nvrenganhenilihunshuomingshenme,xiangtaohuiduizijishiwangdenvhaizi,neixinxiangyazhekuaishitou。buzhidaogaishuoshenmecaikeyirangqijieqi,pazhiqianguoqingmeifenliang;xiangzuodianshenmetianbu,youpatarenweinizaiyanxi;wangzhetalengmodexintai,yuenuliyuemeixinxin;mingmingxiangxiufuguanxi,fanbei“taxinhan”dangzaimenwai。zheilei“xianghehaoquemeitouxu”dezhemotaizhenshi!shijishangxinhanbushiyitiansuoxingchengde,wanliuyexuyaonaixin。bawozhimianwenti、xingweizhengshi、jitashineikongjian、zhongjianxinrenzheijigefangfa,huirangtakanjiannidegenggai,haikeyijianjiandironghuatabingliangxintai!
一、“先‘直面问题不惧怕’,别找理由辩驳”

taohuiduizijishiwangdenvhaizi,xianyongxinrenkenanti。taxinhantongchanglaiyuanyuni“fuyanleshizhiqian”“zhaoliyou”“meiyougaibian”,zheileizhimianwentiyinzangzhe“wozhidaowocuozaina”dechengyi,bipianmianhuade“duibuqi”gengyouyong。
buyaozaishuole“doushiwobuhao”“nibuyaoxiaotidazuo”,buyaobanantituijianji“yalitaida”“tebiemang”;nenggouxieyifengzhenxinshiyixiedexin,jutishuolaiqing“zhiqiannidebingwoyemeipeizheni,jiushiwohushilenideqingxu”“tongyinideshimeiyouzuodao,shiniyicicishiwang,shiwodezeren”。
zhuinvhaizi,guangduitahaoshijishangmeishenmeyong,gemenbingbushiqudanghaorende,niyeshilaipaorenjia,zuizhongyaodejiushixianliao,zhiyaohuiliao,nengrangnvhaizixianggepingxiaodaoduziteng,yehuirangtajideyayang,xintaibatajifale,dangranbianduiniqujuede,ruguohaibushanyanci,zuitaichun,neijiulaiweixingongzhonghao~jianghanyoushu,gongxiangniyifen,dingjiandeliaotiansiweidaotu,shinibawoliaotianguanjianqiaomen,heshiyaofengqudian,heshiyaoaimeiguanxitiaodou,yucitongshirangniyitaodingjianxiaoshouhuashu,shinijiejuebutongdechangjingdeduihua,doukeyidexinyingshou,henjiandanjiunengjiangnvhailiaonadaoshou。
liru:tayouyunizongshuangyueerxinhan,yekeyishuo“woshuleyixia,zheiyiyuetongyipeizhenisancidoumeiyouzuodao,nijuede‘buhuizaixinwo’shi,wocaifaxianzijiduotaiguo,shizhendehenzhendeduibuqi”。zhimianwentibujupa,nengrangtaganshoudaonibingbushizaifuyanleshi,xintaixianruanchulaiya!
二、“用‘行为证实更改’,别仅靠嘴说服务承诺”
taohuiduizijishiwangdenvhaizi,huodongbiyuyanbiaodagengyouxiaoguo。tatinggouleni“xiaciyidinggai”,jinyoushidashidegenggaicaikeyirangqiyaobaibuding,zheileixingweiyinzangzhe“woshizhendezaiyuelaiyuehao”juexin,bihuayanqiaoyugengdadongrenxin。
nvrenganhenilihunshuomingshenme,yiqianzonghushitadexiaoxi,jiumeiwanshuiqianfayitiao“jintianfashengdeshi”,rangtazhidaoniyizhizaifenxiangrichang;yiqiantongyideshiqingzongchengkong,jiucongwozuoqi,liru“jidetatiguodekafeiting,momodimaigenghaotaxihuandekougandaiqu”;yiqianpiqichazongzhengchao,jiuguanlihaoqingxu,jishitabulibucaidoubuxinfuqizao。
liru:tacengjingmaiyuanniconglaibuhaijideliunianri,womenkeyizaitashengrishi,beihaotatiguodelipin,shuo“zhiqianzonghushinideqingxu,cicitizaojidaorilishang,qidaisuanbushangtaichi”。xingweizhengminggenggai,huirangtajianjiandiganjue“wohaoxiangzhendebianle”ya!
三、“给‘理智室内空间不纠结’,别逼她立刻宽容”

taohuiduizijishiwangdenvhaizi,yaojitaqingxingdeshineikongjian。taduinixinhanshi,ni“sipilailian”“meirixunwenkuanrong”fanerhuirangtagengpaichi,zheileishidangfangkaishouyinzangzhe“wozunzhongnijiezou”denaixin,biqiangpojieshougengyouyong。
bietiantianfa“nixiangxinwozenmeyang”,biezaitajujuejianmianhoubuduanyaoqing,buyaoranghaopengyoudaihua“quanshuohuiguotou”;keyizheimeshuo“yinweinirengzaiqifen,wobingbubizheni,danwohuiyizhigai,dengzhenixiangyaoliwo”,suihoutuihaihaopengyouweizhimomodeguanzhu。
liru:tamingqueshuo“linshibuxiangjianni”,ninenghui“hao,wobudaraoni,danruguonixiangyaobangzhu,suishisuidizhaowoliao,woyizhizai”。jilizhishineikongjiandezheiduanshijian,bujinnengrangtadiaozhengqingxu,yehuirangnizhuanzhuyugenggaiya!
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