如何和高冷的傲娇女生聊天？

 zaidajiahenvshigoutongjiaoliudequanguochengzhong，jingchanghuiyudaoneiyangdezhuangkuang。aojiaonvshizenyangde？lingyifangyunixianliaohuoshihudongjiaoliudeqingkuangxia。rangnidehuifushifendelengmo。 nandouqiongnvdoujianma？

他们让你的觉得是怎样的高冷，是一种拒人于千里之外的觉得。

 zaiqianxienianyinweiwopengdaoneiyangdezhuangkuang，daoshangkandaolehaokandepiaoliangxiaojiejiexiangyaoqudahua，keshijiandaotamengaolengdebiaomianxinlihendanxin。danxintahuihuijuewodedahua，huoshitabubangwohuifuwoshibushihuinankan，wodehuobanhuiruhekanwo，guolurenshifouhuiganjuewoshigesha*。tamengaolengdexiangzuobingchuanbanyaowomeifaaijintamen，keshishijishangtongchangzheixiegaolengdenvshengquanshipinzhijiaoweigaodemeizhi

 aojiaonvshizenyangde？keshizheimeduonianwogengjiafajue，shijishangbingmeiyouyigecongtouzhiwei，yizhiaojiao、gaolengdenvsheng。yigedoumeiyou。（shijishangninengfajuezheizhonggaolengdenvshengshijishangshiyikaishihenimeilejie，zhixuliaokaiguo，yixiaziganjuetashidoub） nandouqiongnvdoujianma？

 yincizaizhaotaliaotiankaichangqian，nizaoyichebingle，bushima？nizaoyimorenshezhile，tahuihuijueni。nizijiyouchengbuzhutadehuijue。

因此，你害怕。

 niyaozhaoyigewanwuyishidekaichangci，hetaquxianliao。niduozaizheiyiwanwuyishidekaichangcihexianliaoqiaomenshenhou，jiukeyihenanquanxingle。

yincishifouyouxiexiangnuofu！wase，kanchuqumeiyou。

tadegaoleng，yeyoutiaoxuandiaonuofudezuoyong。

nijiushibeitashaichudeneiyigenuofu。niwuchulemeiyou？

neimasheicaiburongyibeishaichuni？

neibianshibuhaipatagaolengbiaomiandenanhaizi，rengranyongyuwangqianzhaotaxiaozheshuo，“ninhao”deneiyigenanhaizi。

ziranjiarujinjindiyijude“ninhao”，takendinghuoshilianyireduini。

keshininengpama？ninengdanyouma？ninengjiaolvbuanma？taxukande，bianshizheizhong。

 bingbushishijinishuodehuadeneirong，zhishiqujueyunizenmeshuode，nidexiaobiaoqing，nideqiangoutongjiaoliu，shifouyou“gaozhi”taniyizhizaishouzuwucuo。

 jiaruninengfeichanghaodejiejuezheizhong，meiyouzaiqiangoutongjiaoliuzhong“gaozhi”tanihenzaihutaduiniguandian，zaihuniyizhizaitaxinlidezhuyaobiaoxian，neimayike，bianhuibuhuizaiduinigaoleng。

不管她是归属于第一种，或是第二种，全是那样。

 diyizhongdemeiyouanquangandegaoleng：nilejietadegaolengshilaizimeiyouanquangan，pafushang，yincinikendingbuhuiweijutadegaoleng，ninaizhishixintongtade。nidejianchibuxie，duitaeryan，bianshiguishugan。nifajueletademingan，danrengranjienata。

 dierzhongdeqingchusaoraodegaoleng：nikantouletadegaolengshibudeyierweizhi，nilejienibushitayaoqingchudemubiao，niyelejietadegaolengbingbushizhenduinide，yinciniyeburongyipa，gengburongyijiaolvbuanhexieqi。

 yinciwohaizaiduinishuoshijidejiqiaoqian，wogengbixutiyixiazishenxinlidejibenjianshe。niyegengbixuzhangwoniziji。jiqiaoshigudingbudongde，fandaoyingyongzheizhongjiqiaodeyouxiurencaishizhongyao。jiurutongwozheiliyouyigezhuandaqiandexinxiangmu，woyaogaosunidiyibuneimezuo，dierbuneimezuo，daozuizhongniyejiunengfacaizhifu，zoushangrenshengdianfengcihoutaruchenggongzhilu。keshishijishangnibutaikenenghuipengdaoneiyangdefenpei。erzheixieshuobailedejiqiaojinjinzainirenshengdaoluzhongtedaguanlijuecezhizhong，qizheyigezhulidegongxiao。erzhenzhenzhengzhengqizhejuecegongxiaojiushiniderenshengdaolujingyan，yanjie，hedanliang。zheizhongquanshijiqiaobukeyishouyude。yiyangdetanlianaiyeshineimeyihuishier。

相比优先选择寻找技巧，更应当磨练本身的品性，打造出硬实力。

 aojiaonvshizenyangde？haola，jianglezheimeduo，haoxiangyeyourendaozhao。jiujingnaxiecaisuanshihegaolengnvhaihuihuadequannengkaichangci。shijishangwoyijingjianglehendongle，yingduizheigewentinixuyaotishengbenshenyingshilidejibenjianshe，neishihounijuehuifajuerujinzheizhongnantidoubingbushinanti。