ruheranglaopohuixinzhuanyigenniyibeizi,ganqing,jiuxiangyichangmalasongbisai,youshi,womenyexuzailushangzhaobudaofangxiang,huoyinyishidecuxindayi,rangzaihuderenduizanmenshiwangtouding。ruguonifaxiandangchuneigeduizijidexiaorongyijiudenvhaizi,xianrujinyanshenzhongquanshilengmoshuyuan,neixinshibushixiangbeidafanlewuweiping,jihuihenyouwunai?biezheji,zuoweizimeitipingtaiqinggandashi,wojintianjiulaibangnizhizhizhao,jiaodajiayibubuyingdetadexin!
第一步:直面问题,看清现况

认错,不回避
zuixian,niyaogaoqingchu,nvshengduinanshengshiwangtouding,tongchangbushiyitianliangtiandeshiqing。yexushiniduocihulve、buduixiannuoyan,huozhebuzuguanxinta。yinci,buyaoxiangzhehuibiwenti,yebuyaozhaoliyoujizijibianjie。zhengshizijidebuzhengque,shiwanliudediyibu。
理性分析,找问题
zuoxia,xiangqingchu,lianggerenzhijianjiujingnalichulewenti。jiushitarenweinibuzuqinfen?shiniganjuetataizuo?huozhegoutongbudaowei,zaochengwujieyueshen?xunzhaowentidebenzhi,cainengshibangongbei。
面对现实,不纠结
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第二步:提升自己,改变自己
自身形象,变身记
buyaoxiaokanzishenxingxiangdenengliang。yigehuanjingzhengjie、yizhedetidenanhaizi,yizhibijiaorongyixiyinyixingdeguanzhu。yinci,zailifadianjiangeshuaiqiyouxingdefaxing,huanyigeshishangdechuanda,rangzijikanqilaihuanranyixin。

内在修养,必不可少
zishenxingxiangjinjinbibeipin,neizaixiuyangcaisuanshizhangqixiyinyixingdeguanjiansuozai。duoyuedu,tigaozijiderenzhishuipingheyanjie;duoyundong,weichihaodeshentilianghaodetixing;duoxuexiyixiechaojijineng,lirupengzhi、paishe、huihuadeng,rangzijibiandegengjiayouyisiyuyoufengcai。
心理调节,至关重要
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第三步:取得联系,逐渐接近
低调行事,低调
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探寻突破口,巧联络

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展现更改,不炫耀
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