13年婚姻怎么挽回感情

　　13nianhunyinzenmewanhuiganqingzaihunyinshenghuodetuzhong，fuqizhijiandegoutongjiaoliuyouruyitiaoqiaoliang，weixizhebicizhijiandeshenqinghouyi。danshidanghunyinshenghuodehuajuanzhongchuxianquexian，tebieshizaoyulaopolikaidehuimiexingshi，zheiyitiaoqiaolianghaoxiangjijikewei，jiangyaopolie。cishi，womenyinggaishenrufenxizenyangliyongshidangdegoutongjiqiao，laixiufuhunyinshenghuodeliefeng，zhonglianfuqizhijiandezhenqing，shihunyinshenghuozhiqiaoliangzhonghuilaogu。

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　　1.lingting：dongchataxinlihua

　　qingtingshigoutongjiaoliudeqishidian，zaiwanhuiqizideguochengdangzhongshishifenzhongyaode。tongchang，laopoxiangfenshouhuobiaoshibuman，bingfeiyinweiwentibenshenjiejuebule，fanershishiyinweitajuedeneixindexiangfabeihulve，qingxumeiyoudedaolejie。

　　zaifajuelaopodeqingxubianhuahuoduizijideqiangliebumanshi，yingjinliangbimianjiqiebianbohuotigongjianyi。tiaoxuanyigeanjing、shuxindechangsuo，hetaduizuo，yanshenjiaohui，yirouhedeyudiaodakailingtingzhixing：“qinaida，wofajuebicizhijianzuijincunzaiyixiemoca，wozhongxindexiwangtingyitingnideguandian，shenrulejieyixiazijineixindezhenshitiyan。”jiezhe，daijitachongfendeshijianlaiqingtu，qineibubiqieduan，jiusuantingjianyixierangrenbushuangdeyanyu，yidingyaobaochilizhiyuxixin。

　　biru，dangnidenvrenchuandachu“nizongjianggongzuofangzaidiyiwei，quanranbuguzheigejiating”debaoyuanshi，bufangxuehuifangxiajiqiebianbodexiangfa。xixinqingtingwanchenghou，yirenzhiherenkedeyudiaohuifu：“qinaida，wonenglijienideqingxu，nixiwangzijinengduohuaxieshijianpeizhenigenhaizi。yiwang，wodequeyouyugongzuoerhushilenideqingganyaoqiu，rangniganjuedaoguduhejuewang，zheigeshiwocuxindayidequyu。”

　　zheizhonglingtingyuhuifu，bujinzhanshilenizunzhongyulijie，gengchuandachuniyaoquanmianlejietadeneixinshijie、tiwutadeyaoqiuheqingganshangdexinxin。zheileishencengcidegoutongjiaoliu，tongchangkeyiyouxiaohuifuduifangdeqingxu，weijinyibudejiaoliuhewanliudaxiajianshijichu。

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　　2.chuandiqingxu：yichengzhidexinshushuoqingyiyuchengnuo

　　zaiqingtingwanqizidexinshenghou，womenxujinyibuyichunzhendeqingganlaibiaodazijideganshou、niantoujiqiduiganqingdejiandingbuyifuwuchengnuo。zheileibiaoshubingfeidanchundeqingxuxuanxie，ershiyaofangfadichuandachunideqingyi、guanzhujiqiwanjiuhunyindejiandingjuexin。

　　(一)共享你的情绪

　　13nianhunyinzenmewanhuiganqingzaijiaoliudeguochengzhong，dakaixinfeidigongxiangniyizhizaihunyinlidetihuiyouweizhongyao，tebieshibiaoshuniduitanonghouqingxu。xuanyong“wo”zuoweiweiyu，nenggoujianshaoduifangfangyuxinli，biru：“qinaida，tingjiannineixiehua，woshenganbeitong。woshenzhizijizaixuduofangmiandouzuodebugouhao，wufajiyunichongzudeguanaiyuzhichi。danshi，woduinideaiyishizhenchengde，zheigejiatingduiwoeryanyiyishenyuan。”

　　(二)称赞与肯定

　　hunyinli，womenchangchanghulvelebicizhijiandechengzanyukending。zaiyuyanshi，quanmianditanjilaopodeyoushiyijitaweijiarendewusifengxian，biru：“niyizhidoufeichangzixi，jialidedaxiaoshiwuguanlidouchulituotuodangdang。zainidejingxinzhaoliaoxia，wodehaiziyebiandetinghuadongshi。niweilezheigejiasuozuodeyiqie，wokanzaiyanli，ganxieyuxin。”

　　(san)jiandingbuyifuwuchengnuoyujihua

　　danyideqingganbiaoxianbingbuzuyi，haiyaoranglaopokanjianniwanjiuhunyindejiandingjuexinhejutijihua。yekeyishuo：“qinaida，wohenqingchubicizhijiancunzaizhuduonanti，kewoxiangyaoxieshoubingjianheniyiqimiandui。woyijianlileyixiefangan，lirumeixingqianpaiyicizhuanshuyouhuisuiyue，meitianwanshangjiaoyuhaizixiewanzuoye，libaitianyongyuchengdanjiawuhuo。woxiangxin，tongguowomengongtongfendou，yidingnenggouzhonglianwangrixingfu。”