wanhuinanrendefangfashishenme,hunyinshenghuo,neigecengjingbeishiweiganqingzuizhongxuanzedeshengdian,youshihouyehuizaoshoufengchuiyuda,naizhilaidaopoliedebianyan。ruguonifaxianyiqianhenixiangwangdexifuhaoxiangduizijidesilexin,hunyinshenghuoliangqihongdengshi,nishibushijuedebuzhisuocuo,xinjihuoliao?biezheji,jinri,zuoweidajiadezimeitiqinggandashi,womenjiangdaizhedajiashenruyanjiuzenmewanhuineiyigezaihunyinshenghuozhongsihuyisilexinta,jiemizheixieshiyongyouxinchaodewanhuijiqiao!
一、看清现况,直面问题

第一步:理性分析
ruguonifaxianxifuduizijidesilexinshi,shouxianyaozuodeshipingjingxialai,zixifenxidajiahunyinshenghuozhongcunzaidewenti。shirichangsuosuijileixialaidefenqi?shigoutongbudaoweizaochengdewujie?huoshidisanzhechazusuoyinfadekunjing?zhiyouzhaodaowentidebenzhi,cainengshibangongbei,jingquewanliu。
第二步:自我反省
zaiyanjiuwentidetongshi,haiyaojinxingshenkeziwofansheng。xiangxiangnizaihunyinshenghuozhongshifoucunzaizuodebugouhaodequyu,shibushihushileduifangdeganshou,shibushibingmeiyoudaijitachongzudeguanhuaishiyong。jilao,yigebazhangpaibuxiang,hunyinshenghuodenantitongchangbicidouyouzeren。
二、改变自我,提升魅力
disanbu:waizaimeigengxingaizao
foyaojinzhuanghaomapeihaoan,xiangwanhuisilexindexifu,nidexiancongzishenxingxiangkaishigaibian。huangefaxing,maijishenxinmaideyifu,jianshensuxing,shizijihuanranyixin。ruguoniyizhanxindemianmaoxingxiangchuxianzaitademianqian,wuyihuijitachanshengyanqianyiliangdeganjue,ranqitaduinideqiuzhiyu。
第四步:本质提高
waizaigenggaizhishidiyibu,gengweiguanjiandeshineizaitigao。duoyuedu、duoxuexue,tigaozijiderenzhishuipingherenwensuyang;fazhanxingquaihao,chongshizijirichangshenghuo;xuehuiqingxuguanli,rangzijigengjiawenzhong。yigeneiwaijianxiudeni,cainenggenghaodexiyinwanliutadexin。
三、复建沟通交流,提高了解

第五步:积极沟通
wanhuinanrendefangfashishenme,hezuoshijiejuewentigongluqiaoliang,doushiwanjiuhunyindeguanjiansuozai。jijizhaoxifujiaoxin,biaodanideganshouhekanfa,lingtingtaxinlihua。liuyi,goutongdeshihouyaobaochilixinghelixing,fangzhizhengchaohechize。tongguogoutong,dajiakeyigenghaodelejiebicizhijiandeyaoqiuheqidai,xunzhaogongtongyuyan,cujinganqing。
第六步:倾听
qingtingshigoutongjiaoliubukehuoquedeyibufen。danglaopozaisushuoshi,nixuyaoquanshenguanzhuditing,bubiqieduanta,buyaojizhebiaodazijideguandian。changshizhanzaitadejiaodulailejieduifangdeganshou,daijitajingshencengmiandeshiyongheanwei。neiyang,tacainengkanjiannidezhenzhiheguanzhu,manmanchangkaixinfei。
diqibu:yitongchuliwenti
zaigoutongdeguochengzhong,dajiayehuifaxianyixiegongtongdenanti。buyaodanxinmianduizheixiewenti,fanershiyaoyiqijijimiandui。zhidingxingdetongjiejuefangan,fengongxiezuo,gongtongfendou。dangnimenyiqibaituoleyigeyouyigekunjingshi,aiqingyehuibiandegengjianonghou。
情感问题免费分析
获导师一对一咨询
移动端官网
扫一扫
解锁更多情感秘籍
现在预约
shoucizixun,mianfeilingqu1ciqingganfenxi
*chengnuoziliaojinyongyuqingganfenxi,yangebaomi
© 2016 huazhen,inc. all rights reserved. huazhenyonghuxieyi
粤公网安备 44010402002416号
zixunrexian: 020-32519581 guangzhouquegeshuzijiankangguanliyouxiangongsi