婚姻出轨该怎么挽回

　　xianzaizheigeshehuifuqijiandaduoshuyifanghenqiangshiyifangjiaoweilieshi，

　　zheizhonglianggerenzaiyiqijiehunhoudeshenghuoxingfuma?

　　ruguoqianghanneilianggerenbiciburenxinrangzuizhonghuishizenyangdejielun?

　　xuduofuqidounengbeizheijianshiqingsuoyingxiangbuzhidaoruhechulihechuli，

　　jiarushilaopoqianghanneiyanqianzheigenanrenyidingbeidayademeipiqilehaiyouyixiebuzixin，

　　manmandiliangrenzhijianyebuzaiyouaiqingmeiyouqinqing。

　　shijiewanwudewendingyuxiediaofazhanshenhoushijishangyidingyouyizhongwendingdefazhan，

　　bixujinmilianxizhaodaoyigepinghengdian，zheileijunhengdiandajiayidanbaituobianhuiyifabukeshoushi。

　　hunyinliyeshiyiyangbuguannayifangguoyuqiangshidoushihuihuihuaifuqijiandemouleijunhengdian，

　　tongchanghunyinliyouyifangqianghanhuishibeidayadenayifangzaijialiganjuemeiyingxiangli，

　　shijianzhanghaihuijixubuyuanhuijialetongchangnvrenqiangshishijishangdoushibiaoxiang。

　　tamenxiwangdeshihuodelaogongdeguanxinheaixi，jiaruhuodelenayidinghuiguaiguaijiufan。

　　jiaruwufadedaoziranerranjiujiuhuifaxiantamenyuelaiyuekuangzaoyishenyigui。

　　buguannanshenghaishinvshengzaihunyinshenghuozhongyaozuodaodebianshibiaodazijiaijianjiandizhengqueduidailingyiban。

　　jiatingliyouyifangqianghanyidingyeshiyouyuanyindebingbushiyigerendeshiqingjiushishuangfangdouyoucuo，

　　yincizaiganqingmianqiandajiayirouzhigangneiyangzaiyingshiderenjiuhuibeironghua，

　　fuqijiandexiangchuzhidaoyingdangfazhanweizhongsheng"haopengyou"yaoxiangpengyouyiyangxianghulijie，

　　liangrenjiehunchengjiadeneiyitianqijiuyijingquedingyibeizifengyutongzhousuoyiyidingyaohaohaojingying。

　　1.适度采用逃避的形式来另一方理智

　　zheilisuoshuodelizhibingbushijiatinglengbaolijiarufashengzhengzhiwomennengduanzandetaobinengrangduifangpingjingxialaiqianqutan，

　　yaoburanyigerenshengqishimeibanfagoutongdezaicigoutongjiaoliudengtongyuhuoshangjiayou。

　　taobihoulingyifangpingjingxialailixingdijinxingsikao2gerencainengxinpingqihedequchuli，

　　zheishihouyidinghuiyouhaodejieguoburanjiuhuichaodebukekaijiao。

　　2.冷暴力

　　zaizheishihouhaoqiangderenyibanshifenlejieniyidingshimeiyiciqifenquanshinijijihongta，yincicaihuineiyangtandewuyan。

　　zheiyangderendaduoshuaimuxurongyuzizunhuibijiaolihai，yeyuyigerendexinggeyujiajiaolaoshiyouhendaguanxi。

　　meiyigerendoushiduligetixingqingziranbuyiyang，yibanzheizhongrenyaoxinzhikoukuaixingzijianxiaokuaizoulaidekuai。

　　jiaruhongbuzhudajiakeyichangshilengbaoli，yiduanshijianlingyifangyidinghuizhudongqurencuo，

　　shijishangrenherenzhijianbuguanshaguanxidajiadouyaojilingyifangliuyudi，caibuhuirangshuangfangnaodebuyukuai。

　　3.试着自己的观点

　　womendeshenghuozhongyouhenduorenzaiyudaoshideshihoumeiyouzijideguandianxiaisuidaliu，

　　hunyinchuguigaizenmewanhui，yincilingyifanghenqiangshidajiabufanggenjuzijidexiangfalaizhixing，

　　yexujielunbingmeiyouwomenxiangxiangdeneimebukanrumuhuoxujianchiyixiajiunengbianhuiwomenzishen，

　　huoxulingyifangbukeyiyixiarangbudannidezheizhongfangfahuirangduifangzhidaonitongyangshiyoulixianghuihaizui，

　　buxuzhihounizaiganqingliyidinghuiyizhifushang。

　　4.掌握主动

　　haoduorenzaibierenmianqianyidiandoubuqianghanjinyouhuidaojialigenzuiqinmiderenqianghan，

　　zheibanrenmenzongshiyitingcongzhuangtaiyingduilingyibanyoujinmideguanxizheileiqianghanshibuduanjileide。

　　yincizaiyudaoshishiwomenyinggaizhangwozhudongquanhuayuquanmanmangaibianlingyifangdeguannian，

　　zhengqueyindaokeyirangduifangzuodaoxiangyingdegenggai。