相亲恋爱交友，尬聊怎样拯救难堪的气氛

有哪些 恋爱交友技巧 ?许多年青男人女人讨厌相亲约会由于担心难堪，和一个路人由于一个相互的目地去碰面原本就好尴尬，见面怎么说话做全都非常容易尬聊。但是来到一定年龄还单身男女着，相亲约会是必须去应对的一件事，那麼女孩相亲时，要怎样才能免不了难堪呢?

1、留意措辞

 juedabufencijuquanshiyouqingganyansede，95%derendoushiduicijuzaochenggudingbudongdexintaixianxiang，doushiduicijudebaoyihebianyiciyoujuyoudechengjian。jianyanzhijiushishuocijufengjianmixin，beicijutebieshizaishixiushicijushuzhule。younaxielianaijiaoyoujiqiao?lianaijiqiaoyounaxie?

 lirujianchibuxiezheileishi，duichenggongrenshilaijiangjiujiaoguzhi，duishibaiderenlaijiangjiushishuozhizhe。chenggongzhelvzhanlvbai，qingchangshiyiderenlvbailvzhan。wobenrenjuedeyuyanzhixushuleshiwubenzhidehenxiaoyibufen，meiyicijuquanshiyigecengmian，qishenhoudoukeyikaizhangengxinifanzaderongjieerqiutiejinzhenzheng。

 keshidixiong，rujinshizaitantaoruhezhuinvren。ziyue，nvrenshishifenlixingdexiaodongwu。yinerzaitoujihuitebieshizaishidiyicixiangchuzhong，shenzhongtiaoxuancuociyouweizhongyao。

 yurenxiangchuzhong，jinliangjingque、jianyue、qingchudibiaoshuzishendoushizhongbufandegongdi。geyiqianzaixiangqinyuehuizhongyouyutaiguoshifangyali，beibierenyipiangaiquandipanduanwei“dananrenzhuyi”he“taikailangbuchenwen”ercuoguoxiangyuan。xiangqinyuehuiruhefangzhinankan，zuixianhuanshiyaoliuyinideyuyanjiqiaoa。

2、不必焦虑不安

 nvhaixiangqindediyimeirirenwubingbushiqukankanzheiyirenhebushihe，zhishixiangfangfarangdiyicidejiaowangyuelaiyueqingqingsongsong、gaoxing。huanjiejinzhangdefangfabingbushibuduantishi、anshizhezishenbubijiaolvbuan，zhishixunzhaohuatitaolunzhaohuati，yongyouhuatitaolun，zhaowoliaozhaowoliaojiudangranbujiaolvbuanle。

 xiangyixiangzishenjinqidezhutihuodong、nianshu、dujialvyou、bagua、wangriqinshenjinglideng，huatitaolunfushijieshi。ziranla，nixianggeshicibaci，dangranyebujiaolvbuanle。

3、维持包容和赏析

 renyouqianwanzhong，renquanshiduocengcidehanshu，meiyicengmianyoudouyishijianheqinshenjingliweizhuyaocanshu。xiangqinyuehuiruhefangzhinankan，bubixinliyuqiyigelixianghuaairendebiaozhunmoxing。zheidoushinanrendeqigaihexionghuai。dangnizhuangbuxiabuyiyangderen，neiwulunlingyifangxiaitaoyanni，doushiyouyidingdejuedeerxincunjiedi。

 youhuizhongyingweichiduiwaikaifanghelianghaodexintai，zhenxinshiyidekuataren，zhenxinchengyiguanzhuta/ta，shangxita。zaihudongjiaoliuquanguochengzhongninengyulaiyuzhangwoyixingpengyou，lingwaiyeyulaiyurenshiziji。

4、liuyiguanchaweirenhexingqing

 zheihuajiangguoqianwanbian，danhuanshiyingshuo：budanxukanrongmao，gengxukanbenzhi。juedabufennanrendouhenzaiyirongmao，danbansuizhejingyandetigao，yedoushifanhuiweiren、xingqingzheizhonggengpingwengengshizhidefangmianshanglai。

 gaoshuaifuhexxoofashaoyouqingquanzidonghushicijie，buyaoshanghaiwomenaicuoqiong。nikeyizhaodeshiheshinishangxinishiyongnidejiajunvren，bingbushiyibianbierendejingxian，yebingbushiyibianshifenkechidexurong。weirenchahuoxingqingchadenvrenqianwanbiepeng，yushangjiudetuocengpi。

5、不必担心被回绝

 yaoquchuguanjunxiaoshouyuandexintaizhuangtaihegemingxianliedawuweidejingshenshizhichuqulang。xiangqinyuehuiruhefangzhinankan，beihuijuenankanshifenyiqiezhengchang，zandoubingbushiwanrenmi，meiyouliyoufengliutitanghuajianhuajiachejiancheluntaibaotai。

 bingqie，nikeyizhaodeshi“deneiyige”，meibixuyebutaikenengrangrenherenduinisixintadi。beihuijuesuanbushangbuchenggong，beihuijuedanshimeiyouganwuheqianxingcaisuanshizhenshidebuchenggong。

xiangqinyuehuiruhefangzhinankanjutifangfa：

 1、diyiciyuehuishi，bunengyongyingpianyumeiweijitayigeyiwaijingxi，ruguoniduitadexiezaoyishaoyouyigedi。daiyigeduinichedixinlaidekeliannvshengqukankan“tangdaihougongshidakuxing”burongyishigehaodianzide。

 2、tiqianzhunbeihaoyazhideyanxingjuzhiheyuyan，shihedexintaizhuangtaiherentijianju。zhangwohaozheiyijinjindiyibu，burongyiranglingyifangjuedeyoubushigandejuede。bianyunengjinyibuzouruyouhuidemubiao。

3、yidianyoumofengquhuijiushinishideyoujun，nvrenzongxiaihuidoutamenxiaoderen。

4、liuyiyaobazhijiajianqianjing。

 5、bubiduitarenxiabaicicideyouhuihechanshengdeshi，yibanneiyangdoushizhuanbianchengduodadebuzhengque。xiangjinyibuyouhuidehuayaofangzhizheizhongbubideshier。

 6、yaomingbaigoujianfenwei，duojialianxihuishinifazhan，danshizhongburongyizhenzhijizhi，zaiyujiannidexiaogongzhuyiqian，douyaoqinguozhichengqianshangwanbawanglongde，zhunimenhaoyun。yuenvyouyaogaojiyiliufushiyiliucanguanlingtarenweiniyeyiliumingbaishengchanzhizaofenweijianpinpaixingxiangfeichangrongyizhanhuochunxin。

 zheizhongshiyixiejichudenanrenyouhuideshouze，doushibixudenanshiyouhuidesuyang。shifangniwuqiongwujinfengcaiquzhuishangniyaoxiangderen，qingshikesuzaoniyaodegegefangmianweirenchushisuyang。

 xiangqinyuehuideneishihounanhaiziyaoyoujichudesuyang，nvhaixiangqinzuoshenme，danshenwangxiangqinyuehuiruhefangzhinankan，zuiguanjiandehuanshiyaozhuyaobiaoxianchushenshidexintai。neiyangnidexiangqinyuehuicaikeyishunliwancheng，xunzhaonixinaideta。lianaijiqiaoyounaxie?