有人说：男抖穷女抖贱，真的假的？

 minsuyouyizhongjiaofa，juede”nandouqiongnvdoujian”，shuyaoyepiaoling，rendoufubo。doujiaojibenshangbianchengleyigebianci，naizhibeishizuoquefajiaoyang、yingxianglibugaodedaibiao。aojiaonvshizenyangde？

shijishang，zheiyijiaofashiguoduochanshixiadejieguo。

xiabianrangwomenyiqilailejieyixia，weihedajiazongshihuibuyouzizhudexiangdoutui？

一、抖脚是一种肢体语言

 zenmehuidoujiao?doujiaoshizhitiyuyandeyizhongfanying。dangyigerenzainiyanqiandoujiaodeqingkuangxia，taxiangyaozuode，huoxuzhishishifangfanyishibale。

 buzhidaopengyoumenshibushinishifouhaijidefanpaopaociren。zai2008nian512dadizhenchanshengshi，yijingketangjiaoxueshoukedefanmeizhongrengxiaxueyuan，bajiaoertao，congerguaqileyifanyouguanshideshifengdelunzhan。zheirenqiahaoshifanpaopao。zhihou，fanpaopaocanjialefenghuangdianshitaijuxingde”yihuyixitan”zongyijiemu，jiu”taozoumen”shiqingkaizhanbiaoming。dangtabeiguosongminzhiyideqingkuangxia，cengyidudoujiao。aojiaonvshizenyangde？

 tashiyizhongjianruodeyingjifanyingtiaojianciji。zheileifanshemianzairenmendexinshengerqicengchengzhiweimoluofanshe，jijingtiaofanshe，qixinlizhuangtaijibenshiyizhongzishenfangfanyishi。

 liru：ruguonizaiyewananquanjiashishi，huranyouxierenjingdihuokaiyuanguang，nidebennengfanyingxianxiangkenengshiquanshenshangxiayileng，huoshimengdedouyixia，zheiyizishi，jiushinidejingtiaofanshe，

tabiaoluleniweixiaodebenzhixiaobiaoqing：niyizhizaidanxin，niyaoxiangbaohuziji。aojiaonvshizenyangde？

二、抖脚能够克服紧张、焦虑情绪感

 doujiaozenmeyang?dangxinlizhuangtaizhangqixingchuzaijiaolvbuan、jiaolvqingxudeqingkuangxiashi，renduizheileiqingkuangderongrujiuhuicunyou”nanshou”dejuede，zheishijiuhuizuochumouleifanying，erqiegenjushentiyuyanlaibiaoxianchulai。

 xinlixuezhuanjiaduirenhuidexinshenguanlianzuolediaoyan，shujuxianshi，ruoshichixujiyurentidemouyiyibufenyixiaoxiaocijixing，jiunenggenjushenjingzhongshulaicijixingnao，shijiaolvbuandeshenjingxitonghuodefangsong。

 nandouqiongnvdoujian？renfeilaoshu，yifeishizhong，meifawozikuiranbudong。dajiazaizuoxialaidulisikaoshi，jingshenshizhitongchangjizhongjingli，quanbudeshenjingxitongdoubengdelaolaodide，jiarushentizaibufangsong，jiufeichangrongyijiajujingshenshizhishangdepijuan。doujiaoshizaiqizhongdeyizhongfangfa。genjuliangtuibuduanshangxiahuangdong、zuoyouzhandong，jiunengzaichixugenggaizuozi、fangsongshentidejibenshangtuidongxueyexunhuanxitong，jinerhuanjiejiaolvbuandeqingxu。

 jiarunizhuyizhoubianbieren，yexuninengfajue，budoujiaodehenyoukenengxiaizhuanbi，buzhuanbidehenyoukenengxiaimoxiufa，bumoxiufadehenyoukenengxiaicuoshou……qiahaoshizheizhongbuyouzizhudezishi，rangjingshenshizhihuodelefangsong，huanjieledajiabengjindeshenjingxitong。

三、男抖穷，女抖贱?

 gudai，tongqingdalidemingmenwangzuzixiaobianhuichuanshoujixiaohaigezhonggeyanglishu，zaiqizhongbianbaohanwudoujiaoyixiang。zaicanzhuoshangdoujiao，youqishidanggaoguigukedemianer，neijiushijimeilimaode。

 erdaduoshushijingrenjiaqueburongyiyouzhongduolishudeguanshu，yinci，doujiaosuizhezhegezhonggeyangzanghuajihaoshuangdejudong，zaiqiongkurenjiashidaixiangchuanlechulai。dajiayoujieguotuisuan，congerdedaole”nandouqiong”dejiaofa。

 er”nvdoujian”shiyouyunvxingdoujiao，tongchangchuizhezhexie，wailuzhezubu。erzaigudianfenggeyouhuazhong，changjiannvrenchijiaolaianshi，youyuzubushenjingxitongshujuxinhaozaitoubudeyijianfankuiqugenbiedexingganmirendiquxiangjinlin。nvxingdoujiaohebiaomingjiao，beikanzuozaizaiqianyishizhongxiashifangchulaixinganyu。tangruotamenzaibuyinggaidoujiaodechangsuodoujiao，zebiaomingweirenzhengzhibutaiyizhi，yegengfeichangrongyiqucongchongdong。

 keshi，shuodaodi，”nandouqiong、nvdoujian”neiyangdejiaofabingwuyiqiedekexuelunzheng，tajinjinzaimouzhongyiyishangshuncongledajiadui”xiuyang”erziderenzhinengli，shizaiteshudeshehuiwenhuaxiabeiguoduochanshidejieguo。

 shijishang，shirendoushihuidoujiao。eryouderenzhidaoneiyangdegerenxingweihuizaochengzhoubianderennanshou，yinciyikaishidoujiaoshibianyoumudediyizhichulaile。

四、喜爱抖脚的人大多数自私自利?

 doujiaodaibiaoshenmeyisi?nifuzaizhuozizuozuoye。huranyizhenqingdudeqifu，canzhuoyiqitedelvdonghuangdongqilai。nizhuantouyikan，neiyigegaisidejiahuo，youzaidoujiao!

 taruheneiyangzisizili!niananfufei。congnidejiaodukanlai，taweihaidaoni。zheizaiyidingshuipingshangbiaomingtabukeyifeichanghaodilijie、zhaoliaodaotaren。nideqianzeshijiuzaide。

 keshi，qinaidedepengyou，xianbiezhejizhexiaguandian，xiangyixiangrendekebanxiaoyingba!nizennengyouyigegerenxingweijiujianyidituicetaquanburenquanshizisizilide?yexutazhengxinshenbuan，weiyixieyalisuofannaoni;yexutashiyigehaofangpaiderenwu，youyixieaizengfenming;yexutaqiaoqiaodilianmuzheni，weicilaixiyinzhunidezhuanzhuli;yexua，tajinjinzuodehenjiule，youyixiewuqubale……

五、抖腿许是喝多了

 doutui、doushouyehenyoukenengyuyinjiuxiangguan。heduole，sunganshibidingdedajiadouzhidaodeshiqing，ganfeng，shoushadejiuhuiqingbuzijindidongqilai。zheiyi，bieshuo，changyinjiudecunlirendouzhidao，fanzhuodouderenyeshiduoyixie。danshi，tangruodajiadouhezuijiu，xujiukanbuchulaibierendoule，youyuzishenyedouma，zongyouyigepinlvtongyangdeqingkuangxia。

六、抖腿或能减肥瘦身

judangdaideyixiezhuanjiajianyi，doutuiyebushiyiwushichu。

 yilai，tangruonenggouzhangzuomeidong，huizaochengxueqibuchang，shijirouwuli，yanzhanxingjianshao，tuibusuanteng，daijuankunfa，zhongzehaihuijixuweihaidaoxueyexunhuanxitong。zheishi，shidudoudoutuinenggoutuidongjingmaixueguanxueyeliudongxing，rangxueyeliuhuijiasu，suanzhangganhepibeiganyejiudedaojianqing。

 erlai，doutuihainenggoudianranjiaoburentizhifang，jubeijianfeidegongxiao。juyouguanwangminshuo，xiguanxingdoutuidefulaoxiangqindetuidoujiaoweishou。

 sanlai，duilaonianreneryan，zhangzuohaihenyoukenengyinqituibuxiazhijingmaixueshuan，dangmengyizhanqishi，jingmaixueshuanhenyoukenengdiaoxialai，suijingmaixueguanliuhuidaoxinxueguan，zaididafeizang，zaochengzhimingxingde“feidongmaishuansai”。yiner，changchangdoudoutui，duifangzhidusaiyeshiyoufeichanghaodeshijixiaoguo。

 nandouqiongnvdoujian？zaipingchangdeqingkuangxia，womenyaoxianggaijindatuigenbudezheileibingzheng，jiwodeshentichanshenghenhaodexiezhudehua，yidingyaolijidezhangwozheileibingzhengdelaiyuanyu，duiwodeshentichanshenghenhaodeweihucaisuanshizuizhongyaode，lijideyizhaokaopudefangfalaizuo，shiwomendexingminggengweideshenxinjiankanghezhangqi，jiwomenderichangshenghuochanshenghenhaodeshenxinjiankangdeqingkuang，caisuanshizuizhongyaodeyizhongfangfa。