挽回男友：这三个挽回爱情的准备要先做

wanhuiaiqing mijiyounaxie?doushuoguishuganzheiwupin，nvxingshizuiqianquede。danshi，nanshengyehuiyoumeiyouanquangandeneishihou。ru，nvhaichangchangmangliugongzuozhonghuoshichangchanggennvxingpengyouzoudehenjinshi，doushirangnanshengduizheixieqingganqianquezixinxin。jinerxiangnvxingmingquetichugezhonggeyangnanti，dangnvxingganjuezheinanrenduizishenbuxinlaishi，youhuichuxianjifanzhengzhi。yinci，qingganchuxianweijihezhengzhi，naizhilaidaotichufenshouneibu，xuduoneishihoudouyouyuxianghuqianquelejiehexinlaiyinfa。xiangwanhuiaiqingdehuazenmezuo?

一、男孩子会没有安全感的状况

xiangwanhuiaiqingdehuazenmezuo?weihenanshengbukennvxingtaiguodetantingzishendeshiye，qiancai，huozhepingshidongtaixingni?weihenanshengtongchangduixiangqinyuehuixiangyudelingyifangdoubingbudajiqing，fouzelingyifangshifenchuse，biaozhunbilingyifanghaoni?zheijiushishuoyouyunanshengyeyongyouzishendeguishuganpingding，tamendaxinliganjuewobu“anquanxing”。

wanhuiaiqingmijiyounaxie?yiqinanshengyedanxingezhonggeyangmengpian，roulinheyunyong，yepazishendehunyinbuchenggong。youyuliyidefayuanjihujiushishuonvxingdetiandi，yincizheiyejiushishuoweihenanshengzaihunqianhuixinlibuduanmolianhehechanideyuangu------youyutayebixuguishugan。

二、怎样补充男朋友的归属感

xiangwanhuiaiqingdehuazenmezuo?zhenzhengdeaiqingbicide，dangnishizhongzhidianjizhenanrenweininuli，nanshengrangnidaliangdeguishugan，keshizishenmeiyounulidehua，zheixieganqingyincishiburongyixingfukuailede，dangruguowonanshengzainishoushangjuedebushangguishugan，henjianghuijiuhuizhuanshenlikai，zaiganqingzhong，jiarunanshengyinzainishoushangjuedebushangguishuganertichufenshou，niyingdangzenyangwanliuni?

daqikuajianglingyifang。nanshengbixuzizun，zaiganqingzhongguojunfang，mingbaidaqidichengzanlingyifang，dajiadangshilianqing，yincitashoushangyouxiyinzhunidediqu，mingbaifajuelingyifangdeyoushi，birugongzuozerenxin，chuanzhedaban，zerenganzheixie，tahuizainishoushangtihuidaonanshengyingdangyoudezizun，zuoweinvxing，haiyaomingbaizaixuduorenyanqianjilingyifangzizun，neiyangtayincihuiganjuenidejiyutahaowuyiwende，youliyudajiadeganqinghemu。

renkelingyifangdenuli。zairichangshenghuozhong，“gebilaoli”zheiyicirangxuduonanshengganjuezishenjiadexifufeichangrongyibierenduozouzou，bingqiehuiganjuezishendexifujibushangzishenguishugan。xuduonvxingduizishendenanpengyouyouxuduoweimandediqu，ganjuetarendenanyouzuoquandoubizishendenanshengyouhaoxie，naizhichangchangzainanpengyouyanqianjianghewoqitananshenglaizuobijiao，neiyangyincihuiranglingyifangganjuewobukeyijitamenguishugan，ganjuenizaoyilaogongjingshenchuguile，rangnanshengganjuequefaanquangan。neiyanghuizaochengnanpengyoubuxinganqingyuannuli，youshi，zuoweinvxingyaomingbai，yongfadiadefangfabijiaoyongshualaidefangfagengfeichangrongyidedaonanshengdejiyu。

wanhuiaiqingmijiyounaxie?fangzhiyixingpengyouyouqinmiwujiandechupeng。xianrujindenvshizaoyibingbushigushihousanbuchubulaiguifangle，yixienvhainaizhihepengyoujucansangengbanyecaihuijiale，rangnanpengyoulejienigenguoduodeyixingpengyouyouqinjin，ranglingyifangganjuenihenfuqishenghuofanlan，juededaoquefaanquangan，zuoweinvxing，zuixianshiduilianrendezhuanqing，bubiheyixingpengyouyouqinmiwujiandechupeng。xuduonvxingjuedenanrenhebiedenvxingyouqinjinhuiwaiyu，wojuedenanshengyehuineimejuede，yincimingbaiduiaiqingzhuanyi，tianbunanshengdeguishugan，neiyangyincihuiweileninulidaliang。

三、相互筑建爱屋

wanhuiaiqingmijiyounaxie?meiduanqingganzhong，meibudouzouduimeibanfa，jincuoyibufeichangrongyi，dangzaochengleyidianerxiaofenqijiarubutuoshanchulidezhuangkuangxia，zheizhongxiaonantijiuhuijishaochengduozaochengtichufenshou。yunyinghaoganqingwojuedebuhuitainan，zhongyaojiushiniyouwuguanxinlingyifangdebenzhiyaoqiu。

zhongzhimaiyuan。gangzaiyikuaierdeneishihourenyizhibazishenshideyibianzhanxianchuqujilingyifang，shijianzhangleyihouzheixiequexianjiuyanzangbulemanmandipuluchuqu。cikeduifangshuchudoushiyoumouxiecuobaigan，juedeyibuzaishiyiqianganglejiehenwanmeideairen。maiyuanzhiyouhuandeliekaiheairenmanmanshuilengquedexin，biciyebuyunyongxutaohemaiyuanlaichuliduilingyifangdeweiman，yichengxiangdaigoutongjiaoliu、lixinggoutongjiaoliusuanshihuajiemaodundedeguanjian。

bubishiyalingyifang。shiyalingyifangdoushisunhuaiqinggandeyizhengduishou，renshibixubeizhongshide。bubishikedingzhulingyifangdequexian，buduanshiyalingyifangshihenshanglingyifangdexurongxin，feichangshishibukanchanghe，fenbuqingquntijiushiyaairen，tashihendiulingyifangdeqingmian。zheibudangenggaibushanglingyifangdequexian，fandaohuisunhaibicideqinggan，meishenmehaochu。

zhongshilingyifang。renmenzixiaobeiwenhuajiaoyuyingyilidairenjiewu，dandabufenderenyinciduitarennaizhishilurenshihenjianglimaode，duiqinmiwujianderenquemingmuzhangdan。renmenburongyizhize1gelurenhuoshibutaishuderen，burongyisuibianqinhaitarendeyinsibaohu，danjingchangcaiyixinqinhaiairendeyinsibaohu，duilingyifangyouweimandeneishihouhuizhijieledangmalingyifang。chongzheqinmiwujianderenshuomouxiejiansuan、lengdandehua，jinguantanchengxiangdai，danquezuifeichangrongyibeisunhai。

chixutianchongshenghuolequ。liangrenyiqishijianzhangle，yizhibixushenmiganlaishizheixieqinggangenglaogugengxingfukuaile。zaiyishizhuxingzhizhongshengchanzhizaoxiaolequshimitang，nenggouranglingyifangtihuidaonongnongdetianmeinongnongdeai。liruyoushihousongmouxiexiaolipinjilingyifang，chuantongjierijierideneishihoutiao1gelanmanwennuandefandianyongcan，guojiafadingjiarideneishihounenggouqucilvyouzheixie。

wanhuiaiqingmijiyounaxie?weihubaoyangganqingdezhangqixingguanlian，wulunshinvhaihuanshinanhaizi，guishuganzheiyiwupindoubingbushizhuanxiangde，niyuanyilingyifangjiyunidaliangdeguishugan，zuixiannidemingbairuhebuchongjilingyifang。neiyang，ganqing，caihuizaijunhengdeqingkuangxiashenxinjiankangfazhanqushi。