挽救婚姻，如何让第三者退场？

 nvxingyaohuweihunyin，shouhaoxingfukuaile，zaifajuelaogongwaiyuhou，bujinyaoxiubufuqiguanxi，ranghunyinguchengbaogenglaogu;yucitongshijiushishuoyaofenlidisanzhe，rangtajijichechu。1geyouqiangjingxinlidenvxing，ziyoubanfarangdisanzheerlaolaoshishilichang。zaiqizhonghedisanzheertanhuaneirongbixuliuyidebiaozhun，chengdoushihuazhenqingganrenweiniganlexialiexiaojie。kuaguohunyinkexingma?ruhejianghunyinjinxingdaodi?

一、电話沟通交流是

 ruhejianghunyinjinxingdaodi?xuduolaopozaifajuelaogongwaiyuhou，doushihenhaoqixindisanzheershihexurenye，xiangtangedaodi，xiangyaozhidaodisanzheerbizishenqiangzainaer。shubuzhi，qingdipengmianchourenxiangjian，yaojibaiduishouweibipengmian，dianhuagoutongjiaoliugengshihe，gezhechuanxinhao，bicidoujiaoweiyouguishugan，xiangduixingfeichangrongyidiaojieqingxu。ruguohuabutouji，gualedianhuajiushishuo，jianshaobaodazheiyikepaxiachangchuxiandegailv。

er、dianhualiuyixinxibaomiheyinsibaohu

 zenmejingyinghunyin?hedisanzheertongdianhuajinkenengtiaoxuan1geqingjing、yinsibaohuxingqiangdediqu。youyudianhuajianghuishejidaomouxiebijiaominganneirong，yincijinliangjianshaozaiqiyehuobiedegonggongchanghekaizhan，yifangtongdianhuashimoufangcaozongbulexintai。yichaoyinaolurenjiezhi，fangfojializheiweifeihewochanshengyidianernaxiecaiduidezhunini。

san、goutongjiaoliushiliuyifuyanleshi

 kuaguohunyinkexingma?bingzhefuyanleshidebiaozhun，rangtajuedenizhangwodefeichangshao，jiarutarujintingshou，renhedoudouhaimei。nizhaotatanhuaneirongdemudibingbushisuzao1geduishouzhishizhengde1gepenyou。“diyicigoutongjiaoliu，wobuxiangshuotaiduoshencengcidehua，jianxinninengdong。”zuizhongbiewangjiliugexiaoweiba，quanjietaniyiweiniqueshiquandoubuqingchu。

si、bingzhezhenzhidetanhuaneirongbiaozhun

 zenmejingyinghunyin?nanshengjigexiangyaoyibian“waibiandecaiqi”gen“jiazhongdehongqi”moufan?dabufennvxingganjuezishenyingdangyigenggaodezishiduidainage“huainvren”，shuobailedegaozitaibingfeinihelihefatabufa，niliangjiafunvtahulijing，zhishixiandaozhebeitianminrendezishi。nirenzhenshuo，tacaihuiyongxinting，nvxingzhongjiangengfeichangrongyilejie。