细节看女人真假闹离婚

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　　一、看清现况：你究竟“伤”她多深?

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　　回望“犯罪现场”

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　　评定“损害指数值”

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　　二、对策一：真诚道歉，不是空穴来风!

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　　tiaoxuanheshideshijianhedizhi

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　　用具体行动表示歉意

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　　biaodanidekuijiuziwogaibian

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　　三、对策二：聆听她心里话，比说更为重要!

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　　jitayigeanquanqingtuziranhuanjing

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　　yongyanshenheshentiyuyanbiaoshuguanxin

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　　不要急着辩驳和反驳

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