婚后怎么挽回婚姻

　　hunhouzenmewanhuihunyin，zheishiyigefuzaerruanruodehuatitaolun。zaihunyinshenghuozhong，womencengxiangai，cengjingdewomennanwangdehuiyi，danmaodunhewujieyerangdajiazouxiangliyibianyuan。danshi，liyibingbudengyuwanbi，ershiyigecongtoukaishidehaojihui。zaizheipianwenzhangli，womenjiangfenxiangyixiezhidechangshidebanfa，bangwomenwanliushiqudeai。

　　第一步：审视自我，面对过去

　　lihunzhihou，yingduishiqudedongxihunyinshenghuo，henrongyixianruyuantianyourenhuoshiguaizeduifangdeganshouzhong。danshi，zhenzhenzhengzhengwanliuzaihundediyibushishenshiziwo，yonggandequmianduicongqiandezhuduo。zheixuyaowomencongyigegengguangkuo、wanshandeshijiaofanshengzijizaihunyinlidezhuyaobiaoxian，bingshenshizijiwentihebuzhengque。

　　shenshiziwobingbushiweileshiwomentaiguokuijiu，ershiyinggaiyishidaozijizaihunyinzhongdewenti，bingxunqiufazhanheyouhua。womennenghuiguzijishibushichangchanghulvelelingyibandetihui，shibushiguoduzisizili，shibushiqianquenaixinyulijiedeng。zheizhongwentidecunzaibingbudengyuwomendoushiyigehuairen，fanershishuomingwomenshiputongderenmen，youzijidebugou。zhiyoudangwomenzhenzhenzhengzhengrenqinggezhongwenti，cainengzhenzhengdecongzhongjiqujingyanjiaoxun，bingzaiweilaideguanxizhongfangzhifantongyangdecuo。

　　zaishenshizijidehuanjiezhong，kenengmianduitongkuhezize。danwomenbixujianchiyishidao，meigerendouhuifancuo，guanjianshiwomenyuanbuyuanyijiuzhengyuchengzhang。shenshiziwomodadeyongqihejiandingdeyizhi，danshiqueshifujianhunyinshenghuodeguanjianyibu。

　　第二步：沟通交流，聆听彼此之间

　　hezuoshihunyinlidegenji，doushiwanliuaideyouxiaotujing。zailizhihepinghedeqifenzhong，heqianairenzuoxia，tanrandigoutongjiaoliuneixindexiangfahekanfa。zaizheiguochengzhong，lingtingduifangdexinsheng，lejieduifangdexuqiuyuxiwangyeshifeichangzhongyaode。

　　yidingyaoxuehuilingting。lingtingbingbushijiandandizhengqiulingyifangjianghua，fanershizhenzhenglejieheganshoulingyifangdeqingxuyuxuqiu。zailingtingdeguochengdangzhong，dajiayaojinkenengbaochilixing，bubibiciqieduan，yebuyaojizhebiaodazijideguandian。zhihuizailingyifangtihuidaobeizunzhongyulijiedeqingxingxia，ta(ta)caihuigengyuanyidakaixinfei，tanchengdibiaoshuzijineixin。

　　yidingyaoxuehuibiaoshu。zaigoutongzhong，zhenchenghezhenchengshihenzhongyaode。dajiayaoganyudibiaodazijideganshouyuxuqiu，yucitongshijinliangbimianshiyonggongjixingyuyanbiaoda。yong“wo”shibiaoshu，jiangzhongdianfangzaizijidexiangfahexuqiushang，erfeizhizelingyifang。biru，keyizheimeshuo“woganjuetebiebeihulve”erfei“nizongbuzhaoguwo”。

　　tongguogoutong，dajiakeyigenghaodelejieduifangdexiangfaheganshou，zhaodaowentidebenzhi，binggongtongxunzhaojiejuefangan。jiaoliuguochengyexubuhuiyifanfengshun，kenengyudaocuozheyumaodun。danshizhiyoujianchidaodi，yitongchuliwenti，cainengzhenzhengdefujianhunyinliderentongheqingganlianjie。

　　第三步：重建信任

　　liyiyebansuizhexinlaideliekai。zhongjianxinrenshiwanliuzaihunhuanjiezhongzuimanzhanghuanjie，danyeshizuiguanjiandeyihuan。zunzhongshihunyindejichu，buxinrenduifang，hunyinshenghuojiangnanyizhangqi。

　　hunhouzenmewanhuihunyin，womenyinggaichengxianzhenzhidegenggai。xinlaidefujianxuyaodajiazhanshichuzhenzhengdegaibian，bingbafuwuchengnuobianweixingwei。womenyinggaitanchengditanyanzijicongqiandebuzhengque，tongshixiangairenquebaohuijiuzhenggezhongwenti。danshuoyafeichangrongyi，baozhengqueshiyigemanzhangdeguocheng。zaizheiguochengzhong，womenyinggaiduoyidiannaixinheyili，buyaoqingyifangqi。

　　womenyinggaijiduifangshijianyukongjian。xinlaibushiyicuerjiude，taxuyaoshijianlaileijihehangshi。womenyinggailejieduifangkenengduidajiayouyidingdefangbei，bieqiangqiulingyifangmashangxiangxin。fanguolai，womenyaoyijijizhudongxingdongzhengmingzijigenggai，nengrangduifangtihuidaozijidechengxinyunuli。

　　zaixinlaidefujianhuanjiezhong，dajiagengyaoxuehuijienacongqiandecuowusunhai。yidingyaoxuehuibaoronghekuanrong，bubiguoyuzhizhecongqiandeguoshi。zhiyoudangwomenzhenzhenzhengzhengjienayiwang，bingxiangzhegengmeihaodeweilaiqinfenshi，xinlaicainengzuodaozhenzhengdedaofujian。