想维系情感的幸福长久，只需做到三个字

 01，ruhe wanhuilaogongdexin ?feifeishuo：wanhun3nianwojiugaoqingchu，weihewomenliangdehunyinshizhongweichidehao，zuichuwoyiwei，zijizuodehaifeichanghao，kerujinxiangzhe，guanjianhuanshilaogongzaiqizhudaozuoyong。ruhewanhuilaogong?

 feifeiwangwangyouneiyangdegantan，shishanggexingqitazaiguangjiegouwushi，jinbuzhuyijianxiaoshouyuanshuomianfeijifuhuliganshoudeyinyou，jindaoyijianmeirongmeifadian。keshijinlaijiuwojiubuchu，zuihouzaishangjiasichanlandaheweibiliyouxia，pobudeyishuaxinyongka2500yuanmaixialaichengweishiyongjiazhijiwanyuandehufuchanpin。

 suiranxiaofeixuduo，danshizuishaozhekouxuduo，feifeishineiyangkuanweizishende……huoxu，zheileiniantouyejinjinbuduandaotazaiwangluochaxun，caifajuezheizhongshuobailedeguojixingdapinpaihuazhuangpinhehufuchanpin，danshiquanshipibaogongsishengchanzhizaodetiepaishengchanhuo，zheicaigaoqingchushangdangshoupianle。

feifeiaohuibuyi，xunzhaodianmianqu，quebeishangjiajiju“huopinshouchu，gaibutuiqian”jidafazoule。

 ruhewanhuilaogongdexin?fanhuijiali，feifeiyuyuguahuan，laogongzhangwozhuangkuang，hentiandandeyipinyixiaokuanweitadao：meishier，jiudangtaoqiangejingyanjiaoxun，zheijishishijiaofeile，zhihouliuyidianjiuxing。

 benzaitongkuzhengdangzhongdefeifei，xiaojiqingxuyishunjianyisaoerguang。laogongjijufeichangjiandande“meishier”，yishunjianjiubazishendecaogaoxintaidaiqu，dayuezheijiushishuozishendeqinrenzhishi，nenggouchanshengdexintaiganqifengcaiba!

 zhuanshunjian，xiangqigangwanhunneiyiduanshijian，laogongchuwaixiangmutouzibuyuanman，zishenyegensuitongkuzheng。keneishizishenbudanmeiyoukuanweita，fanershiguihaitashiyashuo：bixuyaojinxiaoshenweia，biebawomenliangzheimeduoniandecaichandoujidajinqu，wanxiewodoudegenniguoqiongrizi。

rujinxiangzhe，zishenshuodezheileiyanyu，jianzhicankuinanren。

 02，renmenzongxiguanduilurenzunjingwenminglimao，duitongxuemen、pengyouheqiliuyoujiangdaoli，keyoudouhuibazuifumianxinxidexintai，zuijiansuankebodeyuju，yeyouzuihenchadeyibian，tongtongdiujizuiqinmijiechuderen，fenhaobuliuqingmian。

 ruhewanhuilaogongdexin?zongxiguanduilurenkuanrong，danyoudouhuijizuiqinmijiechuderenduofangmianyankeguifan，jibianruguoairenfanlebutengbuyangdexiaocuo，qingzexunchi“ruhelianqishishidouzuobutaihao”，zhongzechaojiahoulengzhanweihaipengyouguanxi。

 ganqingyishishangbuwanshandelianrenjian，xiayishideyibiaozhunhuaguidinglingyifang，shaoyoubulingrenmanyi，jiunaopiqinaizhinaotichufenshou，kezishenyouxiayishidehulvediaotishengziji。jiaruohuaizheneiyangdexintaizhuangtai，ganqingpeiduixingbidinghuiyulaiyucha。

renherenzhijian，renheqinmijiechudeguanlian，quanshizheirenshijianshangcirenmendemeihaodeshiwu，zhenqing、ganqingheyouyiquanshizheiban。

 meiyouneimaqinmijiechuderen，youbixufeijinxinjiweichi。kerenmenjingchanghuihulve，huiwangque，huibayunshishangcirenmenzuixingfudeganqing，dangzuoyirufanzhanghelisuodangran，xinlidaziranhuizaochengzheizhongbuaixidexintai，hulve，jianzhiyongxiaojiqingxuqulangfei。

 zishilingyifanghuiwusifengxianduizishenhao，yincimingmuzhangdandefangsihexuanxie。keyouyousheixiangguo，wojuedeyuefaqinmijiechuderen，zaoshoulaiyuanyuyurenmendesunhaiyuezhangni?

03，“没事儿。”

jinjinjianyidesanzi，youneibandeyounengliang。

yueqinmijiechuderen，yuenengkuanrongrenmendepiqi，danzheibingbukeyibianchengbaxiaojiqingxusuoyouchuansongjilingyifangdeyuanyin。

zhongjiu，dangnipengdaosunhai，zairenmenchengshoucuobai，zairenmenmishixinhanshi，shizuiqinmijiechuderenjiyurenmenkuanrong。

 erxiangweichimeiduanpengyouguanxi，rangganqinggengjiatianmeide，hunyinzhongdexianghugengweiqinmijiechu，zhixiangyaonixuehaoshuozheisanzi：meishier。

 zhongjiu，niyingduidenagejiniqinmijiechuderen，doushiyimingbijiaominganmingan，zaijinglicuozhejiannan，chengshouchaimoshi，yiyangxiwangzhenidekuanwei：“meishier，youwoni”。

 erdangtafancuowu，yixiecengmianwufachaoguoguiding，jinixincunweimanshi，xiwangdebingfeijiushinidelengchaorefenghuozeguai，zhishifeichangjiandandejiju“meishier”。

 ruhewanhuilaogongdexin?zaimeiduannenghuxiangkuanrong，xianghubaorongdeganqingzhong，shuangfangcaigengfeichangrongyichuyudaoaiqingdezhendi，zuixinyuzaiqizhong。