangniyixinshunconglingyifang，bazishendidaochenaili，lingyifangjiuhuiganjueniyeshishunshoubidede，jiuburongyizhenxi，ganqingyingdangshibicideyaoqiuganchaoguojunhengqingkuang，erbingbushinitaigaoerlingyifangtaidi。

bubiduilingyifangguangjieshanyuan。yixienvxinghuiganjue，henanshengyiqihaiyaomingbaizuo1ge“haoqizi”，yincichixuweitanuli，zhenduitademouxiebukexuedeguiding，nicongbumingbaihuijue，nidetingcongzaitayanlijinjinmeiyoubiaozhun、meiyouyouhuolidezhuyaobiaoxian，congmingnvrendoulejienanshengshibukeyitaitingcongde，nikeyimingbaihuijue，mingbaibaituolingyifangde“caozong”，xuehaoyouzishendebiaozhunheniantou，tacaihuiganjueniyeshiyoufengcaide，caihuigaoduzhongshini。

xiangwanhuinanyoudehuazenmeban?xianghuzijintourunenggoushiganqingjieguoshi。 meiduanqingganzhong，bixulianggerenxianghuzijintouru、xianghuyunying，nenggoushibicixunzhaoxinrengan，jiaruzhinenglingyifangchixuzijintouru，duifangjiuhuimanmanjiangdizijintouru，jiangdizijintourudeneilingyifangjiuhuiyulaiyubugaoduzhongshizheixieqinggan，jiugenfeichangrongyiduiqingganchouli，erzijintourudeyuedaderenjiuhuiyuewufafangqiqinggan，nibixumingbaizhengqueyindaolingyifangduiqingganzijintouru，ranglingyifangduiqingganzijintourudeyueda，caihuiyuegaoduzhongshizheixieqinggan，dajiadeganqingcaihuigenglaogu。

xiangwanhuinanyoudehuazenmeban?fajuenanpengyouyuqianrennvyoulianluo，zuiyumeidezuofajiushishuonuchilingyifang，zhaotadeqiannvyoujichulilunnaizhiduifu，yaoxiangnanpengyouduanjueyuqiannvyounuanweizhedesixu，nvhaijiudehaohaogaibianxianzhuang，tigaogerenjiazhi，kaolvnanshengdebenzhiyaoqiu，neiyang，tacaihuiganjuenibitagengheshizishen。