如何帮助爱人摆脱婚姻恐惧症？婚姻出轨怎么办？

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neimakonghunzhengdeyuangushishenme?

qixiangguanyaosudagaiyoujichu3gecengmian ：

(1)zishenyiwangcengyouguotongchudeganqingqinshenjingli。

(2)jianghuiduiqinglvcunzaijizhidexiwang，yindanxinbuchenggongerzibaoziqihunyin。

(3)jianghuishouqiyuanshengjiatingbabamamatongchuhunyindeweihai。

neimazenyangjiejuehunyinkongjuzhengni?

duiyubuyiyangyuangu，duizhengzhiliaolunzhi：

 (1)youguodetongchuganqingqinshenjingli，danghunyinzoudaojintouzenmeban?danxinzaidubuchenggongdexintaizhuangtaishiyiqiezhengchangzhuangkuang，yiqihaiyaolejiezishendelefenshouhoubingfazheng，weiziji1gexianqibaituozhiqianbuchenggongdeheiying。zaizheiyixianqizhong，bixuzuodeshishijiyuangushenrufenxi，pangbianrenzuogewanquandedaobie。yiqitishengzijiduiganqing、hunyinchangchangdegongzuonengli，duijianglaimanhuaixinxin。

 (2)duiqinglvyouguogaoxiwangderen，chuguidehunyinhaiyouxiwangma?hunyinchuguizenmeban?zuixianyaojiejueduihunhoushenghuodexiangxiang，bicibixubuduantishengbicizhijiandezhangwo，yaoyoujieshoulingyifangdequedianyubuzudedifangdechongfenzhunbei，rangzishendexinlizhenshiqiangjingqilai，zaizheigejichushangzaijiazhongdeqingganyincishijianguerzhangqide。shouwei，yingdangqingxidilejiedao，jiehunhoudaibiaobicihuiweijiazhongjinlijinze。qici，duoyuzishendebabamama、yitaruqianzhongshuweichengdeqinpenghaoyougoutongjiaoliuxuexipeixunjiatinghunyindeshieryuyiwu。zuihou，duokanyueduxiejiatinghunyindeshujie，huobaomingcanjiayouguandexuexipeixun，tigaozijiyingduihunyinfuzerendegongzuonengli。

 (3)yaolejiezijidebabamamayishizhuxingbuxingfukuailedeyuangu，qiyuangujianghuishibabamamabenshenqianqueyouliangdegoutongjiaoliu，burongyiyunyingqinggansuozaochengde。yaolejiezhenzhengdeaiqingshicunyoude，duoqufajueshenpangrichangshenghuozhongxingfukuailejiatinghunyin，kantamenshizenmezuode。

 hunyinchuguizenmeban?wulunshidanyoubierendetongchuzaizishendejianglailikaiyan，huanshihaipazishenxiangxiangzhongdebuchenggongbianchengshiji ，hunqiankongjuzhengzhebadanyoukuadaqiciweishiji，zishenyoujianghuixingfukuailede，yeshijianghuitongchude，jiarutishengzijiyingduiganqingyuhunyindegongzuonengli，xingfukuailedegailvjiuyuanyuandichaoguotongchude。xiangfangfaquyingdui，qiangjingzishendexinli，rangzishenjinengxiangyouxingfukuaileyekeyiyinglaifengchuiyuda，chedijiejueduihunyindekongjuxintai。