怎么成功挽回破碎的婚姻

　　zenmechenggongwanhuiposuidehunyinzaizheiyangyigekuaijiezoushidai，ganqinghaoxiangyebianderuzhongshikuaicanyiban，laidekuaiqulaidekuai。hunyinshenghuo，neigecengjingbeichengzuorenshengdaoluzuiguanjianhaigangdeci，xianrujinzhengmianlinzhejudatiaozhan。liyi，neigecengjinglingrenbierbutantaolundehuati，xianzaiqueriyipinfandichuxianzaiwomenshenghuozhong。dannizhidaoma?jibianhunyinshenghuohuashanglejuhao，yeshiyouzhongyuandekenengxing。jinri，zuoweiyimingzimeitipingtaiqinggandashi，wojiangweinijiemilihunzhihouwanhuilaogongde5gehaoyongduice，rangwomendeganqingzhizhouzaiciyangfanyuanhang。

　　duiceyi：lizhisikao，zhaodaowentidegenyuan

　　liyibingbushiyishichongdong，fanershizhangqifenqijileixialaidejielun。yinci，xiangwanhuihunyinshenghuo，diyibujiushilizhisikao，zhaodaowentidebenzhi。

　　1. huiwanghunyinshenghuoguocheng

　　zhaoyigeanjingdeyewan，paodaoyibeixiangming，xixidihuiwangnimenzhijiandeganqingguocheng。congxiangshi、lianaijiehunlingzheng，meiyigejieduandouchongmantianmeihehuiyi。danshiyebuyaotaobizheixiezhengchaohefenqi，zhengshizheizhongbuyukuaiqinshenjingli，caishidedajiazoudaolejintianzheiyibu。

　　2. 思考问题缘故

　　nachuyizhangzhi，liejudajiahunyinlifashengdesuoyouwenti。shigoutongbudaowei?huoshishenghuofangshibuyiyang?yihuozheshijingjifazhanyalida?bubibuganmianduinanti，jinyouzhimianwenti，cainengjiejuewenti。

　　3. 自我反思

　　zailiejuwentizhihou，xiamiannengzuodejiushiziwofansi。wenziji，zaizheileiwentizhong，zijishibushiyiwu?shifouyoushiguoyuzisizili，meiyoukaolvbierendeganshou?shifouyoushiguoyubulizhi，daochuleshangxindehua?jinyouyishidaozijidebugou，cainenggenghaodequjiuzheng。

　　qishixiangzhuishangyigenvsheng，zhiyaohuixianliao，jiuhuiyoubachengjiyuzhuishangta。youyuchuduixiang，benzhijiushiyige“tan”zi，henvshengtanshenghuo，jiaoxin、tanweilai，zhixunigentatouyuan，caiyoufazhandekongjian。jiarunibianshizuibaben，xianliaogangtiezhinan，neijiulaiweixingongzhonghao--"beigongyuzenixiji"，gongxiangniyifen，dingjiandeliaotiansiweidaotu，shinibawoliaotianguanjianqiaomen，heshiyaofengqudian，heshiyaogaoqingshangdeliaotian，yucitongshirangniyitaodingjianxiaoshouhuashu，shinijiejuebutongdechangjingdeduihua，doukeyidexinyingshou，henjiandanjiunengjiangnvhailiaonadaoshou。

　　duiceer：baochilianluo，zhanxiangenggai

　　lihunzhihou，yuelaiyueduoderenxuanzeduanjueyiqielianluo，renweizheiyangcainengrangzishengengyouxiaodibaituotongku。danshijishang，baochishidangdelianluo，zhanshinidegenggai，caisuanshiwanjiuhunyindeguanjiansuozai。

　　1. 适当联络

　　buyaopinfandidajiaolingyifang，danshiyebuyaoxiaoshi。yekeyizailingyifangshengri、jierihuoshiyixieteshuderilitou，fayitiaoduanxinhuoshisongyifenxiaolipin，biaoshunidezhufuheguanai。

　　2. 展现更改

　　zaibaochilianluodeqiantixia，gengyingzhanxianzijidegenggai。jiaruniyiqianqingxubuwending，neiyangxianzaikaishiguanlihaoqingxu;jiaruniyiqianbudonglanman，neixianzaiyidingyaodongdezhizaolangman。rangbierenkanjiannidegenggai，kanjiannidechengxin。

　　3. zhongxinjianlijiaoliufangshi

　　ruguoyiqiandejiaoliufangshiyizhizaochengzhengchaohefenqi，neiyangxianzaikaishishizhezhongxinjianlijiaoliufangshi。keyikaolvjixin、faxinxihuoshishipintonghua，zhaodaoyizhongbijiaoshihenidejiaoliufangshi，rangshuangfangdeneixingengtiejin。

　　duicesan：jielishili，qiuzhu

　　youshi，dankaozijideliliangshiwufamibuhunyinshenghuode。cike，neijiuxuyaojielishili，xunqiuzhuanyedexiezhu。

　　1. 寻找心理辅导

　　xinlixuezixunshiyouzhuanyedeqingganzixunshi，tamennenggoubangzhunipouxihunyinzhongdewenti，jiyuyouxiaodejiejuefangan。genjuxinlifudao，nikeyigenghaodelejieziji，lejiezijijingshenxuqiu，congergenghaodiquwanjiuhunyin。

　　2. canyuhunyinxiufukechengneirong

　　zenmechenggongwanhuiposuidehunyinxianzaidaduoshuhunyinxiufukechengneirong，cileikechengyibanhuizhuanjiajiaoshouyixiegoutongdejiqiao、jiaowangjiqiaodengshiyongzhuanyezhishi。tongguojubancileikecheng，nikeyixuedaoruheyouxiaoheduifanggongchu，zenyangbimianchongtudechansheng，jinerjinidehunyinwanhuitigongqiangyoulideshiyong。

　　3. xunzhaoqinqipengyoudexiezhu

　　qinqipengyoujiushinizuijianqiangdehoudun，tamenguanzhunideguoquyuxianzai，yexinganqingyuanweiniweilaidefazhanxianjixiance。nenggouhetamenfenxiangzijidemimanghekunao，tingyitingtamendeyijianjianyi。huoxu，tadeyijuhuajiunengrangnihuorankailang，xunzhaowanjiuhunyindejihui。