结婚后异地男人外遇可以，为什么女人却不行？

yidilianwaiyushisuoyoulianqingdewaiyujilvdema?weishenmeyidiwaiyuneimerongyifashengni?yidilianwaiyuzhendemeibanfawanhuima?yidinanrenwaiyudejilvyouduodani?yidinanrenwaiyushibushifeichangpubian?hehuazhenxiaobianyiqilejieyixiaba。

一、异地外遇

xuduorendoushuo，yidilianshihenxinkude，hennanzoudaozuihoude，raner，xianzaibianchengyidilianwaiyushijilvhengaodeyigele。yidilian，jiujingliwaiyubeipanyouduoyuanni?

shuoqiyidilian，zheigenbenjiushiyigechencilandiaodelunti，haowuxinxiangan。

zuidianxingdebifangjiushiniulangzhinvqixiqueqiaoxianghui，yinianjianyici，yezhenshigounvede。

yourenkaiwanxiaoshuo，yinianjianyicideniulangzhinv，chengguokenengniulanggenniuhaoshangle，zhinvyezaoaishangtarenle。

zheihuayouyidianguohuo。dangran，zheidanyedaibiaoledangxiadeaiqingguan。

jiunawozijideqinshenjinglijuliba。

jinguanwohenchenzhe，bukanhaoyidiliande。keshi，wozhiqiandeliangduanaiqing，doushiyidilian。

dangnixiaiyigeren，kenengjiuzhendegubushangshibushiyidile。youganjuehenzhongyao。

meicidoutongzhiziji，xianzaijiaotongzheimexingwang，tongxunjiaoliuzheimexingwang，suishisuididoukeyidadianhuafaweixinnaizhiyuyinhuoxushipin，jinguanbuzaishenbian，danyehaoxiangzaishenbian。

yikaiduan，juedeyidibushiwenti，keshidaohoulai，faxianzhendeyouwenti。

neijiushimeicizijitebiecuiruodeshifen，bifanglaidayimatebienanguodeshifen，bifangganshibutaishunchangdeshifen，zheishifenyigewennuandeyongbaokenengjiuchulisuoyou。

keshi，pianpian，gezhelianggechengshi，zheixiedoushikeqiu。

jianjiandi，congyikaiduandeqingyimianmian，daozuihoudenixianzaibuzaineijinhoudoububixuzaile。

yidilian，zaireqingtuibizhihou，shengxiadejinjinpibeihewufa。

zuihou，wodeliangduanyidilian，tongtongyishibaigaozhong。yiciyouyuduifangyueguibianjie，yicishiyouyuwoleileaibudongle。

suoyi，houlai，xiqujingyanjiaoxundewo，zhiyaoshiyidi，jianjuebudongxinbukaolv，jiusuandongxinleyekezhizhu，tongzhizijibuxianshi。

taiduodeyidiaiqinglv，xinchoumeiduoshao，xiaoxindicunhaolufei，meicipengtoujiugenyuepaoside，ranhouganmanggezihuiqushangbanrizi，ranhoucunlufeixiayicipengtou，cangculaicangcuqu。

jiuerjiuzhi，nanyiweiji。

queshi，diyuzugebidingdaozhishengzhizuge，shengzhizugebidingdaozhixinlingzuge。

二、异地男人外遇

jiehunhouyidinanrenwaiyukeyi，weishenmenvrenquebuxingni?huaxinlaogongdaduobujieshouqizixiangtayiyangchuguierbeibeipandeqizihenshaoyiyahaiyashiweishenme?

zaidaodelunliquntiboyizhong，nanxingshizanshihuoshengde。

nanrenmenweiletuixingshuangzhongbiaozhundexingdaodebiaozhun，liyongnanquanjingunvxingsixiang，rangnvxingjieshou“yixingweichi”dexingguannian。

zheijiurangxiangdangdabufendenvxingchanshengleyi“wuxingyaoqiu”weirongdeguannian，congerqufuyunanrenduinvxingdezhencaoyaoqiu。

tongshi，youyunvxingzaixingxingweizhongyihuaiyun，erduotaiduinvxingshentishanghaitaida，suoyifumuduinvxingdejiaoyudoushiyi“jinyu”weizhude。zheijishiweilenverjianglaidehunyinkaolv，yeshiweilebaohunverdeshentidejiankang，wukehoufei。

yucixiangfan，nanrencongxiaodaoda，zaixingfangmianshoudaodeshufujiaoyufeichangshao;ernanxingyidanchengnianhou，zaizheifangmianshoudaotongxingdejiaosuo、songyongfeichangduo。henduochunqingxiaonansheng，zoushangshehuimeijinianjiuchengweilaoyoutiao。

quntiboyidejieguoshi：nanxingdexingguannianpubiankaifang，nvxingdexingguannianpubianbaoshou。

 shuojushihua，zaishehuishang，nvxingshoudaodeyouhuoyuanyuangaoyunanxing，danshinvxingchuguilvyuanyuandiyunanxing(henduonanrenchuguiduixiangdaduoshiweihun、liyinvxinghuo，yihunfunvxiangduijiaoshao)。

nvxingpengyoububiyiciweiao。henyihan，zheizhongdaodeyouyuegancongboyidejiaodukan，qishishiquntixingshibaidebiaozhi。bieshuole，shuoduoledoushilei。