你追求完美累吗

 shenghuozhongwomenjingchanghuikandaozheiyangyizhongleixingderen。tamenkanqilaihenqiangda，zhiyizhuiqiuwanmei。zuoshideshihou，zhuiqiuwanmei，huijiejinquanlidebasuoyoudeshiqingdouzuohao；yurenjiaowangshi，huiwanmeizhuiqiujisuoyourendouliuxiahaoyinxiang，bujibierenliuxiatiaomaobinghezhizedeyudi，burangbierenxianqiziji。woxiangwentamenzhuiqiuwanmeileima？

一、追求完美的坏处

 ruguodanchuncongzuoshidejiaodulaikandeshuo，xiangyaowanmeiderenwuyishilingrenxianmude。tamenzongshinengbashiqingzuodehenhao，neipahenxiaodexijieyehuihenyongxindechuli，jinshanjinmei。zhuiqiudewanmeishiwomensuojingpeide。putongrenwangwanghuihenxianmutamendezhizhehechengjiu，danshiruguowomenhuanyigejiaodu，lejieyixiawanmeizhuiqiuzhedeneixinganshoudehua，jiuhuifaxianlingwaiyixieqingkuang。

1、changchangyalihenda，zongshigandaojiaolv。

 yifangmiantamenzongshijizijitichuhengaodeyaoqiu，erlingyifangmian，yaoshixianzheiyidianbingbushiyijianrongyideshi，youqishizaikeguantiaojiankanqilaihaibuyunxudeqingkuangxia，bashiqingzuodaozijiqiwangdeyangzi，yaokefuhenduokunnan，tongshiyeyaomianduishibaidefengxian。

 zheiyangdeyizhongchongtuhemaodun，daozhitamenjingchanghuigandaojinzhangbuan，yalizhongzhong。xiangbijiaoyuneixiezhizuchangle，rongyimanzuderen，tamensuiranzaizuoshinenglihechengjiushangjuyougengdadeyoushi，danshizaiganshoushang，fanergengshaodegandaokuailehexingfu。

2、zhikandaozijidequedian，kanbudaozijideyoudian

 wentidaoxiangyumubiaodaoxiangshirendeliangzhongsiweidaoxiang。congwentichufaderenhecongmubiaochufaderen，zuoshisuocaiyongdebanfa、xingweiyijijieguoshibutongde。

 zhuiqiuwanmeiderenxiguankandaowenti，bunenggoujieshouwentidecunzai。jiuxiangyimingjiduanwanmeizhuyizhecengshuoguode：renyehao，shiqingyehao，yidanyouxiacile，neihaiyoushenmejiazhini？jiarurenshengkeyizhonglaidehua，wodouhenbudezhongxinhuoyibian。

3、guoyuzhuiqiuwanmeinihuixinlei

 youshihoutaiguoyuzhuiqiuwanmei，yigerenhuibiandehenlei。yinweizheigeshijiedesuoyoushiqingmeiyouwanmei。nizhuiqiudewanmeitaijiduan，fanershenmeshiqingyezuobuhao，huozhedaoshishenmeshiqingyemeiyouzuodao。yigerenbuyaotaiguoyuzhuiqiuwanmei，zhujianshiqingquzuohao，duidezhuzijidexin，woxiangxinnihuibiandepinghe，yiqiehaiyougenghaodefazhan。xinjiyongyuanchibuleredoufu，ruguonikaishibiandejizaole，bufangxiangxiangzijiruhekeyipingjingxiaxialai。

二、接受生活的不完美

 wanmeizhuyizhedehexintezhishihuibiwenti，haipafancuo。zheikenengshilaiyuanyutamenyouniandeyixiebuhaodetiyan，fancuojiuhuishoudaopipingshenzhichengfadengdeng。danshi，yaozhidao，shenghuodejiazhijiushizaiwushugewentihehunluanzhongchuangzaochuyixieyoujiazhidedongxilai。

 wentibushishibai，ershishenghuodechangtai，yaoxuehuidaizhewentishenghuo。ruguowomennengzheiyangkanwenti，wentijiubuzaishikongju，ershicushiwomenbiandegengyouxiudedonglile。