需要注意的挽回雷区

 wanhuiaiqing mijiyounaxie?renmenshishikekedouhuizhuiqiuwanmeigengmeihaodeshenghuo，zhuiqiuwanmeigengtianmideaiqing，yunyinggengxingfudehunyin。danbaochixingfukuailedejunheng，bingbushiyixindetingcongrenshouwusifengxian，yebingbushiyizhenzidefangsihezehuoqiaozhalesuo，zhishizaipingshilixianghuxuehaodelejiehezhongshi，tiaoxuanhehuijue，biaoshuheyingchen。。。chuangjianqilaide1geyouliangzhangqixingxiangchufangshi。yinerzaitingquyijianjingyinghunyinfangfadeyiqi，haiyaoliuyifangzhixialiejinqu。xiangwanhuiaiqingdehuazenmezuo?

1.习惯性抱怨另一方

 suoyourenshuohuadouhuibuzhudongdepianzhongzishen，siweimoshiyehuibujingyideyiwolaiguanlizhongxin，feichangshibutaihaochuxianshi，yinweirenyangzhangbiduandebenxing，douhuibuzhudongdeweizijizhaotuocibianjie。yinerdangliangrenzhongjianyoubuhemudeshierchanshengshi，neixindouhuibuzhudongdebacuotuijianjilingyifang，jinerbaoyuanlingyifang，naizhilianggerenyechangyinerdadongganhuo，dabulezhongguofangan。

3. 不太好的生活方式

 zailianqingzhong，yincirenmenhuiyibianjilingyifanggoujian1gegengxingfudepinpaixingxiang，erliuyizishendeyantanjuzhi，kefuzishenmouxiebutaihaodexiguanxing，yejingchangjineraideweituorenkuanronglingyifangdequexian，baganqinghelixingdegengxingfu。dandangtaruzhangqixingdehunyinlishi，liangrenguodujingchangdechaoxixiangchu，rangzishenjianjiandixuehuifangxiajiebeixin，babutaihaodeshenghuofangshipuluchuqu。liruzaochenqibushangchuang，jialishenghuoxiguanguodubuxiubianfu，buzhongshihuanjingweisheng，youhuozheduihuanjingweishengguoduyankeguiding，doushiyufadelingrenwufajiena。

 wanhuiaiqingdehuazenmezuo?nanrennvrenzhizefengongbuyiyang，juecelerichangshenghuoderenwujiaosebuyiyang。nanshengzuibixusuiyiherentong，nvxingzuibixuzhongshiheaixi。xiangyaoxiangweichizhangqixingguanlian，zuiguanjiandeshibawozhulingyifangdeyaoqiu。qidaidahuoerdounengzaihunyinzhong，raokaijinqu，yishizhuxingyulaiyuxingfu。