古人说的“男抖穷女抖贱”有依据吗？为什么？

 zairichangshenghuozhong，dajiagongzuozhongxuexizhiyu，zaisuonanmianfashengdoutuizheiyizishi。nandouqiongnvdoujianma？zaidajialaikan，doutuizaoyizaiyiqiezhengchangdanshile。aojiaonvshizenyangde？

 keshiniqingchuma，zaigudai，doutuidanshiyijianbeirenjuedeshifenkechideshier，naizhiyou“nandouqiongnvdoujian”dejiaofa，zheishiweishenmeni？zaigudaidougetuidoubuxingma？

 laiyuanyu：shishishangtamendeyuanjushi：rendouqiong，shudousi，nandouqiong，nvdoujian。neiweihezaigudairenyanli，dougetuijiaofazheimeduoni！zaigudai，dajiatongchangzhuzhonglishu，wulunshiqindaihuoshidaomingdai，lishuzaidajiarichangshenghuotebieshizaiguanjian，jiulianxingzoudouxuyaoyoujiaofa。aojiaonvshizenyangde？

 zaigudai，lianggerenxiangyuyaozuo“zuoyi”lihuoshi“baoquan”lishu，gukelinxingyaozuojugongliyi，ergushihouzuikaishizuolishushoukedezhimingrenshijiushimengzi。zai《hanshiwaichuan》yishuzhongjishu：mengziqidujushenghuo，ju，mengziruhukoushizhi，xiangqimuyue：fubuzun，qingquzhi。aojiaonvshizenyangde？

 hanyibianshi，mengziyouyicihuidaojia，jiandaolaoposhenzhiliangtuizuoxialaidoutui，bianshuotazitaibuya，xiangbataxiule，zuizhongbeiqimamaganyuzhihou，caimeiyouxiu。zaimengzilaikan，doutuishishifenbuyaguande，genghekuangzhenduinvxingeryan，doutuigengjiabuyaguan，yincizheileidoutuibuyaguandejiaofacongerchuanchu。

 《shiji》yishuzhongjishu，lishidangchuqutoukaohangaozuliubang，hangaozuliubangyibianpaojiaoyibianzhaoke，bingqieyoudoutuixingwei，zheilishijiuduihangaozuliubangshuo：ninjiaruhaoxiangdadaoqindai，yebuyingdangyongzheileizishiyinglaiwo。hangaozuliubangtingle，xiukuibuyi，gankuaigailezishendoutuidechouwenti。

他们的含意

什么是：人抖穷

 gurenjuede，xiaidoutuiderenmeishenmeqiantu，fabushangcai。gurenzhuzhongzhanyouzhanxiang，zuoyouzuoxiang，jiarurenlianjibenshangdeliyizhishidouzuobudao，weishenmehuiyouweiguoweimindepoli，yishenzhengqiyiyangdeqichangni？

 zaizhongguolaoyibeideyishili，doutuijiuyiweizhezheigerenwanshibugong，meigezhengerbajing，bingqiedangjiedaikerendeqingkuangxiahaidoutui，bianshiduigukedebuzhongshi，ruguoshiyicixiezuodejiyu，yigedoutuidedongzuo，henyoukenenghuicuoguojihui。

什么是：树抖死

 tamenshishishangshigurenyongyuanshizherendoutuideyuyi，shuobaileshudousijiushi，jiaruyikedashuyizhihuanghuangyouyoude，biaomingzheishukanqilaibulaogu，bingqiejishibuwen，quefayingyangwuzhi。

 changchangzaifengyuzhongbaidongdeshumuzhongjiuhuikuweihuoshibeidafengchuidao。zhenzhenzhengzhengdezuiqiangzhe，shijishihenshun，renyouyudafengchuidouburongyidaodi。yinerzaigudai，miaohuiqingsongdeshijuzhuduo，zaigudaiwenrenmokelaikan，nanrenshumuyiyangjianqiangshibeibierensuoqinglaide。

什么是：男抖穷

 zaigudaidezhongyiyaoxuezhong，juedenanrenaidoutui，kenengshiyinweishenxudeyuanyin，yincikaolvzhouquan，banshimaocao，zaigurenyanzhong，nanshengdoutuitongchangshiqueshaozixin，xinshenbuandezhuyaobiaoxian，doutuidenanshengtongchangbeibierenzuoweiyishiwucheng，burongyiyounaxiezuoweideren。

zheiyangderentongchangmeiyoumubiao，zuoshiqingbuqianxin，yinerbeibierenchengzuoshi“nandouqiong”。

什么是：女抖贱

 zheierde“jian”bingbingbushidajiasuolejiedejian，zaigudaijianbeilejiewei“dijian”，shidiweibugao，ganweilunluoxiaobingdeyisi。yincibatamendaduoshubichengshiyihongyuannvzi，yongdoutuilailanke。yiner，nvxingdoutui，zeshishuoneiyangdenvxinghaoxiangyihongyuannvzi，shifenbuya。

 zaiminsujiazhongzhong，laogongshifenbuyuanjiandaozishendelaopodoutui，hemengziyiyang，jiarujiandaozishenjialinvzidoutui，qingzejiajiaolaoshi，zhongzexiuqi。

对女子的拘束

 zaigudai，doutuibeizuoweishinanxingzengjiajinvzidegongzuoyali，zaigudaifengjianshehuidenanquanshehuili，nanshengweilegenghaodiguanshunvzi，bazhuduoyishidouqiangjiayunvzidedeshenshang。yincinvzijiuyingdangwenrouxianhui，judongyazhi。shishishang，tashiduinvzidebuzhongshi。

 zheilei“nandouqiong，nvdoujian”dejiaofabingmeiyoukexuelunzheng，zaigudai，zixiaonianshudeqingkuangxia，jiulaoshidashouxinwenhuajiaoyu，nvzibukeyidoutuineiyangdejibenchangshi。yincizaigudaidehenduomeishuzuopinzhong，yeshiyougoulenvzidoutuidejiemian，tamenjingchangtuotuolalazhexie，wailujiaomian，zuozheyihongyuandamenkou，neiyangdenvzibeichengzuo“yiji”。

 gudai，nvzizaifuzhuangshangyeshiyoushifenguanjiandeyaoqiu，bukeyiwailujiaomian，bukeyiwailujingbudeng，yincidabufendenvziyibanquanshishifenqingjingde，yinianburongyishuoliangsanju，neileizixiaoguguaijinglinghaoxiangyigexiaohuoyiyangdenvsheng，jingchangbubeibierenkanzhong。

 nandouqiongnvdoujianma？qiahaoshiyouyuzheiban，“nvdoujian”rangdaliangdenvzizhujian“anshoubenfen”，weilegenghaoditarendexianyanxianyu，huoshiyaodangyigeyouya。shixianlibaicengxie：yunxiangyishanghuaxiangrong，chunfengfujianluhuanong。miaohuidebianshishifenxingfudenvziananwenwenchunfengtaidang。

 hongloumengzuozhezai《hongloumeng》yishuzhongxie：aibizhimaorongxi，xiangpeiyuzhuo，meibizhixintaixi，fengzhulongxiang。zaihongloumengzhongdajiajiandaodenvzidaduoshuquanshishifenqingjing，tongqingdalidezhuduo，zheiheminsuduinvzideyixielishushangdejushuyoufeichangdaguanlian。

当代人也抖腿

 keshizaidangdailaikan，doutuizaoyibianchengleyizhongpingridexiguanxing，bujinxiaohuodoutui，nvziyehuidoutui。doutuinenggouquebaozishendejiaobubusuan，chulizishendepijuanqingkuang，youshidajiashangbanshijianhenjiu，zaisuonanmianzaochengkunfasuankun，yincipingrilidoutuinenggouchulidajiazhangzuodesuantenggan，tuidongtuibuxueyexunhuanxitong。

 yeyourenshuo，doutuinenggoujianqingdajiadeyiyuqingxu，dangjinshehuifazhanli，shenghuodejiezouxunsu，dajiatongchangshenxianjiaolvzhuangtai，weilegenghaodijianqingzishenxinlizhuangtaizhongdan，xianxiazhiyujiukeyidoudoutuifangsongyixia，quebaozishenyouliangdeqingxu。

 nandouqiongnvdoujianma？youxierenshuo，doutuishiyizhongzhengzhuang，shishishangdoutuijinjindajiadeyizhongxiguanxingbale，jiulirudajiayouxierenzixiaoyiniaoyiyang，shiyinweiershideshenghuofangshidaozhide，yincixiaidoutuishiyouyuzixiaopeiyanglexiguanxing，zheileizishishiwuyijiande，lirukaixindeqingkuangxia，huoshirentishifangyalideqingkuangxiadoushihuidoutui。