挽回男友：他为什么会离开懂事的你？

ruhe wanhuiqiannanyou ?zailianqingshihuiyouneimezheizhongguaiyidezhuangkuang：yuedongshi、yuelingyifangguanxindenvhaizaiganqingliyizhishiqutayuanyide，erlingyifangquandoumeizuo，quenenghuodetayuanyiderenhe。zheizhongqingkuangbujinzailianqingzhong，zairichangshenghuozhongwojuedeyehenpubian，zaiwangshangyouyiduanhuabingbushineimeshuoma：“nineimadongshi，bixumeirentengba。”ruhewanhuinanren?

weihedongshidenizairichangshenghuozhongshiqutengxi?weihetaburongyirangniyuanyiganqingnongduzhi?weihetahuixiangliqudongshideni?huichuxianzheiyangdeshiqing，xuduoneishihounizishendoushiyoubixuyiwude。

三、针对原则问题，务必要他会了解你的心态，学会拒绝

ruhewanhuinanren?“wojuedeninengzaigangkaishideneishihou，jiuyaocaozongnidejiagou，rangtaqujienani，bingfeixiangquqianrangta。neiyangnizhihoujiunengjiangdidajiadezhengzhigailv。”tahuilejienidedaodedixianzainaer，bubimeiyicibeisunhaizhihoudoushuozishenmeishier，neimemeidaodedixian，neimedishiyongjiazhi。zheihuitahuiganjuenibukehuoqueta，fandaosiwujidan，buduantiaozhannidekerongren，zhizhinijienabushang，buduangentachanshengzhengzhi。

四、学好正确引导他资金投入

ruhewanhuiqiannanyou?aideganqingganshou，yuzijintouruxiangguan：zijintourudeyueda，rendeganqingganshouyueduoqiang。tayueduinizijintouru，jiuhuiganjuezishenyueyuelaiyueaini。tahuibangnimaihuo，bangnichuxiangfa，bangnijiejuekunnan。xuehaoyongfadiaxiangtasuoquchongni：“zenmeyangma”，“bierenjiushishuoyuanyizheiyi”。zaitakaolvniyaoqiuhou，jitamenshidudejiangshang，gentashuo：“nizhenhao”，“youlenizhenxingfu”。guohoujitamenchongzudehaowuyiwen，tahuiganjuetashibeibixude，taxinlidechengjiuganhuitahuixiaduocihaixiangyaozaicihongren、xintengni。

ruhewanhuiqiannanyou?niailingyifang，haiyaoyouzishendexintai，bubiweiweihubaoyangmeiduanbugongpingdeguanlianerweiquqiuquan，bugongpingdezhenzhengdeaiqingburongyizhangqide。xuehuijujue，youzishendejiagou，bubizongshinulibumingbaisuoyao，zishenzijintourudeyiqitishenglingyifangdezijintouru，bicidouxiangyaoquweihubaoyangdeganqingcaihuizhangqi。