挽回爱情之如何提升自己

 ruhe wanhuihunyin ?zaiqingganwanhuizhizhong，wulunshiwanhuinanpengyouyebahuanshinvyouyeba，wanhuizhangfuhuanshixifuyeba，doubukehuoquetigaozijizheiyigehuanjie，lingyifanggennitichufenshouhuoshishilikaini，wojuedeyidabufendeyuangudouyouyuguoquyikuaierjiaowangdeshijianlibian，nidefazhanbuxinglingyifangfazhandejiaobu，meiyoufangfagenlingyifangkaizhantongbudetigao，zaochenghewolingyifangzaoyimeilexianghudezongtimubiao，liangrenmeiyou1gecengjishangeryinqidetichufenshou。qingganwanhuizenmeban?yinci，zaifenshouzhihouqinfentigaozijishitebieshizaiguanjiande。

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一、接纳結果恢复心态

 qingganwanhuizenmeban?zuixiannikeyizuodejiushishuojienafenshouhouzheiyijieguo，qingbiechanzhelingyifang，fenshouhouzenmewanhui?youyujiaruzaifenshouzhihouniyiransipilailiandequkaizhanwanliu，neidabufenzongshiranglingyifangyulaiyudichuni。erzheiyineishihoubixuyaolizhi，pingwencaozonghaozishendexintai，qingbiequzuoyiqiecijixinglingyifangdeshier。gengguanjiandeshiyaojienatichufenshoudezheiyijieguo。zaizaizheiyisikaodequanguochengzhizhongxunzhaozishenzaiwangrideganqingqinshenjinglizhizhongdecunzaidebuzu。zheiyechengzuoganqingdelengzang，rangdajiadefenqidiantingzaimou1geshidangdejihui。suihoudiaojielianghaodexintai，zaikaizhanxiayijieduan。

二、外在的提高

 nikeyiwanliulingyifang，neimazaidaoshihouchuxianzailingyifangyanqiandeneishihouhaiyaoyi1gequanxindepinpaixingxiangchuxian，youyubiaomianshizuixingxianghuadenengranglingyifangkandechunishibushiyougenggaide1geguanjianyaosu。dangnizhiqianshilabuxiubianfutade，neimajiarunikeyiwanliulingyifang，congjintiankaishi，haiyaozuo1gezhengjiederen。guangxianganjingzhengjiezhuangzhongdebiaomian，shikeyixiyinnvshengde1geguanjianyaosu，nanshiguanjianyijianyueshushizhudao，ernvshizeyingyiyaomeimirenzhudao。zhiwaizaidetigaozaiqingganwanhuishitebieshizaiguanjiande。dangnilianbiaomiandoumeifaquxiyinzhuta，neilingyifanghaizenqufajuenidebenzhini?

三、本质的提高

 fenshouhouzenmewanhui?benzhidetigaozheiyinenggoushuochengjiaoweipubian，nikeyijiuzhengzhiqiangenyixingpengyoubuzhengquedejiaowangfangfa，youyuzheileijiaowangfangfashizaochengnigenlingyifangtichufenshoudeyuangu。zheiyineishihouninengduoqubaomingcanjiashangwuhuodong，duoquheyixingpengyoujiaoliuyugoutong，xuexipeixunlingyifangshizenqugennijiaowangde。ruguonixuehaotarenshiruhegennijiaowang，niyeshizhequgenggaihewoyixingpengyoudejiaowangfangfa，zheijiushishuobenzhidegengxingaizao。erbenzhidegengxingaizaogengzhuyaoyuxingqinghesuyangdegenggai，meirenxiangyaoquhuijue1geshenshihuoshishiqizhinvren。

 ruhewanhuihunyin?tigaozijidefangshiwojuedeyeyouhenduozhongduoyang，yaoyingyongqiadangnenggouzaiwanhuiganqingdequanguochengzhizhongshaozouwailu。jijizhudongqilai，qingbieyuantianyouren。rujindeni，yaoxianglingyifangmingrijiuhuihuijianeibandexiwang，haiyaoxianglingyifangzhongjiuburongyihuijianeibanyishizhuxing。