老是怀疑老婆有外遇怎么办，老公怎么办

laoshihuaiyilaopoyouwaiyuzenmeban？shanghaihunyinwaiyudiaochazenmezuo？dangyiduankanqilaixiangxidehunyinshenghuoquezaoshoulepanbian，nanshenglejieqizichuguihoutongchangquanshihuiyibulizhichuli。nihenyoukenenghuiduixifuershifangjiatinglengbaoli、duifudisanzhe、duilaopoxuanxienidexintaideng。nvrenwaiyudiaocha，laogongzenmezuo？

zheizhongdoushihuiwubuyushi，fandaojiasuhunyinshenghuodeshenwang，yinci ganwanyaoqiejibiebeinaonucaozongleniziji，nixuyaoxuehaoyonglizhilaiwuzhuangnidequanbuxintai。jiarunizaoyiganlehenduobuzhengquedewanhuiganqingfangfa，neimaxialiebianshinanshenglejieqizichuguihoudeqiadangwanliufangfa。

一、剖析外遇缘故

shanghaihunyinwaiyudiaochazenmezuo？chuguinvrenhenanshengbuyiyangdeshi，nanshengyiban shiyinbulizhiwaiyu，ernvrenshiyinqingwaiyu。nanshenglejieqizichuguihoulijingleyifanlizhi，jiuyingdangyaopouxiqizichuguideyuangu，biebulizhiba“liyi”shuochurukou。nvxingchuguidewudayuangu：yi、shouyingshizhizuodengzhuzuoweihaixiaiyuzishenganqingkaizhanbizhao。er、wangshangpingtaijilenvshidifengxianxingdewaiyubiaozhun。san、duiairenxinhan。si、duifuxinlizhuangtai。wu、duijianglaiwuzixinxin。duiyubuyiyangzhuangkuangzhaoxunbuyiyangdeyingduicuoshicaikeyiwanjiuhunyin。

二、外在提高

nvrenwaiyudiaocha，laogongzenmezuo？pouxiwanwaiyudeyuanguyihou，nirenweimeiyoubixuzuowaizaitigao，keshijinizheiyiniantoujutishiduizishenguzhijijian。erweihenijuedezishenzaoyihenchusele，quemeixiyinzhudaolingyifangdemuguang?jiarujiehunhoulaopochuguilezhengshitadeshiyongjiazhiyizhishizaitigaodeqingkuang，jiarudajiazhongjiandeshiyongjiazhimeiyouzuodaoyigejunhengdianshang，waibiandeyinyoufeichangrongyizaochengwaiyu。yinci waizaitigaoshihenbixude，waizaitigaonenggoushichuanyifupinwei、touxing、xingzhuangdeng，jiaruhuanshidabushangyuqimubiao，nenggouzhaozhuanyerenyuanjutizhidao。

三、满足需求

lijingleyifanwaizaitigaoyihou，nizaoyinengxiyinzhudaoxifuerdezhuanzhulile，keshinidebenzhidouhaimeiyiqiegenggai，zhixudajiayigoutongjiaoliu，lingyifangjiunenglejienihuanshiyichengbubian。nvrenyaoxiangdewupinfeichangjiandan，jinguantamenyizhiyuqiubuman，keshitazishizhizhongzhuiqiuwanmeiyiyangwupinbianshininengkaolvtadexinlixuqiu。nishibushiyouyugongzuozhongtaimanghushileta;jiejuepoxizhijiandeqingkuangxiayizhibulizaitadeshenbian;tazuixiangyaonideqingkuangxia，niquemeiyoushenpangdeng。ziwofansizheizhongnantiyihousuihoutuoshanchuli，bierangtazhaotarenlaikaolvtadeyaoqiu。

laoshihuaiyilaopoyouwaiyuzenmeban？ziranzhishangjinjinjiuniuyimaobale，zuihaoshidefangshihuanshiyaohaohaodigoutongjiaoliuyixia，“wanliubianshiyijianshashi?bianshibuduandizaizuoduideshiqingdeshi，zheijiujiaowanliu;jiarunibuduandizaifancuowu，neinijiuzaihuihuainidewanliu。”nanshenglejieqizichuguihoujiubatazuoweishihunyinshenghuozhongdeyiduanhuiyi，yongxindepianzhanggaibianyiwang，juebuhouhui。