在挽回期间，如何规避男性的抵触心态？

01 wanhuiaiqing mijiyounaxie?xiangfuhexing，qianwangzhaotaqueshishichuchuzaigentou?ruhewanhuinanren?

xiangwanliuyiqiandeganqing，kehuandedebushilejie，shilengchuli，naizhiyeyoulingyifangdejiaruheimingdan?

 chajueyiqianjuecetichufenshouqueshiyuwang，xiangxiubuqingganzaicizhaodaoxingfukuaile，ketaquehenzhijieledangdishuo“wozaoyisilexinle”……

huoxu，zheizhongnijuede，douzhengshizhe1gekanqilaizhongrenjiezhidekeguanshishi：tazaoyisheqile，buxiangyaozaihuidaocongqianle。

 xiangwanhuiaiqingdehuazenmeban?danshinishibushixiangguo，wojuedezaijuedabufenqingkuangxia，zaijuedaduoshushike，shizhishangquanshitadefanganxintaizhuangtaizaizuoguai。zhongjiu，dajiaaiguoyihouguo，congenaidaojuelie，zhihualehaoduogeyuenaizhijigexingqideshijian，shifouyoudianertainanyizhixinle?

 taduinideqingganshiburongyilikejiangdidao0，naizhibianweifuzhide，danduinidebaoyuanhaihuiyoude，zhongjiuzaiyiqiandeqingganzhong，tazaoshoulewaishang，yixiazishiwufaquanyude。

xianghupeiheneiyangdebuganxintai，nenggou henqingchudepouxichutadefanganxintai。

xiangzhezaitichufenshouqinei，yinweiyuwangdanaoyiredeyuangu，dajiazhongjianshuoguodezheixiehuaba：

“nihaowuyiwenjihujiumeiyouainiwo!”

“woyibeizidoubuyuanjianniyimian!”

“nihaowuyiwenzhaobuzheheduinigengqiangdele!”

 xiangwanhuiaiqingdehuazenmeban?jibianjianghuizaidajiatichufenshouqinei，shuodehuameiyouneimazhong，danzuihoudaozhideweihaiquanshixiangtongde：zaochengtadeqingchunqipannihefanganxintaizhuangtai。

 “haoya，nijuranneimexiangwo，wodoutingxiangzaijianniyimiande，niyueneimeshuo，woyeguoduankanbudaonini，duozheni，jiaruheimingdanni!”

“shuozhaobuzhegengqiangdenvpengyou?wojiubuxiangxinni，woxiangjiushiyishi!”

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 nikankan，dajiazhongjianjiuzheiyangde，jiediyulaiyuda，wujieyulaiyushen。jiusuanxianghujianhaicanyuqinggan，naizhichangyoufuhexingniantou，danyinweixinliqianzaixingdefanganxintaizhangai，zaochengtaduinidedichugaoguoyouhaodu。

 wanhuiaiqingmijiyounaxie?zheileixintaizhuangtaizairichangshenghuozhongshishichuchukandejian，lirucaodishanglishang“qingwujiantacaodi”，huifajuecaitazhedaliang，xieshang“qiliaoweigan”chu，pengchupaxingderenyeburongyishao……suibingbushiwanquanxuyiweizhizhi，danqishiquanshiwuyishizhongqingchunqipannidetoushe。

 ganqingzhongdoushizheiban，tashuodeyuezhong，tagengyaozhengshijinimen，yuanbenjiuchuzaixiaojiqingxu，zaitahuidewuyishizhongzaochengqingchunqipanni，wanliudaziranshifenkunnan。

 xiangzaiwanliuqineigenggaizheileiqingkuang，haiyaozaigenbenyuanyinchujiejuekunnan，jiaodashuipingdejiangdinanshidezheileifanganheqingchunqipanni——

 tangruodajiahaiyaotichufenshouqi，huobujiufenli，bingweiwanquanbuzailianxi，cishiliuyibubizaicishuoshangbianzheixiehua，jishizhisun，fangzhimaodunjiashen。

 tangruodajiazaoyifenli，danyeyoulianluo，jinjintaduoduoshanshan，youyiraokaini，buxiangyaozaicichupeng，zanqieshizheyanzhetadexintaizhuangtai，huanzheizhongjiaofa：

 “jinguanrujinrenmenjuecetichufenshou，danyinweinishizhongshigehaonanhaizi，hewozaiyiqi，congmeizuoguoyiqiebaoqianwodeshi，tichufenshouhenquehan，danwonengxiexienizuoderenhe。”

 ruhewanhuinanren?huanzheileijiaofa，kanqilaijinjinlveweipingjinglemouxie，keshishishangganghaoshizaiyikaoxiaoshouhuashudenengliang，xiezhunihuanjietadexintai。yingduinineiyangdeyuyanhexintai，tangruotahuanshiduoduoshanshan，huoshilikejinxingxiameiduanlianqing，bidinghuiyouneijiugande。

 ruhewanhuinanren?nanshengjiuzheiyangdeweishengwu，ruguonihaowuyiwenta，rentongta，tajiuburongyiduijiniduojueqing。erjiexiaqunikeyizuode，jiushishuojianchixiaqu，bawozhujihui，zaicichuma，kaizhanercixiyin。