怎么去挽回破碎的婚姻

　　zenmequwanhuiposuidehunyindanglaogongchuguishi，laopokenengmianlinjudadetongchuhedanyou。danshi，yaowanjiuhunyindeposunbingfujianjiatinghemushikenengde。zuixian，laopobixupingjingxialai，binghezhangfutanchengdigoutongjiaoliu。zheijiuyiweizhexianghuzhijianlingtingbierendeganshouheyijian，bianyulejiewentidebenzhi。

　　cizhi，weilenengzhongjianxinrenhehuifusunhaiguanlian，fuqizhijianyinggaixunqiuzhuanyexiezhuhuohunyinfudao。zhuanyerenyuannenggoutigongzhidaohezhichi，zaifuqizhijiandajianqigoutongdeqiaoliang，bingzhuanjiajiaoshouhelijiejuemaodunjiqiao。

　　chucizhiwai，laopoyeyingdangzhaodaozijideshineikongjianheaihao，bingyuhaoyou、qinrengongxiangqingxu。zheimezuobudannenghuanjieyali，hainengcujinxiufubenrenzixinxinhezixinxin。

　　zuizhongdantongyangzhongyaodeshijiyushizhang。wanliuyiduanbeibeipanyiwangsuozaochengshanghaideguanlianxuyaoshijianlaiquanyubingzhongxingoujianxinlai。

　　zaifenxiyishangfangfahou，yidingyaojizhumeiyigejiatingquanshiyuzhongbutongde，laopobixujiehezishenqingkuanglaixuanzeshihezijidefangshi。fujianhunyinshenghuoyishixianjiatinghemuxuyaoshuangfanggongtongfendouhechengnuo。

　　1. quedingbingmianduikunnan

　　laogongchuguishihunyinlichangjiandexianxiang，danshiduiyulaopoeryan，wanjiuhunyindeposunbingfujianjiatinghemushikenengde。zuixian，laopoyingdangtanchengdiquedingbingmianduizheigewenti。taxuyaoyonggandequmianduizijideqingxuyuxinlizaochengdeshanghai，bingchengrenzheiyiqiefashengzaizijishenshang。

　　xiamian，laopoyingdanghezhangfukaizhankaifangfuzerendegoutongjiaoliu。zhuzhonggoutongjiaoliuyouweizhongyao，suoyizhiyoutongguoshenrugoutongjiaoliucainengzuodaozhenzhenglejieduifangxinlingshenchudeyaoqiuheqiwang。yucitongshi，zaizheiguochengzhongyaobaochilixinghelixing，tongshibimianzhengzhihuochize。

　　chukaigoutongjiaoliuwai，weilewanhuifuqiganqingpoliesuozaochengdeshanghaihouzhongxinlajinguanxi，shuangfangbixufuzhunuli。zhenduilaogonglaijiang，taxiangyaofanshengzijigerenxingweibeihouyinzangzheshenmeyangdeqingkuang，bingjijicaiqucuoshijiejuezheigewenti。yucitongshi，tayingdangxiangqizibiaoshukuijiu，bingzhanshidiaozhenghefazhan。

　　erzuoweiyigenvren，jiuxuyaojiyulaogongdiercijihui，bingxuehuiyuanliang。bingbuyiweizhegaobieguoqu，ershiyinggaihezhangfuyiqinulizhongxinjianlirentongheguishugan。yucitongshi，weilenengfujianjiatinghemu，laopohaikeyixunqiuzhuanyexiezhu，biruhunyinfudaohuoxinliliaofa。

　　zuizhongdantongyangzhongyaodeshi，fenshouwanhuihunyindeguochengzhongbaochijianyinaixin。xiubuyiduanshoushangzhijiandeguanxixuyaoyiduanshijian，erqiekenengyudaopingjingwenti。danshi，weiyoutongguobicigongtongfendouhexieshougongjincainengzhongxingoujianqijiatinghemu。

　　2. 寻求专业协助

　　laogongchuguilaopoyingdangjijixunzhaojishuzhuanyexiezhulaiwanjiuhunyindeliekai，fujianjiatinghemu。jishuzhuanyexiezhunenggoutigongyidingdezhidaohezhichi，xiezhufuqiliangrenzaicilajinguanxi、goutongyulejie。

　　zenmequwanhuiposuidehunyinzaixunqiuzhuanyebangzhushi，fufukeyikaolvxinlixuezixunshihuoshihunyinshenghuojiatingzhiliaoshi。tamenyongyouzhuanyezhishihejineng，dangmianduiqinggankunraoheguanxiwentideshihounenggoujiyugaoxiaodetiyiheyindao。

　　jijiyuxinlixuezixunshihuoshikangfushijinxingyiduiyihuoshifufugongtongcanyudeduihua，nengrangbiciqingtuxinlideshangtong、haipayubuan。zhuanyerenyuanjiangyindaoxueshengtanxunwentidegenyuan，tongshitigonggongjufangfalaigaibiangoutongjiaoliu、jiejuemaodunjiqitigaoxianghuxinren。

　　chucizhiwai，zhuanyerenyuanhainenggoujiaoyufufuzenyangguanliqingxubingfazhanziworenshi。zheileiziwotishengquanguochengcushimeiyigerendounenggenghaodelejiezijideyaoqiu、jiazhiguannianyijiweishenmerongyixianruwaiyudengxingweishang。zheiyouliyufuqiliangrengengjiashenrulejiebicizhijian，ranhouzhaodaojiejuewentidebanfa。

　　jishuzhuanyexiezhuhaikeyitigongyizhonganquandehuanjing，rangfufukeyiyichengxiangdai、lingtinglingyifangbingbiaodaxinlizhenshitiyan。zaizhiliaoguochengzhong，tajiangxuexizenmechuangjianjiankangdeshenghuoyuyangoutongjiqiaoheyouxiaodechongtujiejuefangfa，yibimianleisinantizaicichuxian。

　　zuizhuyaodeshi，xunqiuzhuanyexiezhuzhanxianlelaopoduihunyinxiufuhejiatinghemufujianchengnuo。buguanwaiyuyuanguzenyangfanza，zaizhuanyerenyuanzhidaoxiajinxingyizhinengzengjiawanliuchenggongdegailv，bingqieweifufuzaicigoujianqilaoguerxingfuzhijiandeguanxidiandingjichu。