挽回男人最好的方法

　　wanhuinanrenzuihaodefangfa，jiusuanniyouzheyidongpiaoliangfangzi，yeyaoweihubaoyang，yibaozhengqizuihaodezhuangtai。yiyang，hunyinshenghuoyeyaoweihubaoyangcaikeyilaogu。youshihou，fuqiganqinghuiyinweimouxiebiedezhongyaodeshi(biruyunqi、gongzuo、shentiwentiyujiatingshiqing)erbiandebuneimeguanjian。

　　zaizheigeshihou，fuqijiankendingyouhenduohuabushuo，jihuhenshaogongxiangbicizhijiandetiyan。zheishihouzaibicizhijianzaochengyidingdejiedi。jiarujiedijinyibujiashen，kenenghuizhishiyixiebuyukuaideshiqingchansheng。weilefangzhizheiyangdehouguo，meigejiatingdouyaolejieruhezhongxinqudelianxi，zaicihuanqibicizhijiandeqing。

　　zaizheipianwenzhangzhong，dajiahuidaleruhegenlingyibanzaiciqudelianxizheiyiguanjiannanti。

　　weiheniwubihenidelingyibanzaiciqudelianxi?

　　lianrenxuzhongxinlianluodeyuanyinhenduo。womenzaiciliejuyixiezuizhongyaodeyuanyin：

　　baozhengnikendingbuhuisangshiqingxuhuoxinglianluo

　　baozhengruguonikanzhenidelingyibanshi，niyirangandaomanyi

　　降低争执次数

　　quebaoniyebuhuixianghesheyouyiyanggennidelingyibanzhuzaiyiqi

　　baozhengdajiadouganshoudaoai、rentonghebixu

　　baozhengdajiahaobuyouyudegoutongjiaoliu

　　ruhegenlingyibanfujianlianluo?

　　zheiliyouyixieduiyuruhehenidelingyibanfujianlianluodesilu，keyibangzhutishengnimenzhijiandeguanxi，bingqieweidajiabicichuangzaoyigegengjushanxin、gengjuzhichengdeziranhuanjing。

　　1.行为胜过论辩

　　fujianguanlianzuijiandandefangfajiushirangwuyindexingweilaibiaoxian。liru，changshiyongbaota，huoshinieyinietadexiguanjie。yiyang，neiniyekeyizuoyixiexingwei，liruhuranxiangyongta，huoshiqinwentadeqiane。lilixuanchengxiangyongjiushitazuiyouxiaodewuqizhuangbei，taxiangxinzhenxinshiyixiangyongdenengliang。tajiang：“jinri，zaihewoshenaidenanshengzhangqi、dichen、reqiedixiangyongyihou，woganshoudaocengjingshiqudeguanlian……tadeshoubeihuanraozhewodeshenzi，wodenaodaiyizaitadejianbangshang，rangsuoyoudefennu、kongjuganhuomeiyouanquangandouxiaohaodaijin。”

　　2.维持积极的心态

　　wanhuinanrenzuihaodefangfa，meiyicixiaochenzhijiandehudong，douyaobaozhengyouwucijijizhudongdeduitan。jijizhudongdetanhuabuyidingfeiyaojinjinweiraonidefuqiganqing;haikeyishiyouguannidegongzuo、dajiaqinqi，huozheyixiejiandandeshi，liruqiwenyouduohao。ruguoniyouzhejijidexintaishi，yujubianhuiliuchangziran，bingbangzhunimenzhijiandeguanximanxuefuhuo。

　　3.给与赞扬

　　genjutaolunnilingyibanzuoweiyigeren、zuoweihaizi/guinv、shenweirenfu/mama，naizhizuoweizhangfu/laopoyouduoyouqi，laifujianhetamendelianxihetuanjieyizhi。zhenxinchengyizanyangtamen，bingjinkenengduodeyindaotamen。

　　zhangwolingyibandexingquaihaobingcanyujinlai。zhenxinchengyihaoqixinlingyibandegerenaihao，youliyuzhongxindianrannimendeguanxiaiheaiqing。

　　4.zailixiangyuhunyinzhongjianbaochiwending

　　jiarunishiyinweijuedexinzhongdemengxiangranghunyinxianzhiyipang，erzhengzaixunzhaozenyangyuairenhehaoruchu，neimenixuyaojinzaojiejuezheixiewenti。zhuiqiuchenggongzhedelixiangbenshenmeiyoucuo，danyidingyaoquebaobubirengxianidelingyiban。jiarunidelingyibannenggoujiyuniyiding，bingyuniyiqiaixinidechenggong，nidechenggongyehuigengjiatianmei。